Hi
I don't know if I like my girlfriend enough. If everything is going well, I don't care if I don't see her or not, I sometimes make something up to not see her so I can do something else I want to do more at that moment. But if we had a fight it's the complete way around, I want to see her because I'm afraid she will leave me, I feel like the ball is in her camp and try to be as sweet as possible to not upset her. I feel like I'm this nice guy who is afraid of everything. I feel down and not engage myself in any activities because I feel bad about our fight and I'm afraid she will leave me. If a few days pass and I feel all is normal again, I don't care again...
What should I do? I don't know if I love her. I like her, she's a fun person and I love spending time with her, but I guess just not enough?
I don't know if I like my girlfriend enough. If everything is going well, I don't care if I don't see her or not, I sometimes make something up to not see her so I can do something else I want to do more at that moment. But if we had a fight it's the complete way around, I want to see her because I'm afraid she will leave me, I feel like the ball is in her camp and try to be as sweet as possible to not upset her. I feel like I'm this nice guy who is afraid of everything. I feel down and not engage myself in any activities because I feel bad about our fight and I'm afraid she will leave me. If a few days pass and I feel all is normal again, I don't care again...
What should I do? I don't know if I love her. I like her, she's a fun person and I love spending time with her, but I guess just not enough?