Do you find it hard to be friends with a female in general and one you like? This has got to be hard with a women you like. I don't know... Long story short. Women I worked with was told was getting divorced. Husband cheated on her with two women in their own apt complex. Then I heard she took him back.

I backed off a bit. When she forgave him, she disappeared. We talked a bit yesterday and she said "Don't be a stranger. Call me sometimes. I wll talk to you later". How would you read into that? It's hard being friends with a female just a bit. When she took her hubby back I was suprised. At this point, I've moved on and will look elsewhere. I'll still be cool with her.

nope, I don't believe women and men and men can be friends. I've had female friends and as soon as they got a bf, they disappeared.

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nope, I don't believe women and men and men can be friends. I've had female friends and as soon as they got a bf, they disappeared.

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Yeah pretty much. You get maybe a couple out of the hundreds you meet who are friend material but other than that, its in our DNA to not have platonic relationships.

Any guys who is willing to argue against this either 1. Has found at least one girl who is down to earth or 2. hes a friendzoned *****

There is no such thing. The only reason a male and a female are friends is most likely because one of the two has [false]hopes of fücking the other.

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nope, I don't believe women and men and men can be friends. I've had female friends and as soon as they got a bf, they disappeared.

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You can be friends with a girl who's into you. It's convenient when you're already with someone and you don't feel like doing more than one woman at once. When you break up, you can upgrade your friend.

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You can be friends with a girl who's into you. It's convenient when you're already with someone and you don't feel like doing more than one woman at once. When you break up, you can upgrade your friend.

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tried that and she started playing games, so I went nc.

To be honest, I have quite a few "girl" friends. They're all fun, down-to-earth people. I'm not friendzoned and they aren't ugly, I just have better options and/or not particularly attracted to them.

Why wouldn't you be friends with girls? They introduce you to other girls. They're your pipeline.

I didn't have that many female friends while I was at school, but then I got to university and was living with 3 girls in my flat. Those 3 girls I consider good friends, and don't really think of them in a sexual way at all, so the friendship works.

Other girls, I like them sexually, some of them have friendzoned me, others it's a nice flirty relationship, but I haven't made a move for certain reasons. These friendships aren't quite as strong, but they are still friendships and I enjoy spending time with these girls.

Then there's those I'm not into, they are either boring as ****, so I'm not friends with them, or they have a cool personality.

I don't think there's anything wrong with having female friends, but I do understand why some guys don't really like having them. When you're with a group of them, it can be terrible, which is why I try and keep to only seeing them in groups of 2 or so.

I guess it is possible to be friends with a girl, if there isn't any sexual desire, or if there's mutual attraction, at least that's how my friendship's with girls have worked, if the attraction is one sided they never work out.

A guys company is much better than any girl in most cases anyway. There's a reason that this year I'm living with 5 other guys, and the girls are next door.

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It's possible, but the circumstances have to be right. My female friends are mostly married and I am not particularly attracted to them. Being honest tho, I would certainly **** them if the opportunity presented itself.

A poster above hit the nail on the head: female friends introduce you to their friends!!!

Absolutely I can be...and am...friends with women. Indeed several of my most treasured friendships are with women. It's hard to connect with guys on that level. If you don't have any you are definitely missing out.

That said if I am attracted to them then it won't work out very long. Either we bang and our friendship is corrupted or I get mad I can't bang and our friendship is corrupted.

I can't be friends with a woman i am attracted to...i am either banging her or getting rejected by her, unfortunately, usually the latter.....there is no in the middle for me....

besides the majority of women are too catty to make good friends...almost all of my GFs or plates over time and even my sister have always told me how difficult it is to find a true friend in a girl.....

Yeah with the female I am referring too she is so fine. LOL... It's hard for me not be friends when I wanna blow her back out lol. Anyway, if she took her cheating husband back why she wanna be friends with me? "Don't be a stranger, call me sometimes". Have I been friendzoned?