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    Cues on when a girl wants to dance

    I dance quite a bit. So this is my observation. IF you want to know when a girl wants to dance with you? It's simple. Just make eye contact. Look around the room. See a pretty girl and just look at her. She'll make eye contact if she's looking around. If you don't pick up one inviting...
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    I think I'm slipping HELP!!!

    Yeah I know that right now all of my positive thinking is just leading to her. I know that it leads to why I'm always thinking about her. I need some refreshers or something you guys have done to relieve this type of thinking. I do take the relationship seriously but I think by me being the way...
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    I think I'm slipping HELP!!!

    Ok, it's been awhile since I've been back here. This site has done a lot for me but I have been so busy with graduation/moving/work/ and the list goes on basically, I am not on top of my game like I use to. This site has help me a lot in terms of being single and I was happy being single and...
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    How I overcame age difference

    Lol, quite lengthy. Anyway I won't go into how you handle the situation cause I'm sure every guy who will respond with give there 2 cents. But when it comes to age I think it involves 2 things. 1: Yes there are some issue with age when it comes to a guy dating an older woman. I'm...
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    Know how European men look at women?

    Hope this can shed some light. This is my observation of my time in Spain and how I would do it. For me it has worked but I have a lot confidence and it shows. First thing first is that you guys make eye contact. You look interested, no grin or anything just look content. It's like looking...
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    Simply asking a girl to dance

    First off you gotta move away from the "hip-hop" club and learn an actual dance. Once you're good you can come back and be someone they know that can dance. I find that Salsa is as close to club dancing yeah has form and structure. Also there are TONS of Salsa clubs so it's not hard to get into...
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    I need to reinvent myself

    I'm glad that you posted it here. Sometimes it's hard to do tell people secrets like that but it's definately a good thing that you did. As far as the whole issue about gynecomastia, try and overcome that as much as possible. I can't say that I understand what you're going through but...
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    Starting convo with counter staff

    Again there's no real good example since every encounter can be different. You gotta notice something or bring up something you find of interest and talk to her about it. It comes with a lot of practice and with girls you may not even like. Eventually you can start convos easier and better as...
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    GF tells me how some random guy hitted on her..hmm translate

    I think girls say that so that they can get you jealous. Just like you would if you want to impress a girls and said "Oh some girl gave me her number today". She's just playing with you.
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    Do I need to change my approach?

    My take on it is that this isn't really a good idea for a first date. The thing is the enviroment is so out of their confort zone that they don't know how to react. There maybe be too many things going on for her to enjoy. I don't think it has anything to do with social proof at that point...
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    Chics complimenting and buying you stuff

    This post isn't childish, it's rather dumb. Just because the girls you dated in the past that buy you stuff doesn't mean every girl for the rest of your life is going to do that. If you haven't notice by now, everyone is a little different. Also think about it. The reason why your past...
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    Looks do make a difference, I guess

    lol, is this some kind of revlation for you guys? It's simple, looks is for attraction. What people look for if they want a serious relationship is personality.
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    Ballroom dancing classes kick ass

    Hahaha coming from an experience salsa dancer, what you say is pretty true. TBH all the hot girls don't have to take classes. They learn very quickly because all the guys ask them to dance all the time. Only the ones that don't dance often need these classes to help them get better. Also all the...
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    Too many girls..

    Re: Re: Too many girls.. Yep, this is how to do it. At first you're like cool, I got all these girls. But like you said, it sucks when you start hurting feelings or just ditching or denying this and that. It's not a life you like to lead. You have all these worries about this girl finding...
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    Let's just be friends...

    Dude, just leave man. There's so many chicks out there. There's so many things to do, so many things to experience. Why are you bothering your time with a BAD experience. Just tell her you agree and then relax. Cool off from the datting scene until you get your bearings. Come back with...
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    Reign of the Skinny Guys

    Wow, it's been a long time since I last visited these boards. To answer your question. It really doesn't matter if you're skinny or chunky. I wouldn't go as far as, it wouldn't matter if you were fat (I think it does). But the thing is these guys are the "attractive" ones right now. You...
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    Eliminating insecurities, how does a man do it? What is it?

    You already got the idea, you just need to work on them. If those are your insecurities then, work on them slowly. See the improvement in yourself and your confidence will rise. Easist one to work on is the whole physical thing. I'm talking about your physical shape. Go to the gym and get...
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    Putting women in perspective

    nicely put jonjack, Sounds like you're starting to hate on the girls. I went through that phase myself not too long ago. I was really sick and tired of how girls think they can get away with anything they want. I live with two girls, and I see guys coming here all the time. It's funny how...
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    intimidated by white chicks.

    This is a funny thread. I'm asian btw so i'll share some info in the asian community that i'm in. For some weird reason, us asian people have a thing for white people. I dunno why but it's very apparent where I live. This is in southern and northern california alike. I personal don't...
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    Never kiss a girl. Need help ASAP

    The first kiss with any girl is an important step in your progress into her pants. I didn't know how to kiss a girl either. My first time was sloppy and bad, but I learn. Not everyone will pick it up naturally. Key thing is to go slowly and caress her face with your hands while you're kissing...
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