I met this HB8 a while back but didn't really pursue it.
But a couple of weeks ago she texts me saying how she's bored and lonely and about to smash herself with a vibrator.
I texted back "hope you have fun with that"
She wrote back that next time she sees me she's going to get me drunk and have her way with me.
Since then she's flaked twice when we organised to meet and just last night she texts saying "I'm not wearing any undies".
After reading another post here recently about a guy's female friend sending similar texts to a guy and getting no response, I didn't reply.
Then this morning she texts saying how she just smashed my cl1t with my vibrator". I didn't reply again.

So what happens now? I've invested very little time, no money and no emotions on this chick but I really want to fvck her.

I'm hoping not replying whips her into a frenzy where she realises I'm only going to respond to direct invitations of sex.
But is there some other way to handle this? Should I text her something sexy back or is that just feeding her ego and playing into her hands?

Cheers.

Stop texting and call her and push for a meet up. If she evades, ditch the number and forget about her, she's just attention whooring it up.

scrouds said:

Stop texting and call her and push for a meet up. If she evades, ditch the number and forget about her, she's just attention whooring it up.

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This 100%. Some women know how to get their needs met without giving it up. In this scenario, she gets hers, but you don't get yours. Push for a meet up, if she won't commit, never talk to her again. There are plenty of AFCs that will play this game with her. Don't be that guy.

Sounds like a nut case to me.
Who says stuff like that then doesn't finish the conversation.
Yep, a nut case.

If you ever do get to jump her, make sure it's at her place in case she breaks sh1t.

SH

Yeah, now that you guys mention it, she is a bit of a weirdo which is why I didn't pursue her after I met her and got her number.

I'll maintain radio silence.

Potential BPD......run.

jhl said:

Potential BPD......run.

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I'd definitely agree with this. BPD's have a strong affinity for sexting and not committing to in-person visits unless it serves their interests.