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I think you are perhaps being a little quick to judge the situation. This teenage daughter's behavior you described in the email includes violent outbusts, splitting between parents (playing one against the other), manipulation and threats/ideations of suicide. My first instinct would be to...

I ask people to send me reminders for things all the time. I can't speak for why others might ask, but I do it because I like to be reminded just in case I forget or lose track of time. I don't usually forget but I'm always worried that I will, so I almost always ask people to remind me...

If you use that kind of language and call a woman that name you should probably expect to get slapped in the face. You really can't expect anyone to respect you if you are behaving disrespectfully towards others. The whole respect thing really is a two way street and it's not something you...

Quite a few years ago I used matchmaker.com and had pretty good luck. I haven't used it for years, though, so I don't know how it is now. They used to offer a free trial to test it out before joining.

Whenever you join an internet dating site you need to keep something in mind. Both men and women who use these sites a lot tend to start talking to one person and be interested and then a couple of weeks later they start talking to someone else who just appeals to them more. Where internet...

Did you even try to wash the sheets? If I paid $200 for sheets I'd at least try to salvage them.

Discrete? Sounds like this chick is married or has a boyfriend and is bored at home. A guy I know fell for becoming a boy toy for a wealthy and influential older woman. He only planned for it to be a one time thing. Then he met the perfect woman for him and got engaged and the rich chick...

No, you can't. It's a blatant violation of the code of ethics attached to the license regulated by the licensing board. If you do it and get caught you can be stripped of your license. Do NOT EVER date or get involved with anyone whom you are in a position of authority over, even in a medical...

I think the "guy friends" thing really depends on the situation. The friends could be from back when she was 10 years old or younger. They could be gay. They could be married to another friend. They could be the boyfriend of another friend. As long as the guy isn't trying to get into her...

The reason many guys struggle to "get girls" is because they care too much about getting them and become somewhat obsessed about it. When you care too much you over analyze everything you do and say, and all you do is think about it. STOP thinking about it and just live your life! Go out and...

It sounds like she just forgot that she already had set plans to take a friend someplace. She made the effort to reach you to let you know BEFORE the time you were supposed to meet. That isn't "flaking", it's calling to cancel. Flaking is when they just don't show up and don't bother to call...

I can certainly see why you are worried about your ears. Yes, they do stick out and are very noticeable. And yes, they will make it harder for you with SOME girls. There has to be initial attraction before they can get to know you, so the shallow girls might not give you a shot. This seems...

Oh my. You, young man, are in for a very, very rude awakening. It doesn't matter what you could get a woman to sign in regards to custody of a child. It is the judge's job to act in the best interest of the child. Just based on what you are writing there really is no way a judge would ever...

Many of those "rules" are designed with a certain type of guy in mind. It is to help a guy to avoid coming across as desperate, needy and pushy, which ultimately makes them look a bit like a stalker and creepy to women. If a guy continues to do those kinds of things you point out AFTER they...

It's negative because many, many members have thought distortions. The things a person thinks directly impacts how they feel and how they behave. A lot of people here would benefit from therapy, namely Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. I posted a link for someone a couple of days ago. I'll post...

There does seem to be a great deal of people who really do sound like they hate women and many people do tend to blame anyone they can think of rather than looking at themselves at all. I'm a Counselor by trade and I have to say that I have seen far more bad advice and insulting of others than...

1) See if you can borrow a tent and camping gear from someone and go camping. 2) See if there are any kid's museums in your area. 3) Go to a state park, or beach. 4) Buy a whiffle ball set, frisbee, soccer ball or nerf football and go to a park or big open field and play, pack a picnic lunch.

I did a search of all the threads you have started while you have been posting here and they all have a similar theme to them. You are coming off as a bit desperate, needy and pushy. That's most likely what your problem is. It seems that you have made the mistake of pushing so hard that it is...

I still think he needs to talk to her. I DON'T think he needs to talk to her face to face, though. He can do it over the phone just as easily as doing it in person. It's important to close the door on this one. If he doesn't do that then not only might she turn up again later because she...

One more thing about the friends. Do you always complain and have a negative attitude? If you do that is probably part of the problem. People don't like to be around a lot of negativity and it gets annoying and frustrating. Make sure you don't let your frustration with women cause you to be...