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    The "Spark"

    Thanks for the responses. I kind of figured this was a lost cause...my mind wants to revert back to being an AFC, but I know what I need to do. I won't be like most and say "But but but I want her back", because although I do, I know it's not the right thing to do. My busy schedule and...
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    The "Spark"

    Any other advice/opinions?
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    The "Spark"

    So basically, since she was into me from the start, she still is...I just need to give her reasons to still be into me?
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    The Ex-boyfriend

    Sorry to hear about this situation...sounds rough. I read an e-book one time talking about a trait of Alpha Males that keep their women at their side. Basically, you have to act like a father figure to her. I don't mean tell her what she can and can't do, but what does a father do when you do...
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    The "Spark"

    The "Spark"...which I know is very similar to attraction, but I'm going to use that word because it's what I heard recently from a woman. I've been seeing this woman on and off for about 6 months now. Long story short, she has big time abandonment issues (Her father left her when she was...
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    My new shyt storm..

    This site tries to promote not getting oneitis, where you're only wrapped up in one girl (which I agree with) when you're single/not in a relationship...basically it keeps you from creeping on the girl you want. Now, you don't want to tell her your feelings (I worded it poorly before)...you...
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    Confidence- just what do you mean?

    Let me start by asking you a question and relating it to confidence. What is something you're REALLY good at? Sports? Video Games? Work? Whatever the answer is, how do you act when you're in that environment? Take me for example. I worked at this company where I was pretty good at selling...
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    My new shyt storm..

    The question you need to ask yourself first is what do you want to happen? Is this just a FB or do you genuinely like this girl and want a relationship with her? Now, based on the fact that you called her "this girl I've been hooking up with", You might just be FB's...so find a new one for a...
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    all my life

    What worked for me was this. I continually told myself, over and over in my head until I was right up to the woman I was approaching...if she turns me down, what's different in my life from 5 minutes ago until now? Absolutely nothing. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Keep...
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    I just got pwned as bad as you can get pwned!

    Target, I'm sorry to hear this happened to you, but I'd like to say something. It is true that getting yourself in the gym and in shape will help a bit, but I'm telling you, that wasn't why this happened and isn't the reason the majority of the time. I used to be the same as you (I'm a big...
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    Why dont women like clingy men.

    This is a GREAT post! I think the best solution a lot of times is to look at it as if it were happening to you, then re-evaluate what you're doing. I've gone both ways...I've had girls that were extremely clingy and I didn't want anything to do with them. It's that factor of "Once you've...
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    getting ex gf back.

    Like someone else said, remember back to what you did when you got her the first time. She needs to remember the guy that she fell for/started dating in the first place. I wouldn't wait for her to contact you once she moves back into town...that's doing things on her watch, not yours. I'd...
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    My Dilemna

    First, liking a woman like that "a lot" is not good. If she breaks up with her boyfriend for you and you start dating her, then what? She gets bored with you too and cheats on you with another guy who has no integrity?? Blah. One of the first questions I ask a woman that I am considering...
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    Women With Ultra-Low Self-Esteem - Why Do I Attract Them!

    Totally agree with slaog. The reason guys who look like crap still get girls? Self confidence. Period. Listen, I'm a big guy (not obese, but a big dude) and had the hardest time getting women for a long time. But when I finally was "okay" with myself and had the self confidence that I...
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    Help With Co-Workers

    I've had experience with this before and, even though it's not the best (or smartest) place to meet women, I usually can't help myself if a new young lady starts in my office. The best approach that I've used is to plan a happy hour with co-workers after work some night. The advantage you...
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    Pursuing WITHOUT chasing and coming out the loser? why?

    Sounds to me like she has a boyfriend or is married...or has just gotten out of a relationship and will be wishy washy to anybody. Do you actually know for a fact that she isn't with anyone? Otherwise, I'd just back off on inviting yourself over or suggesting that you want to get together...
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    Need help asap please!

    Thanks Kailex. I know exactly what you mean. My BIGGEST problem is that I'm pretty sure what I need to do (have tight game), but I don't do it half the time. Like I said, I've pretty much taken a break from dating for a while...and have become much happier with my life. I've learned to focus...
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    Need help asap please!

    Thanks a lot guys! Man I wish I found this site sooner!! Her actions definitely mimic her words, so I think she's being honest. Should I be concerned with the fact that she says she wouldn't have any place to go if she breaks up with him, and she would "only have the clothes on her back"? I...
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    Need help asap please!

    Thanks Scars...I really appreciate the advice and confidence boost! I've been worried that I'm going to screw it up and have been doubting myself, so I'm glad to hear that I've been going at it right and should keep it up. She literally said to me "the ball's in your court" as far as that she...
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    Need help asap please!

    Thanks for the reply! She actually doesn't report to me and has no reason to suck up to me...we all report directly to the owner (it's a very small business). And when I told her that I had a crush on her, she told me immediately that she had one too. The last thing she said to me (on Friday)...
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