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    Go to the Past, young ones....

    I've noticed that there are a lot of new people here. I guess that is good, but it was nice to see the same people posting and get to know their personalities. It's always adviseable to do your research before answering a question...
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    I Can't Believe that worked !!!!

    Remember, the higher the girls interest level in the guy, the easier she will make it for the guy. If a girl is interested in you and is chasing you, then (at first) an AFC can score. Most married guys out there are AFC's, and they still managed to get married.
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    "success" story and questions

    Awkward, I can understand your anger, but I wonder if you are taking this too seriously. I'm not suggesting that you become her emotional tampon, but you may have missed an opportunity to DJ her friends, or really see what's up with this girl. I would have asked for her phone number and then...
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    Body Language

    Be careful with Body Language! From my AFC days I used to really be into body language. Instead of DJ-ing a chick, I would sit back and watch for body language clues. Then instead of knowing whether a girl liked me by ASKING FOR THE NUMBER, I would assume that she liked me when she didn't...
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    Girls and their little tests

    "Do you mind if I brought some friends long?" So what's the right answer? I have to say that unless you already consider her your girlfreind, then the answer is NO. The hard part is to interpret the ********. Does she not want to go on a date with you, and is bringing her friends along to...
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    25 Key Rules For DJs

    GC, great post. I break the rules all the time, and get burned for it quite a bit. I think it all comes down to this: If a girl is going to disrespect you, then find another that won't.
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    Dealing a girl who rejected you

    Good Post Basic Instinct. I think I've been using the ignore tactic too much. I'll not be outgoing, but if she talks to me, I'll open up. I also liked the point of how women change their minds and baffle us men in the process. I know it happens more than I like. I have to agree that...
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    Charm and Charisma

    Good Post Gio, simple and concise. I fully agree that you can learn it. I'm trying. Most people (like me) see the negative first in anything. This isn't charisma... They were all good points, but be careful not to over do them. You'll seem fake if you try to hard.
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    Conditioning, Association, and SEDUCTION

    Good post Gio. The problem I see with women and Pavlov's classical conditioning is this (I'm planning on reading some Pavlov in the next few months): Women are feeling, emotional creatures, and associate things based on that. When a women meets you, she will create your image in her mind...
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    Hot and Cold, Hot and Cold, Drive them Wild!

    TurboBird, I'm only on page 73. Right now it's talking about different types of seducers. It's interesting, and there is definately things I can use so far. Every once in a while there are some real gems. It's not a handbook for seduction (at least not yet... - not that there really could...
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    rejection collection

    What are you saying 2nd Tour? What helped you turn yourself around? Are you saying that dating is a numbers game, and you finally got lucky, or did all of the rejections give you something that you didn't have before? What did you learn through the whole process? What changed?
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    Hot and Cold, Hot and Cold, Drive them Wild!

    I came across this while doing some reading. It summarizes so much about AFC's and challenge. I was thoroughly impressed. "People are inherently perverse. An easy conquest has a lower value than a difficult one; we are only really excited by what is denied us, by what we cannot posses in...
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    Friendship zone or hell? What do you call it?

    I can really sympathize with this post. Been there, done that... I wish I had discovered this website even 2 years ago. Maybe it's low self esteem that causes people to allow themselves to follow girls around like puppy dogs, just to be friends, I don't know. But there is a cure...
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    Sir_Chancealot's Definitive Neg-Hit Post

    Good post Sir_Chancealot. What is the difference between sarcasm and a neg-hit? I think sarcasm is bad, but is related to a neg-hit. (I have a sarcastic sense of humor, and I’m trying to change that.) If you study Family Relations, they all say to avoid the use of sarcasm. It only hurts...
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    The importance of compliments

    Gaming, your neg-hits are good ice-breaking flirtation. You probably have the nack for saying things in a very non-threatening way that they know that you don't mean it. And by "insulting" things they are very secure about, you are actually complementing them. For example if you call a buff...
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    the essence of a dj

    MG69, you have to show them that you are interested and then play hard to get. That's not desperate and needy, that's making them wonder why you aren't like every other guy that's come on to them. Comote, your summary of the "essence of a dj" is right on. About rule number 3: Don't women...
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    What happens when you apologize to a woman?

    One thing to remember about women is that how you say something (especially an apology) is more important than what you say. I drank too much the other night and said some things that I shouldn't have. So I apologized for it later that week. I don't know if it did any good or not (and I'm...
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    Are You Attracting the Right Kind of Women?

    Wyldfire, I've wondered about this topic, too. I hear a lot of comments on being a jerk around women as something positive, and I don't think that I want a women who is used to be treated poorly. (I wonder if there are emotional problems involved.) I know that the idea is that you want to get...
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    The DJ Ten Commandments

    11. Thou shalt always be stiving to better thyself, growing in charisma and confidence (and keeping the other 10 commandments)
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    How to Get ANY Girl -- At a Significant Price

    OK, OK, showing no interest in girls, and hanging around them is going to work? I can see this, but I can also see working on a girl like this, and then trying to put some moves on and getting a LJBF convo. How do you successfully pull it off? Hanging out with the girls as a way to score...
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