Originally Posted by FairShake
As someone who has hung out in gay clubs both pelt hunting and socially I can tell you gay clubs are not the best places to find women. At least not going in like you guys are.
Much like guys complain women of today are going out to clubs today with the sole intent of hanging with their girlfriends all night in a circle while avoiding our best lines and intentions, straight women in a gay club go to hang out with their gay friends. And their defenses are even stronger since they are there with the single-minded intent NOT to talk to you or any other straight guy. I think this is one of those myths passed on by straight guys who wouldn't be caught dead in gay clubs.
Now...I have hooked up at gay clubs. But only after being introduced by my gay friends. Not by going undercover and trying to trick girls. Not by trying to convert possible "gay until graduation" girls (doing that may get your ass kicked by the more righteous dykes). Only by using "social circle" game and raising my "nice guy" social proof with my gay friends have I been able to hook up at these venues. Gay guys can be the most vicious cockblockers or your best friend. It's your choice.
Maybe your experience is different...
However, I never said gay clubs were the best places to meet women, just that if you're into nightclubs, they can be a fun and often untapped niche straight guys can work. Just like in a straight club you have women, people in general really, who go out with the intention of only socializing within their social groups; that's social environments period, as most people in groups are generally wary of strangers. But in my experience, gay clubs seem to be fertile ground for women looking to experiment, with both men and other women.
Again, the overall vibe of most gay clubs is open, fun and exciting, and because most straight women are there with their friends in a gay environment, they expect most men there to be gay. Therefore, it's usually much easier to open sets just by being a friendly, cool (presumably gay) guy, as opposed to in straight clubs where every girl knows your intentions from the moment you open your mouth.
It's not so much about "tricking" girls into doing anything or attempting to convert chicks from gay to straight. It's more about functioning in an environment where there are a fair amount of open-minded, sexually adventurous women present.