Have'nt made her come yet! !

Wow…..I’ve come across a few posts on here where guys are saying I make her come three times every time I have sex with her they make it sound easy.

I’ve had two or three woman tell me that I made them come, but how can one be sure. One will say well if the sheets are soaked, but my girlfriend has came in front of me when masturbating & she did’nt soak the sheets.

I know where the **** is & the ****oris hood. I know the ***** & I’ve read several articles on how to get women to come info including, work her body up slowly, building her anticipation, legs, groin area, flaps of pu**y, lips of pu**y, then repeat cycle, then commit to the ****. I’ve tried a lot of stuff including adatapted missionary. I’ve fu*ked my girlfriend thirty times & she has said she has felt close to coming & been on the edge of coming, but has’nt came yet. ,

Any advice guys? I’ve really tried, but it just has’nt happened.

why would they lie about it?

If you have money ( if not save up money around 200$)

Tell her tonight or tomorrow to take Saturday off work because you got some plans for both of you.
Now you call a hotel and reserve a room , clean hotel will cost about 100$. The rest is for food and drinks.

Now to the sex part , I made every girl I slept with ***. For guys it's very easy to rush sex , a quick 10 mins sex and we are good. TAKE your time , lay her on the belly and tell her to close her eyes ..use body oils to massage her sensually.
If she is your girlfriend and you feel like giving her oral , lick between the tighs , tease her don't just give it to her because she is naked.

During sex your mind state should be " this body is mine , I'm going to tease and play around with her until you screams **** me".

In a rare case she could be one of the girls that can't achieve orgasm or YOU can give her the first one and she WILL worship you for life.

And talk to her bro , ask more questions about her body ...some girls like different stuff and try to be open to it. Example , one of my plates had the same issue and I asked her and she said , she just can't relax during sex ( this is IMPORTANT ) and her mind is over the place. Then I asked her why is that and she said she is not into the hard sex , she likes slow music and sensual sex.

Also I don't know if it's your fault or not. But as a man you need at least 20mins minimum stamina to please your girl. It's a good thing you are seeking help now though

I’ve tried going slow.

She has came in the past with a couple of men. She said it was one of her first sexual experiences so she was excited.

She has told me that the sex we have is the best she has ever had. She has even told other people things like she is sexually satisfied & “I deliver”

I have tried going slow, building it up mentally. Recently she has been that horny that when I've been teasing her...she has been begging for me to fu*k her. It was visable that she was frustrated & wanted coc* In the past though I have teased her a lot before fu*king her or going down on her **** with my tongue & still no orgasam. She has been ver close, but didn't go over the edge

I'll add that she is on the implant & it has been fu*king with her mind & body recently.

I've got good stamina

We have talked about it & she has shown me where abouts she likes her **** stimulated. I've watched her masturbate with her vibrator on her **** & yeah Mauser you're right BOOM. It does take her a while when she uses her fingers though.

Thanks a lot for the book recommendation =) i'll read that

It hasn't bothered me that much because I'm always learning & improving, but i'll read that book & keep trying

The more you worry about this, the worse it's going to get.

The tough part of sex and being a guy is performance anxiety - women can fake it, we can't. And you have to deal with it.

The last thing you need is to drive yourself nuts over this. You've got to find a way to relax.

Id recommend reading a lot of books on lovemaking and what women want

And then applying said research
I do also believe it's just not the sex itself but how a man makes a woman feel anyway by being alpha and fucbking her like one

