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    How do you guys effectively manage your life & accomplish goals?

    Women was what I cut out :) Got a few years on you, and am a bit into your plan. Good job that is moving me up soon, where I can learn for free. Business starting to get a lil buzz, and working out 3-4 times per week packing some meat on my skinny ass. I cook 90% of my meals and am trying to...
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    I'm sick of this - rant incoming

    That sounds depressing and terrifying AF. Same boat working, should have been born rich not handsome.
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    Hail Mary

    I think you guys are taking this a bit more seriously than I am. I'm not hung up, heartbroken, or giving up the dating game. We weren't in a relationship, exclusive, or anything more than going on a few dates. I do have this theory that there is an effective action for every situation. I've...
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    Hail Mary

    Scaramouche, nope, the sex kinda gets in the way of that. Atom, that was my first reaction, but does that ever really work? I usually have reliable efficacy with some humor and exaggerating the silly things girls say.
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    Hail Mary

    I've learned I have an issue giving up the fight. I really enjoy the challenge, and there's nothing like the challenge of a woman headed out the door. Currently there's a student I met at the college I work for: she's hot, young, fun, and seems really into me. Always holding hands and leaning...
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    Game is hard + advice

    Simple advice for every guy in this situation: 1. Relax 2. Stop trying to game so hard 3. Get busy I love how most guys who aren't busy are so concerned with game and being perceived as cool, when busy guys think, "Is it even worth it for me to date anymore?" Busy guys are popular not because...
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    How do I deal With this Hot Little Roommate?

    Don't do it. I've sworn off female roommates until marriage. No good can come of it. Think short term VS long term rewards. A better living situation is so much preferable to the drama that comes from boning your roomie. ...But lets all be honest, you're gonna get drunk and bang her at some...
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    Remember To Keep Things In Perspective

    Love it, and I agree absolutely. Have recently taken some big risks in my life and find myself in an amazing opportunity to learn and pursue the career I have fantasized about for years. Even outside of work I'm taking new classes, getting more physical, and generally getting my life together...
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    My Priority List - Is it Bad??

    How is sleep 10%? Are you only sleeping 2.4 hours per day, or spending 10% of the waking day getting extra sleep?
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    Life's Quest to Improvement

    It's been a little while, but good lord, how time changes things. 1. My volunteer work, and time pounding the pavement has paid off! I got a job offer from my prestigious university, full-time, all the crazy benefits, not too shabby of a salary, though I'm trying to negotiate myself into the...
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    Life's Quest to Improvement

    What a night. I can't stop thinking of ACDC's "Back in Black" because I'm back. And I happen to be wearing black at the moment. Went out once last week and ended up bringing home the second person I talked to that night. Tonight I had a busy night planned with lots of fellas. Had a buddy meet...
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    How'd you like to be a millennial dad??

    How is this "beta" behavior? I buy my own food and cook it. Gasp! So THAT is why I'm single... All these years wasted, the truth comes out What's it like to have terms like alpha and beta dictate what is acceptable for you to do? Don't you see that makes you a slave to social whims? F that, I...
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    Life's Quest to Improvement

    Last couple days I've really noticed how many beautiful women there are around me. Trick is you have to be OUT of the house. Funny how that works! Trying to put reality back into order. There are thousands of women out there and some of them must be smart enough to realize I'm a catch. On the...
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    Life's Quest to Improvement

    It's been a rough road for me since the breakup. Before then I was hating work, not working on my personal goals, and my schedule saw my friendships and bro-time dwindle to a rare occurrence. I felt like the relationship was the only thing going for me. That, and my usual prowess with the...
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    Life's Quest to Improvement

    Short story so far: confidence plummeting after break with ex, prompt me to improve my life. Still struggling with showing results and getting past her. 3 months after breakup, details later. I'd love a record of this so here goes... Visited a Mexican club tonight with a buddy who has...
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    When passion and attraction NEVER intersect

    I have a buddy who is a "nice guy". Think very skinny, intelligent, quiet, loner with a messy white guy fro. His passion is social psychology research, he is on his way to receiving a doctorate and will spend most of his days inside, not moving, at a desk somewhere. One school of thought...
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    My challenge to you! (Resurrected)

    From MOTU back in 2010. Let's try it! No rules here gents, you know what a rejection is, and you know what isn't. It never happened in 2010, so let's do it now! March 27th is a Friday. Hope to hear all your stories, you'll hear mine as well.
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    Giving the ex her sh*t back

    To make things clear I DON'T want to see or communicate with her, and I DON'T want to hang on to her, her stuff, or the relationship. What I do expect is some accountability for the situation. Breakups hurt and they suck, and she should experience that rather than going about it through...
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    Giving the ex her sh*t back

    Got a text from the ex asking for a necklace she left at my house. She spent one night over before the breakup and took most of her things trying to ninja out. She wants me to give it to her friend I work with. Part of me wants to say, "FU, I gave it to goodwill." After a sustained period of...
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