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"You can never go too slow with a girl who has interest in you" Your post has good advice, but I disagree with you on this one. If you go too slow, the girl who has interest in you will think you have no interest in her and write you off for good. Or, you may drift into the LJBF zone if you...

"You can never go too slow with a girl who has interest in you" Your post has good advice, but I disagree with you on this one. If you go too slow, the girl who has interest in you will think you have no interest in her and write you off for good. Or, you may drift into the LJBF zone if you...

You should have picked up on the red flags even before you went on the trip to Canada and that this girl Alice was a slut. Red Flag #1. She was a tourist. Red Flag #2. You met her at a club Red Flag #3. You banged her the next day in a parking lot. Your friend was probably telling...

The 3 second rule is just an excercise to build confidence over time. Whether it works each time it is used is irrelevent. Just like approaching as many women as possible with the idea of getting many rejections to the point that you lose the fear of approaching women.

Before, when I was a full blown AFC, my instinct was always to shower gifts and cards to girls I hardly knew or who I was just casually dating and Valentines' day and birthdays were no exception. However, along the way I noticed a disturbing trend. I cannot recall one instant where I got laid...

I was just lying in bed the other night and pondering some of my experiences with girls that I have nexted over the course of the year and realized just how blind you can be to their treachery and just how powerful and sweet their innocent smiles can be in clouding reality. I made a mental list...

AD has it right for the most part with several exceptions. I don't necessarily beiieve that getting a girls cell number is bad. In fact I agree with Sexpd that it may be her way of giving you greater access to her and I know many girls who exclusively have a cellphone. Being a mystery is good...

NOS. Please learn how to write so that we know what the **** you are talking about and can all share your experience.

Every time I go to a club these days I see HB's with really short guys, some shorter than the girls themselves. I think, height is overblown to a certain extent. 5-8 isn't that short and is about average. Just be happy you are average in height and not some little runt. I say if you are shorter...

Good job. Yes your are correct. Those guys you see on the sidelines are typical AFCs. I know because I used to be one of them. At least you showed balls going out there which the females truly appreciate.

If all this is true, then why are told by the masters that we should go for the kiss after the first date to check a girl's IL. Doesn't going for the first kiss wreak of desperation? I bring the subject for discussion because I posted in a recent thread that I do not buy the idea that a girl who...

YES, but some girls may become so nervous in your presence that they may exhibit negative body language. This has happened to me on various occassions where the girl had high IL but her outward signs showed otherwise. Other girls are just good at concealing their emotions. So, body language is...

I think chicks test you to see whether you have enough self control. For instance I have dating this girl with really large (natural)boobs. She always dresses to reveal them and makes a point to mention them one way or another. Of course I get a peak or two and have been tempted to touch them...

If you value something, then you do not wish to lose it right? That is where the concept of challenge comes in to play. If a girl does not value you then she does not give a fyck whether she loses you or not. By being a challenge you create uncertainty in her mind as to whether you are going to...

Oh have you guys ever get this one: You ask a girl for a date and she replies: "I'll call you to confirm whether or not I will be able to go out with you Saturday night..." Translation: I am going to wait to see whether Carlos, that magnificent stud muffin I met last week at that restaurant...

Your absolutely right player. I would say many of my relationships have started in the 60%-69% (iffy) range. I can now see how all of them remained there or sunk during my AFC years. I saw some shoot to the 90% range when I became a challenge (i,e. stopped calling, act disinterested or just...

Excellent post. You must, however, show early on that you have a sexual interest in her before withdrawing, otherwise she will think you are gay. This doesn't mean that you have to grope her on the first or second date. Just compliemt her looks and kino as well as kissing on the lips.

I think you are right on Vatican. I have noticed that the girls who have felt these emotions for me whether hate, nostalgia, etc. are the ones who stick around and eventually fall for me why the indifferent, non-emotional ones just go by the wayside.

WHEN YOU SAY YOU GOT LAZY, WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THAT? YOU WERE NO LONGER A CHALLENGE? EXPLAIN...

I firmly believe based on my past experiences that its not an absolute that if a girl pays she is not interested. I have gone out with girls who were definitely interested in me including girls I had sex with on the first date, who did pay. It all depends on the circumstances.