From my own experience, I'm going to go with the exact opposite of what Mauser said and tell you that manual stimulation is the most effective...hands down (sorry, couldn't resist). Back in '03, I stumbled upon a female ejaculation video and I obsessively played it over and over, studying it, mesmerized by it, shocked that a woman's body was even capable of such a thing. I wasn't completely sold though. "How is that even physically possible?", I thought to myself. Despite my reservations, I was determined to find out whether or not I myself could make a girl explode like that. Pandora's Box (of curiosity) had been opened. It wasn't until I experimented with my girlfriend about a year later (took me about 3 months to figure it out) that I was able to confirm that yes, not only is this possible, but the orgasm can be so strong that she begs you to stop because she fears she's on the verge of blacking out, another time strong enough to even bring her to tears - yes, tears. About a year or two after we split, I met up with her one night, got down to business, brought her to a squirting orgasm as usual, and as soon as I finished, I noticed her crying, holding her face in her hands, repeatedly saying "I haven't cvm like that in so long". Since her, almost every single girl has had rave reviews about how I use my hands on them . A few that I remember from off the top of my head, all different girls - "My god, whatever you did with your fingers...Jesus!" - "I never knew I could gush like that!" - "Are you going to play my g-spot like a violin tonight or what?" - "I feel so bad about soaking your bed..." - "Should I bring a towel? Or two?" - "fvck yeah I did!" (on asking one girl whether she came or not when I brought her to a squirting orgasm with my fingers)


My go-to move - I personally like to first get her to lie on her back, then position myself on her right (since I'm a righty), curl up my index and middle finger, have her shoot her legs back toward her head, and in that position I get incredibly easy access to her g-spot. Other guys like to use their middle and ring finger in unison. Works too. I've tried it, but I prefer the former method - it's how I trained myself. The hands, in my opinion, are much more than that though. When used properly, you can communicate to her that her body is a work of art to be admired and not just the ultimate flesh light to help get you off. The bedroom is an excellent place to mix up alpha and beta tendencies (ex. run your fingers softly up and down her back, through her hair, then turn her over and fvck her hard like a cheap prostitute).

Keep experimenting - that's how I improved. FWBs and LTRs are great for that. Maybe you'll discover that you're a master with your tongue? Who knows? There's all sorts of videos online now demonstrating how to use your hands to do what I described above. Search for them. Above all, learn to pay very close attention to how she responds to what you do to her. Learn how to tune into her body. Every girl is unique. I've had some girls get off just by playing with their nipples, one actually came just by my spanking her bare ass, another wouldn't allow me to touch her cl1t, and yet another would ejaculate copious amounts if I rubbed her cl1t for long enough.

Edit: apologies, Mauser. I see now that you meant manual stimulation specifically in respect to the cl1t. And he's right (I think my only exception being the girl who could ejaculate if I rubbed it with my fingers, but I've never encountered one like that again)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=2193951, post #36 by lefty

My favorite way to give a woman the big-O is this^^^

THAT being said, my method above is not perfect and does not please 100% of women. No method does. But I have had a lot of success with it, enough to post it confidently on here for the world to see. There can be factors with each woman that are beyond your control.

We have talked about this before here on SS; women who use big fat dildos bigger than any human c0ck, 4x per day. I don't care if you are John Fing Holmes, she stretches that tuna tunnel enough it's going to be tougher for a man to hit it right, and that ain't any man's fault.

I have read too that women with emotional scars from the past can have trouble with the big-O.

I had one woman tell me she has never had a guy get her off in any way. And in a 6 month LTR I didn't either.

Another woman, 27 at the time, said I was #7 she had ever railed, and the first to ever give her the O-storm.

Another woman, 38, said I was only the second guy to ever give her the O-storm (one I am hitting now actually). I'm not sure about her history. She hasn't offered, and I haven't asked.

So let your woman help herself if that's what it takes, and keep practicing. Don't take it all personally, that's for sure. Ever notice watching porn, you will see guys railing women who are hung like a horse, but yet the woman is still helping herself..

Another thing too. I don't have the hugest c0ck in the world. I'm not no needle d|ck or anything, but I would say width is solid average and length is average at best. But what the hell can I do about it? Blame my parents? Do some cr@zy c0ck lengthening jazz that may cause me permanent damage? Blame God? Blame Obama? lmao forget it!! I am who I am! I've had many, many, women flat out tell me "You aren't the biggest down there but d@mn you know how to use that Fing thing and hit it just right! sssshiiiiiiiit!!" So if you are lacking in length, make it up with some extra skill if you can.. Plus I have stamina in my favor too which helps. Work on that if you have to.

Just keep at it, sarge on, and be proud!

I really don't see how it is so hard to please a woman in bed. Just gauge her reaction and moans. Girls have told me that I'm the best they ever had and that they have never been this wet. Jacking off too much helped me too because I can't orgasm through regular intercourse. Mauser is right about giving girls an orgasm. I usually finger them or make them finger themselves mutually.

