“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When you forget her name....

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So I've been trying this out for years and I've discovered it's a pretty solid tactic.

When I'm talking to chick and get lost on a thread or maybe the conversation was actually interesting sometimes I space her name.

While I realize the inherent fail of this, I just go for the gold.

Me: "So you're name is Frank, right?" I use Ted and Leo regularly also.

The reaction is always humorous

If they're really interested they'll tell you again. If they got a sense of humor they'll respond by addressing you with a girl's name.

Even if it's a complete fail and they disengage you can always orbit back during the night and address her by assigned name and convo starts again with a humorous twist.

It also can make for a great push/pull tactic if you do remember her name and your just messing with her.
 
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I usually ask her how to spell her name, bring it up somehow in conversation with humor, but i think i might use that one too. Could def work well for me.
 
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That's a good tip, here's what I do. It's a little more direct and is a great conversation starter.

When I forget a name (or sometimes at the beginning), I say:

'I'm really bad with names. It takes me forever to memorize someone's name unless I can associate something special with it. What's special about you? Make it rhyme.'

If she says she has a cat, I'll call her 'Crissy the cat lady'. It's a 'pet name', you'll actually REMEMBER her name, and it's a subtle neg all in one ... no one wants to be a cat lady. See what I did there?

It doesn't have to be a neg, or even rhyme really, but something quirky. Even sexual. A girl I recently laid told me she squirted within minutes of meeting me (I don't remember how we got on that topic). So I called her 'Sarah (not her real name) the squirter'.

It's a great memorization technique, it makes your interaction unique, and you'll score some points by remembering.
 
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muscleman said:
That's a good tip, here's what I do. It's a little more direct and is a great conversation starter.

When I forget a name (or sometimes at the beginning), I say:

'I'm really bad with names. It takes me forever to memorize someone's name unless I can associate something special with it. What's special about you? Make it rhyme.'

If she says she has a cat, I'll call her 'Crissy the cat lady'. It's a 'pet name', you'll actually REMEMBER her name, and it's a subtle neg all in one ... no one wants to be a cat lady. See what I did there?

It doesn't have to be a neg, or even rhyme really, but something quirky. Even sexual. A girl I recently laid told me she squirted within minutes of meeting me (I don't remember how we got on that topic). So I called her 'Sarah (not her real name) the squirter'.

It's a great memorization technique, it makes your interaction unique, and you'll score some points by remembering.
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I like this^^^^. I've done what Crissco was saying, ask them how to spell it, even if it's a name like "Jill" after she says J-I-L-L and gives you a puzzled look, you can just BS her and say you've seen it spelled with one L and just wanted to make sure.
 
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If I'm getting a number it's easy. I just say "how do you spell your name?" I've never seen a girl not happy to spell it out. If she was, I probably wouldn't call her anyway.
 
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Uncharted said:
If I'm getting a number it's easy. I just say "how do you spell your name?" I've never seen a girl not happy to spell it out. If she was, I probably wouldn't call her anyway.
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Or you could just hand your phone to her and tell her to put it in. Also known as 'compliance testing', and you won't mess anything up.
 
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As unexciting as it is, I just look at her dead in her eye and I'll say, "Listen I completely forgot your name. Give it to me one more time." Be bold. Don't be OVERLY apologetic. Women respond to strength and boldness

Women respect that sh*t. Real talk.

In the meantime, there are ways you can get better at remembering her name. Every chick I used to have on my roster also got a powerpoint slide.

(Excerpt from my book/graphic: https://fbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/942664_4946208852829_1914135133_n.jpg )

I also "code" chicks names in my phone. For example, if I meet a cute chick at the club named Ashley who has a nice rack and a big butt, I'll put her name in my phone like: "Ashley ClubRackBB"
 
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