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Have a good friend at work. He's a good looking guy and his wife is a little petite hottie. We get to talking as guys do and the subject of wife swapping comes up. I asked him if he could really give his wife up to some other guy and sit there and watch him rail her. He said yup, just so long as I get to bang his wife.

Keep in mind he is not suggesting that we swap. He knows that is a place I could not go.

So here is the question. Be truthful. How many of you guys could honestly swap or swing with another couple? Could you really do it in good concious?
 

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Never. If someone else touched my wife, they are getting beat down. Alot of people are into this though. If you let her do this, what else is she doing? This is the ultimate NON boundary.
 

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No way, not with a wife or serious girlfriend. I'll be the first to admit it would drive me mad with jealousy knowing she enjoyed some other guy's ramrod. Only could do it with a FB I really didn't care that much about.
 

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One of the good things about being married is that you own that ass and if someone violates you can send them into a coma. It's a power trip and control thing. Why would you give that up for no good reason?
 

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One other thing. If your wife agrees to this, what does it say about you? It means your wife desires strange ****. If you marry a woman who agrees to something like this, you have failed.
 

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What are you afraid of, that she might like it? Oh what horror, that the person you love is having fun and being happy. That is just awful. And if you think any particular woman in the world does not have sex fantasies about being treated like a wh0re, then that woman is a fine actress.

Some women have a very real bi side. And guess what, as a man, you simply don't have the tools to fill that need. Other women have a DP fantasy and really want two d!cks at once. I'm guessing most of us here just have one d!ck. It's the fragile male ego that keeps couples from swinging much more often than it is the woman. Women tend to be mature enough to handle it.

Just last night, (like the writer Dave Barry says, I swear I'm not making this up) I was emailing with a college girl from craigslist. She has natural g-cup t!ts and a body like the porn star Gianna Michaels. She wanted a threesome last night, but my gf was tired from the past weekend and I had to tell her no. That takes maturity to not be a d!ck about it, but patience and a laid-back attitude is the way to go. I got her number and hope that the three of us can all fvck this weekend. Maybe she'll grab my gf, throw her down, and scissor her like mad until she has an incredible lesbo orgasm that I can't give her. It's happened before.

My idea of loving someone is wanting to help them get as much enjoyment as possible out of life. That's more important than catering to my own ego. And if your relationship is good in the first place, then whatever you are afraid of probably isn't going to happen.
 

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Hell no... But what about a group sex scenerio without sharing? Just looking and being in a room full of ppl having sex? Never done that personally but I would consider it as long as we all agreed to no touching anyone but your partner.
 

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Never mind, in the wrong forum.
 

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It's all about experience.

This couple got 4 children being,
one strong big hairy man,
one 32DDD athletic woman
with an active sex life.

If his fathering skills are awesome i would dress myself as a little child and scream adopt me. I would say Plenty to learn from.

skip through their submitted posts

reddit.com
/r/Swingers/comments/
1knlvk/as_promised_our_first_swinging_club_experience/

Sidenote: Of what this man created is a direction in which i want to grow
 

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Bible_Belt said:
What are you afraid of, that she might like it? Oh what horror, that the person you love is having fun and being happy. That is just awful. And if you think any particular woman in the world does not have sex fantasies about being treated like a wh0re, then that woman is a fine actress.

Some women have a very real bi side. And guess what, as a man, you simply don't have the tools to fill that need. Other women have a DP fantasy and really want two d!cks at once. I'm guessing most of us here just have one d!ck. It's the fragile male ego that keeps couples from swinging much more often than it is the woman. Women tend to be mature enough to handle it.

Just last night, (like the writer Dave Barry says, I swear I'm not making this up) I was emailing with a college girl from craigslist. She has natural g-cup t!ts and a body like the porn star Gianna Michaels. She wanted a threesome last night, but my gf was tired from the past weekend and I had to tell her no. That takes maturity to not be a d!ck about it, but patience and a laid-back attitude is the way to go. I got her number and hope that the three of us can all fvck this weekend. Maybe she'll grab my gf, throw her down, and scissor her like mad until she has an incredible lesbo orgasm that I can't give her. It's happened before.

My idea of loving someone is wanting to help them get as much enjoyment as possible out of life. That's more important than catering to my own ego. And if your relationship is good in the first place, then whatever you are afraid of probably isn't going to happen.
Appreciate what you are saying. To each his own.

As for myself, I couldn't give up my wife like that. But that's just me.
 

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5string said:
So here is the question. Be truthful. How many of you guys could honestly swap or swing with another couple? Could you really do it in good concious?
Never. First, it's not morally correct. Second, we are all human and no one in their right mind (who loves and cares for their spouse) wants to see that happen.

Bible_Belt said:
What are you afraid of, that she might like it? Oh what horror, that the person you love is having fun and being happy. That is just awful. And if you think any particular woman in the world does not have sex fantasies about being treated like a wh0re, then that woman is a fine actress.

Some women have a very real bi side. And guess what, as a man, you simply don't have the tools to fill that need. Other women have a DP fantasy and really want two d!cks at once. I'm guessing most of us here just have one d!ck. It's the fragile male ego that keeps couples from swinging much more often than it is the woman. Women tend to be mature enough to handle it.

Just last night, (like the writer Dave Barry says, I swear I'm not making this up) I was emailing with a college girl from craigslist. She has natural g-cup t!ts and a body like the porn star Gianna Michaels. She wanted a threesome last night, but my gf was tired from the past weekend and I had to tell her no. That takes maturity to not be a d!ck about it, but patience and a laid-back attitude is the way to go. I got her number and hope that the three of us can all fvck this weekend. Maybe she'll grab my gf, throw her down, and scissor her like mad until she has an incredible lesbo orgasm that I can't give her. It's happened before.

My idea of loving someone is wanting to help them get as much enjoyment as possible out of life. That's more important than catering to my own ego. And if your relationship is good in the first place, then whatever you are afraid of probably isn't going to happen.
To each his own, but nothing you posted here is a quality I look for in a wife. Scissoring with a lesbian? Ha! Sounds like this idea is originating from your girlfriend. I hope you aren't considering marrying this girl.
 

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You are seriously fvcked up if you would let someone else bang your wife in front of you. Cuckold much
 

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Paintballguy said:
You are seriously fvcked up if you would let someone else bang your wife in front of you. Cuckold much
This is Bible Belt we're talking about, he has gone full-on cuckold lately.
 

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No and as my wife has stated, "I won't kill you if you cheat on me, but I will cut your **** off and any other man who tries to touch me".

Bless her jealous heart. :)
 

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the mainland chinese women are vicious when angry. my ex-wife always threatened to kill me. not fun when she's holding a knife while cooking.
 

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LiveFreeX said:
No and as my wife has stated, "I won't kill you if you cheat on me, but I will cut your **** off and any other man who tries to touch me".

Bless her jealous heart. :)
GOD bless you wife and protect your **** from her knife.
But on the side not i don't think any spouse will agree to share his/her booty with someone else.
 

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Are you kidding me? No. It's called adultery, also known as coveting your neighbor's wife. People have known this is wrong for thousands of years.
 

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Some people really get into this but I can't see it leading to a healthy marriage. That said, if they're doing that, the marriage isn't what I'd call healthy to begin with.

Hell no, I'm not letting someone else **** my wife.

At the same time I'm probably not ever getting married. It would have to take some extreme rearrangement of the Cosmos for me to desire to do so. Seems to make no sense at all from every single thing I've ever observed or heard.
 
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