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    Got a lapdance...

    My friends took me to a gentlemans club for my birthday and it was awsome. It was the first time I went to one...and I didn't know what the ettiquite was. We watched a few dances, and then the guys paid for my first lapdance. I was bewildered at what was happening and the girl was incredibly...
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    Rolling your long sleeves up

    I have noticed that a lot of people like to wear a long sleeve shirt and then roll up the sleeves so that it looks more like a short sleeved shirt, exposing your forearms. I think the Gap and BR have some nice shirts I could do this with. I feel like buying some long sleeved shirtsand trying it...
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    I am failing at asking for the number

    Today I had my hair cut by an attractive hair stylist (at Supercuts). We had a decent conversation, and I was kind of attracted to her, and she seemed receptive and gave me a nice smile, but I didn't number close. And that occured when I was studying at a Barnes and Noble the other day and a...
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    What would you do if she had a medical condition

    What would you guys do if there was a girl you were interested in, and you asked her if she wanted to sit down and talk for a while. During the conversation you realize that you have a few of the same interests, and that you like her personality. You are 26 and she is 20. She looks rather pale...
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    Feel bad about something that I did

    There was a girl I met about half a year ago. We she came into my work often and we flirted a little. Finally I asked her if she wanted to hang out during my lunch break and she said sure. We talked for about half an hour and had a few things in common. I am 26 and she is 20, but mature for her...
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    health and office jobs

    I am pursuring a career that involves sitting in an office all day...I am concerned that being in an office all the time will deteriorate my health. Do you get a big butt if your sitting down all the time? And do you not burn as many calories as you would if you had a job standing up and moving...
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    Would you become a "regular" to meet a girl?

    I was wondering if you saw an attractive girl where she worked, such as a restaraunt or a coffee shop, and you knew she was single, would you become a regular, going back several times over a period of weeks, trying to establish a rapport and then asking for the number? Or is it wrong to persue...
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    No friends = No life

    I was extremely avoidant during my youth due to a number of factors, and I didn't have any friends at one point. I have finally started to turn around this past year or so, thank god. I am starting to make friends, and hanging out with people. I took up mountain biking, and am exercising. What I...
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    How can I get some color safely?

    Hey Guys, I wanted to know how to get a tan safely. And I don't want to look like a hot dog, but rather gain a little color. Should I use a low-spf sunblock lotion and stay outside for a while? What can I do without getting skin cancer? Thanks!
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    She likes me but I'm not attracted to her.

    Guys, I met a girl through a political campaign, and we talked quite a bit for a few hours. I think she is interesting, and attractive, personally. I am not physically attracted to her because she is chubby. If she lost 15-20 pounds then maybe. I just don't feel that spark of attraction. I...
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    Question about how office work affects health

    Many careers, like mine, involve quite a lot of time sitting on your butt in an office. I am worried about the long term effects this will have on health. For instance will I get a big ass from sitting so much, or depressed? Sometimes I do feel depressed sitting in such cloistered environment...
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    Is internet dating for undesireables?

    Since I am bored, and single, I just went through 500 profiles on Yahoo personals of chicks within my area. I think I was only attracted to about 5% of them, and only one profile really hit me. And I can only imagine that all the other guys who are members are attracted to this same percentage...
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    What car insurance do you recommend?

    I am a 25 year old single male and I noticed that car insurance rates are exceptionally high for someone in my demographic. And I want to buy a new car. Anyone have any suggestions as to which insurance company I should get my insurance from? And what kind of insurance? Thanks a lot!
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    What causes the most anxiety for me

    I feel a lot of apprehension about asking any girl out for three reasons right now. 1. I have a ****ty retail job 2. My car is wrecked but still drivable. It's embarassing to be seen with it. 3. I live with my parents Should I get those three things resolved before I even think about...
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    How to get rid of fat in certain areas?

    I know that you can't spot reduce fat but I spent way too much time in front of a computer when I was younger and now I have a fat ass and hips. I joined a health club yesterday and I was wondering if intense cardio for about 30 minutes a day would lower my bmi and help in those areas...and what...
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    Shoulder hair

    I have a lot of body hair and if I didn't trim it down I would look like a gorilla. I have shoulder hair and often use my remmington electric shaver on it, the one I also use on my face. Unfortunately this causes an outbreak of pimples the next day. I was wondering how you avoid this or if there...
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    Missed an opprotunity tonight

    I have a coworker who I have asked out before but she said that she doesn't date coworkers. Tonight she asked me what I was doing tonight and I said nothing was set in stone. And then I realized that I could ask what shes doing tonight...but I didn't. I could have invited her to a restaurant...
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    Self help is addicting.....

    Self help sites are addicting, expecially when you are constantly trying to find a solution to your problem. I have problems which I won't share here unless you want me to, but I constantly look at forums, including this one, and depression and anxiety forums, and relationship forums, etc. I...
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    Oh no.

    I got a girls number last monday but she didn't write down the area code. She told me to call her soon because her phone was going to be disconnected. I tried calling and I tried, but it wouldn't go through, and it always said the same message "this number has been disconnected and is no longer...
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    Which video game systems should I sell?

    I have heard that video game systems have or will gain in value in the future. I was wondering which ones I should sell and which ones I should keep. NES SNES Genesis Playstation N64 Also should I sell the games for those corresponding systems? Thanks for any advice.
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