OK today not thinking much on my interaction with my financial advicers assistant she called me wanting me to come in and sign some papers.

This lady is 45 in great shape with 3 daughters in the high school age range and to beat all it seems every woman lately has more then one kid not that this turns me off it's just wierd and funny for these babes are fit and fine and I don't see a bit of fat on they're bones and they look like their in their 20's.

I have known this lady only in the business since of the relationship for now a year.

What I noticed today was she had on jeans that had holes in the front thigh area they were designer jeans and I complimented her that I liked them and she said she wasn't really allowed to wear this type of jeans but she was the only one there when I was there talking and she hoped the financial advicer her boss wouldn't show up. She is normally dressed very conservatively key word conservatively but not today.

She then started telling me about some man that made her uncomfortable about him almost having an accident when he saw her in a dress one day when he saw her getting out of her Lexus and she said it made her uneasy for the man was in his 60's and had said it was because of her was the reason he was putting all his money in their financial instuition and some other comments he made toward her that made her uncomfortable.

She then said I was such a nice guy as I don't come across like that or creepy I said thank you but I corrected her and said no I am not a nice guy in the since that I dont keep to myself if I am sexually attracted to someone but I consider myself a good guy and when the time is appropricate they will know where I stand in which she says women know from the start wants on a mans mind. She then agrees and says to me yeah your such a good guy and your sweet in which I said well thank you.

The weather was nice outside and she was looking forward to the weekend as she had plans to go out. I asked her so are you going out with your girlfriends and she says yes. I said it's good to have friends to go out with in which she says they're what keep her sane. She continued and said they had planned on going to a night club but that wasn't her thing so they decided on Atlanta Mall shopping instead. She said she was raised in church and didn't drink or party like that about the night club thing in which I thought thats a good sign.

I noticed throughout this interaction her legs were wide open facing me and she appeared a bit nervious in a good way.

Before I left I said to her I am not promising anything but maybe we can get together some time in which she replied sure maybe lunch in which I said that would be OK in which I said we can talk some more in which she put her head down as if embarrassed not sure if that was a good sign as she was red in the face. My feeling is she hasn't been with anyone since her divorce is a possibility and could explain the red face nerviousness and I want to take this slow.

She has previously told me she just loves a man with facial hair and said it's just somehing about a man with facial hair. I have a goatee and she even suggested how I should trim it like keep the sides shaved in which I do anyway this was suggested a few months back.

She has been divorced for 4 years and she admitted she wasn't seeing anyone in a round about way because she told me her girlfriends the ones she will be with this weekend have boyfriends with motorcycles and they when the weather is good go riding and she usually is at home alone.

Any red flags comments whats your take?

Tomorrow I am going to see about another lady I spoke to a little bit earlier last week and see whats up with her so I am opening the doors with other ladies while I have my sight on that one blonde I made a thread on in which I am staying away from for a couple weeks.

I'll know I've arrived as a financial advisor when I can pay my assistant enough to drive a Lexus (unless it's a ghetto Lexus from the 90's).

What does he drive, an Aston Martin?

Which house is he with? If it rhymes with Jed Bones, I'm betting he sold you municipal bonds, maybe even within a ladder strategy. Not that there's anything wrong with that, I am a huge fan of laddering munis due to their decent yield and they have unrivaled tax incentives. Just never buy insurance or an annuity from a Jed Bones guy, their company insists on offering only the sh!ttiest products from the least-solvent insurance companies.

I would love to hear what you are investing in, PM me if you wish.

As far as the ASSistant goes, that's a tough call. Gaming women in "professional" situations is dicey. I've got a smokin' and TINY (maybe 5'0") haircutter who goes back and forth with me the whole time I'm there, supercharged sexual tension in the air. However, she's bar none the best I've ever had, and I'd hate to make a move only for it to become awkward and have to go find a new one. In your situation, you hold the cards and she is entirely replaceable, so I would be more likely to engage.

Julius I've send you a PM.

Julius_Seizeher said:

I'll know I've arrived as a financial advisor when I can pay my assistant enough to drive a Lexus (unless it's a ghetto Lexus from the 90's).

What does he drive, an Aston Martin?

Which house is he with? If it rhymes with Jed Bones, I'm betting he sold you municipal bonds, maybe even within a ladder strategy. Not that there's anything wrong with that, I am a huge fan of laddering munis due to their decent yield and they have unrivaled tax incentives. Just never buy insurance or an annuity from a Jed Bones guy, their company insists on offering only the sh!ttiest products from the least-solvent insurance companies.

I would love to hear what you are investing in, PM me if you wish.

As far as the ASSistant goes, that's a tough call. Gaming women in "professional" situations is dicey. I've got a smokin' and TINY (maybe 5'0") haircutter who goes back and forth with me the whole time I'm there, supercharged sexual tension in the air. However, she's bar none the best I've ever had, and I'd hate to make a move only for it to become awkward and have to go find a new one. In your situation, you hold the cards and she is entirely replaceable, so I would be more likely to engage.

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Anymore comments from others on this situation would be appreciated.

Thanks

Ask her out, to a specific place, for a specific time, only once, and make sure it comes across as no big deal.

Find a decent restaurant in the area, and call her one or two days ahead of time and have her meet you there. Make sure it sounds like it's no big deal. Don't explain yourself, don't bring up any previous conversations. Keep the conversation less than a minute.

Like this:

Hey assistant, this is PL. Say I'm gonna be around there day after tomorrow, and there's a good sushi restaurant (or whatever) over on (wherever) Why don't you meet me there or lunch at 12:30?

Don't call back to confirm or any of that bullshyt. Just show up.

If she says yes, and meets you, she's interested. If she says no, move on.

No biggie. Plenty of fish.

OK sounds good as always good advice.

Thanks

I don't really have any advice, other than to say she sounds promising. There could be issues with the three kids, or she could be flaky, but you'll never know until you try. In fact, the three kids could scare some guys off, so if you don't mind that's to your advantage.

She made mention that all her daughters had boyfriends and had their own lives which seems to tell me they won't be interferring if I do hang with her for awhile.

Definitely not interested in being their daddy just some companionship and some booty for now is find with me for she is one hot lookin' 45 year old.....!

zekko said:

I don't really have any advice, other than to say she sounds promising. There could be issues with the three kids, or she could be flaky, but you'll never know until you try. In fact, the three kids could scare some guys off, so if you don't mind that's to your advantage.

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