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    dealing with her past experiances

    Hey guys, I've been datin a girl for about 3mo and we get along great except Im having some percieved problems with the amount of guys she's had previous to me. I'm fairly conservative (spare the flames) with that sorta thing and I'd appreciate some calming thoughts towards dealing with girls...
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    One thing I noticed...

    Now that Im able to meet women on a fairly regular basis, I'm starting to get to know all sorts of girls, one thing I've noticed thats common among most of them is something I find quite disturbing. I've probably met close to 2 dozen women in the past year, and almost all of them have a story...
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    Want confidence? stop bragging!

    This works on the same principle that keeping your anger inside will eventually explode. Keeping your confidence to yourself will result in an explotion of confidence. Let me explain. People are encouraged to let out their anger and frustration by discussing their problems with people. The...
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    combatting nerves/stress

    Everyday all day long I go through feelings of nervousness and anxiouty that never really goes away. After lunch is usually the worst sometimes resulting in mild hyperventilating. my work is suffereing as I am constantly stewing over things in my head and I'm stressing out over non work...
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    Ladder theory

    http://www.intellectual*****s.com/ladderintro.html This guy is WAY off.
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    nervous about meeting a women online

    a girl i met online, who lives quite a ways away, has now become very anxious about meeting me. she wants me to attend a pool party that she is hosting in a month or so. I was planning a trip to her city anyway so i got her number and the plan is made, but I am very nervous about this. I've...
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    Ideas on things to say/do with delivery girls

    Pretty much my only contact with women during my work day is the occasional delivery girl that shows up to drop something off or pickup something. ALL of these women are good looking and I'm sure I'm passing up opportunities by not grabbing their attention before they leave to the their next...
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    Lower my standards?

    Ok, I'm fairly certain I have some emotional probs. Generally, I don't have a problem talking to women and building rapport fairly easily, I can approach them 'cold' on occasion as well, however it seems like I am subconsciously engineering ways to sabatoge my success. I am deathly afraid of...
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    why do i do this??

    I'm depressed now. I went to visit an old buddy of mine who started complaining about breaking up with his GF because he was cheating on her with 3 or 4 other girls. His constant stories he was telling about this girl and that girl eventually got me feeling insecure enough i felt the need to...
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    Watch 'groundhog day' the movie

    Groundhog day with Bill Murrey is an excellant movie, it shows the transformation from 'jerk' to what I would call a DJ. Anyone else see it?
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    hardly a success but a story

    Sadly, it is a success in my eyes. I went to a well known campfire party that goes on pretty much every weekend. the friend who took me decided to leave me alone as he went with his other friend for more supplies. So there I am sitting all by myself, among some people that I kinda know, and who...
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