If you come to a conclusion the "problem" is inside, skip the sauce and go down to the video seminar on the bottom.
I understand my credibility is dubious right now, but I used to post here back in the day. Become frustrated and left. It simply took too much time to post here and I figured I have better things to do, than repeat the same mantra.
What made me come back is, I discovered potential game changer and wanted to share it with you. It is not a magic pill. It of course demands effort out of you.
Let me show you how I come to it first.
I walked the way most of you walk.
Having my low self esteem from I guess not being recognized as a Man by my father and tribe. And not really knowing what that is, thanks to easy living and feminizing efforts of society. I got frustrated. Did some dangerous things trying to prove my worth...and it didn't quite work out. It helped but not all the way.
Admittied I have a problem.
Discovering some pick up information.
Got some confidence/reassurance boost from all the useful information.
Went out and gained more confidence and confusion.
.........you know the story....
But still there were times when I wasn't feeling it. Sometimes shyt tests or being complacent triggered unease and I blew it etc.
I sensed there is still something rotten inside.
I came accross Tyler Durdens RSD Blueprint, where he speaks about Ego.
Wow. It might be it. He mentioned Eckhart Tolle. I read it and had a breaktrough. I finally found the peace or at least I knew it was there and how to achieve it. Everything he spoke about just clicked in place. It should, because his teachings are actually well presented ideas of Buddhism, Zen, Tao, Jesus, Aristotle, Marcus Aurelius, suffi and kaballah mystics etc.
I tried to "preach" it to other people but no luck. Fair enough. It is spiritual teaching, murky mumbo jumbo and you have to be on the brink of awakening to see his point anyway.
I searched for other evidence. In pop culture I found Revolver movie from Guy Ritchie of all places to be compatible with Eckhart Tolle's teachings. The movie is pretty straight forward if you know what to look for. Most of the viewvers did not get it. I didn't when I saw it years before.
And then one day, when researching Anarcho Capitalism and the nightmare of feminist/statist disaster on family, men and chldren,
.... well he involves in organizations against child abuse and one link lead me...
I came across this guy. He is a therapist, no mystic or spiritual guru. So he has credibility. And basically he teaches how to be stable grown up in order to live happy life and raise your children properly. No more hang ups, shyt tests knocking you down etc.
I won't go in to detail. He explains it the best. I believe with all my experience and research it is a game changer. Just remeber, just because you feel normal, you had normal childhood and no dramatic traumas this does not apply to you. It DOES.
Let me present you Mr. Peter K. Gerlach
Founder of Break the Cycle
website - FREE
His book: Who is running your life?
hopefully free one day
And mainly his Youtube introduction:
An overview of Lesson 1 - reduce your psychological wounds