“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ Bax

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I went to a house party/get together last night. Two girls from work and one girl I used to work with, one of the girls I currently work with has been showing me signs of interest and her friends say she thinks I'm cute.

Anyways I get there and all three of the girls are drunk, we need cups for beer pong so the girl that likes me and I go and get them in her car. While we are gone she says something along the lines of "Girl X (one who I used to work with) dared me or the other girl to make out with you by the end of the night." So at the first stop sign I came to I leaned over and kisser her, and she said "Well that wasn't really a make out" and I said ,"You can have more later."

We get back there and I kill 5 shots of vodka in 10 minutes (big mistake) and then proceed to play beer pong and drink bud light platinums (these things **** me up, bad idea number two) and every 15 or so minutes we go outside for a cigarette break. I have quit cigarettes but the girl that likes me smokes them and once I was drunk I had two or three with her. She kept trying to kiss me but I said ,"I hate the smell of cigarettes so your not allowed to kiss me right after you have smoked." This really got to her and once we were both royally f'd up she kept trying to kiss me. Then like 10 minutes later we made out and she was like "I'm not going to have sex with you tonight because the other girl we work with said you only wanted to use me for sex." and my response was something along the lines of ok? I never mentioned anything about sex lol.

Two more people from work showed up and we went back and played more beer pong and at this point I was like 5hit I'm getting really messed up so I went upstairs to sleep on the couch because I was worried I was going to be sick. So I fell asleep but she came upstairs like 20 minutes later and woke me up. When I woke up I was like damn, I'm sick. I then threw up but I pulled my shirt over my mouth so that I didn't throw up all over the place in the house. I managed to keep from getting it all over the place.
So me and the girl that likes/liked me went downstairs to the bathroom so I could shower and she could wash my clothes. I stripped right in front of her and got in the shower, I felt really self conscious because when my **** is soft its so small! I don't remember what happened after I got out of the shower I woke up in the morning in gym shorts on another couch.

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So basically, I ****ed up. It looks like I can't hold my liquor, but I threw up because I killed those shots so fast. I'm going to guess that she won't like me after this because it also looks like I have a small prick. But could I care? Nope.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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DJ Bax said:
So me and the girl that likes/liked me went downstairs to the bathroom so I could shower and she could wash my clothes. I stripped right in front of her and got in the shower
Interesting story. The fact this girl is following you around the place like a lost puppy trying to kiss you and helped you strip off in the shower because you threw up.. what was wrong with a new shirt and a towel down huh? :D I think your doing fine...


DJ Bax said:
I have quit cigarettes but the girl that likes me smokes them and once I was drunk I had two or three with her.
More worried about this, dont let her get to you. Your health and beating the addiction should come first. Maybe not a big deal to you but sounds like shes trying to sway your personal judgement.
 

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You dragged out the escalation a little long for my tastes. I understand that by withholding and not being a fiend boy it shows, that your outcome dependent and arent really worried about sex...which results in an attraction spike in the girl. However, i just would have made out with her at that stop sign. Couple of mins of that then say "Alright, we should get back to our friends" *insert wicked smirk*.

Then play push pull all night with her like you did. Obviously you getting schmammered and puking like a chump is pretty pathetic lol and a huge fail. Minus 10 man points. Hopefully no one tooled you and drew d1cks on your face. In hindsight getting less drunk would have resulted with you getting laid. WHEN A GIRL SAYS SHE DOESNT WANT TO HAVE SEX....IT REALLY MEANS...SHE WANTS TO HAVE SEX
 

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Yeah I need to be adamant about the cigarettes. While we were making out I was thinking in my head how we were both thinking the same thing then she came out with the little we're not having sex line. I'm worried since she saw me soft thought she's not going to want to **** because she'll think I have a little **** lol.
 

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Like TheException said, you went too far with the "push pull". If she's that willing...just make the move.
 

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I'm probably going to see this girl at work tomorrow (Don't **** where you eat, I know. I'm getting a new job very soon) and I don't know if I should ask her out on a date or just try and "hang out" with her.
 
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