Research the A-spot/Deep spot and have fun. (think of it like a more intense g-spot near the womans cervix. Fingers reach it best, but depending on the size of the girl's vaginal canal and the size of your penis, you can hit it during intercourse as well)

And stop worrying so much. Be confident in bed, and aim to just have fun. Dont overthink, and always aim to please and things will be fine.

I dont always come from BJs or sex, but I enjoy it all just the same. Sometimes you just cant make it happen. This just tends to be a lot more common in women. Sometimes its down to their sexual experience, or their physiology, or because they have an inattentive guy.

Dont be that guy, and youll be just peachy. You'd be surprised how many people (yes men and women) that are crap in bed. Empathy and a real desire to please is what makes for a good sexual partner.

I like being a cunning linguist, because it makes me less of a master debater.

You give her oral, right? As you are doing that and she gets wet, insert one, and then later two, fingers in her. If she's on her back, your knuckles will be down. Then make a "come here" gesture with your finger(s). Her g-spot is on the top side of her vagina where your fingers will stroke.

Orgasm for a woman is part ****oral, part vaginal. Some women are 100% one and 0% the other, others are 50/50 either way. Every woman is different. A lot of the female orgasm is in their head and just takes practice.

one thing to take into consideration is that... women need to feel REALLY HORNY to be able to have an orgasm. They are not like men. Us men can cvm if women touch our di-ck even if we dont feel attracted to them, we're tired, or we're...blindfolded.
In other words, she has to find you sexy, and she was to desire you.

Besides, you have to make her wet slowly, you cannot rush it unless she is so horny that she cant wait, and she will tell you so. If it is a normal day, you have to make her wet/horny slowly. Taking your time taking off her clothes, touching her everywhere, caressing her, teasing her etc. And once she is super horny then you start to touch her ****, and once she likes the way you're touching it YOU KEEP DOING IT, you do not change, you keep touching it the same way until she has an orgams (increasing speed of course).

If she doesnt cvm like this, she is either: not attracted to you, frigid, has some kind of problem either mentally or physically.


Just that.

pyros said:

one thing to take into consideration is that... women need to feel REALLY HORNY to be able to have an orgasm. They are not like men. Us men can cvm if women touch our di-ck even if we dont feel attracted to them, we're tired, or we're...blindfolded.
In other words, she has to find you sexy, and she was to desire you.
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There have been NUMBEROUS studies that indicate this as a descernable fact. A woman's ability to achieve orgasm is directly proportional to a woman level of the attraction she has for the man. The more sexually interested the faster and more intensely she will cvm. It doesn't mean you can't work it and make it happen, but this is a red flag that if she's having a problem she's not feeling it. She might love you, but she isn't feeling the passion.

pyros said:

Besides, you have to make her wet slowly, you cannot rush it unless she is so horny that she cant wait, and she will tell you so. If it is a normal day, you have to make her wet/horny slowly. Taking your time taking off her clothes, touching her everywhere, caressing her, teasing her etc. And once she is super horny then you start to touch her ****, and once she likes the way you're touching it YOU KEEP DOING IT, you do not change, you keep touching it the same way until she has an orgams (increasing speed of course).

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Yep... go slow... tease her. You have to understand something about women, they are VERY anxious when they are having sex with you, especially the first few times you do it with her. She wants to cvm, but she is worried she won't this worry is distracting and it becomes a self-fullfilling prophesy of failure. You have to get her to the point where she's not worried about it.

If you are going to be REALLY good with women, you MUST be good at reading her body language and how she is responding to you. If you sence a woman is tense, then you just need to go slow. I might spend 30 minutes getting a woman warmed up... it can be a lot of work... but it's worth it. I'll tell you the older you get the easier this is. What works for me when I'm with a woman that I'm sensing tension, is I'll say something like "Relax, I've been waiting for this all day so I'm going to take my time and enjoy this." Then take my time, it gets her to relax, because she knows I'm going to go slow, because it's what I WANT TO DO. If she thinks you are enjoying the teasing and slow seduction she's going to enjoy it more.

