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Wife doesnt want her family to know that I know secret

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Hey guys,

After being together 3 years my wife recently told me a blockbuster secret involving her family.

Everyone in her family knows about the secret , except the one person who would be hurt most by this.

She told me many times that I cant tell anyone about this which is fine and understandable, but last night I casually asekd her if she told hee sister , mother etc that I knew and that she had told me. She got very excited and told me no , and that they will never know know as long as they live that I know.

I thought this was really ridiculous, I am after all her husband who presumably is told everything........we ended up getting in a fight over the whole thing. I feel I am part of her family and she is part of mine, I honestly dont see the problem with her telling her sister that I know about this secret.

Should I care about this ? Somehow I feel insulted.

All thoughts welcome please.

Thanks.
 

LMFAO

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Women love secrets. Social retardation.
 

Burroughs

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Are you hiding something on grand cayman? :)
 

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I think that it was very silly of you to have an argument over something so meaningless. there's plenty of conflict over stuff that DOES mean something
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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