Explore her body and read how she is responding, if you can tell she is responding favorably to something you are doing, then fvck KEEP DOING IT. There is no secret code, every woman is different, they like different postions, thier soft lady parts are different... you can not expect that any two women will respond to the same thing.

pyros said:

If she doesnt cvm like this, she is either: not attracted to you, frigid, has some kind of problem either mentally or physically.


Just that.

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True. Accept this. I've been with women that no matter what I do I can not get a favorable response. If you think you've made your best effort, then you need to dump her. TRUST ME, you do not want to be hooking up with a woman that you can not make cvm. Sooner of later she will start to blame you, and it's really not you, it's that she's just not feeling it for you.

Not suggesting that you should not try to be the best you can be in bed, but NEVER take all the responsibility for her responses. That's NICE GUY behavior and it will eventually turn her off. Her interest in you will drop like a rock... nice guys finsh last.

Great Thread – i got very little experience in female orgasms because near enough all the sex I’ve had has been casual as FVCK

To be honest I’ve never really cared whether they get off or not

I screw them pump my load and send them on they’re way

When i was in my late teens this was fine

Now As I’m starting to get older I’m realizing the stakes in the bedroom need to be raised in order to get her fantasying over you

I know chicks in their early 20’s that will literally compare every minute of a sexual encounter with each other

If you get a bad review the whole group can go off you real quick

Attempting to her her to squirt is now an essential

Yes I am aware that the majority of it is mental. Still good to know what you're doing though.
Depends on the situation. Some girls get excited when in new sexual situations i.e getting fu*ked by her boss over his work desk. Some girls are nervous in new sexual situations

Was talking to my GF couple hours ago. Somehow we started talking about sex. I was telling her that I still enjoy having sex with her & love exploring her body. I told her I enjoy it every single time. About how every time I look upon it as new. I told her that I have a few new tricks up my sleeve for her, for next time. Well not tricks, just that like I said every time feels new to me with her body.

She was saying that when she came with two previous lads (the only two she has ever came with) she was'nt masturbating at the time, so she found it easier to come. She said that I'm unfortunate because she is HORNY all the time now & masturbating a lot so it's not as easy.

She has had about 5 lovers In her life. She said me & two others knew what we were doing down there, the other two didn't have a clue. I've been with her longer than the two who knew what they were doing. I can remember her telling me after I fu*ked her once that "sex with me is the best"

She has stopped using her vibrator for a few month, but still did'nt come with me. She was saying we should get one of those vibrator gadgets that fit on the end of the tongue & use them on each other fine by me

I've ordered a couple books on this & will look into it more.

Thanks for the advice guys it has helped.

I have been patient I have been seeing her for six month & she hasn't came yet & will continue to be

She is aware that I want to please her & I'm taking her satisfaction into consideration.

I've worked her up so she's very, very, wet. There was a big wet patch on her sheet once. She was soaking down there. She loves my co*k.

I remember one time not long ago, she was so frustrated that I was taking my time. She was wet & begging for it. I was telling her patience & good things come to those who wait I would kiss her nipple, then when I went down to her stomach I could see her twisting her face clearly frustrated. I think she just wanted FUC*ED.
The whole slow process of building her up is great & I cannot recommend it enough, but sometimes girls just want a good hard FUC*ING

rubbing my gfs nipples makes her wild lol

Get her a micro-bullet vibe:
http://www.amazon.com/California-Ex...8&qid=1422576740&sr=8-1&keywords=micro+bullet

It needs to be a "micro" bullet and not the larger bullet types. The micro is a lot stronger and more intense. Have her rub her cl!t with it while you fvck her from behind.

Sex God Method.. read it.

I've been reading she comes first & it has helped.

I've been using the advice given in the book on my GF.

She prefers me to concentrate on the area she does when she's masturbating. I've done that in the past & she hasn't came, but the last couple of times she has.

Fireballs said:

Sex God Method.. read it.

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Looks like that book is'nt sold in the UK.

It isn't on Amazon.co.uk.

I think I would of learnt from that book. Oh well.

On a brighter note. I made her come for me for the first time on Valentines day using my tongue between her legs.

Thanks a lot for the advice guys. It helped a lot