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    Is my decision right? What should I do next?

    Like i said, if a girl asks if you are going to be at something, it doesnt mean anything, could be she is excited to see you cuz she likes you, or that she wants to know who she will know at it.. You did hint at alone time for the walk, but she changed the subject right quick. And the fact that...
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    Is my decision right? What should I do next?

    If a chick is into you, she will be down to see you alone, and will jump at the opportunity to see you. Every girl i have dated that went anywhere, the girl was very open to seeing me as soon as she could. no wishy washiness or anything. It should never be difficult in the beginning( or ever...
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    Is my decision right? What should I do next?

    She only asked if you guys would be at a mutual place, i get that with plenty of girls that i know, asking if im going to so and so on whatever night. Have you tried to make plans just one on one?
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    Is my decision right? What should I do next?

    The absolute biggest indicator of interest is her wanting to see you. If she is interested, you wont have to work to find time to see her, she will make it too easy. I could understand flaking once, but it shouldnt be this difficult to see her... if she really wanted to see you
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    How to handle being cheated on like a boss!

    ^Yes. no girl who is into a guy enough to merit a relationship with would ever risk saying that to another guy. Get out of there now, and dont tell her why you ar breaking up. let her beat herself up over it
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    How does this routine look? Tips for building Chest?

    When in doubt, Starting Strength
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    Understanding "the message is in the medium"

    ^Fact. Its ok to shoot a text every once in a while, but never ever everrrrrr just send "hey" or "whats up." always send something interesting and funny. The last chick I dated(solid 9), the first text i ever shot her was "man, there are some real crazy people that hangout at barnes & noble."...
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    I did what you guys told me... but the b*tch still pushes my buttons.

    There are like 3.5 billion women on the planet, with maybe like 20 max off limits, and you still end up getting into something like this with one of them? thats absurd
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    she stood me up,now I'm going "no contact" on her

    Wayyyyy to much effort was put into this. you shouldnt even care about her. You are thinking about no contacting a chick with whom is really nothing more than a phone number? you should not be this invested bro
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    The Pre-emptive Breakup

    I have always wondered why things like this or exes coming back happens. I know its ego, but can it really only be temporary? Do chicks have like a switch in their brain regarding interest level that once is shut off can never be turned back on again? Ive always wondered why when a chick...
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    Don't know how to answer

    Man, you need to eject from this chick. In my experience, first if a girl is interested in you, you will have her naked by like the 3rd hangout(i have never waited longer than that), and she will take any opportunity to spend time with you, especially out in public if she sees a future.
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    Is it alpha..

    I say do whichever one you want. if you want to see her, go for it, if not, dont. Just dont act all jumpy excited at it, be cool, kinda like if we hang thats cool, if we dont, thats cool. Women love that indifference. Id probably do it, just be casual and have a good time
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    Got into an argument with this chic

    Yikes, id just leave her be for a while. these things are never ever good. the only time you can get away with arguing with a chick is if she is into you. And by the sounds of it, she isnt really, or you would definitely know. You should have just said you are busy and dont hae time to talk when...
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    I could really use some advice on life, and getting off rock bottom..

    Yeah, Ive been training for about 5 years, but i have had some gaps in there unfortunately due to a few different reasons. I appreciate all the advice ive gotten on here. I know i probably sounded a bit dramatic. In actuality, I do have plenty going for me, and i am actually great with...
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    I could really use some advice on life, and getting off rock bottom..

    I'm actually a blue belt right now, I'd probably have my purple, I just haven't put the gi on in a while
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    I could really use some advice on life, and getting off rock bottom..

    Boxers fracture in my left hand. I know the odds of making a real career were low, but it was something that really mattered. Training has always been my passion. I have done some gi tourneys, and an ammy boxing match, but Fighting has always been what i wanted
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    I could really use some advice on life, and getting off rock bottom..

    Well my issues arent just about girls, Its more than that, but thanks for the link, its a good read.
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    I could really use some advice on life, and getting off rock bottom..

    Well idk what happened exactly, i think it was the pressure of school, trying to start my fight career, money, and a lot of family problems. My dad(who is my role model) cheated on my step mother and got another lady pregnant, and in turn my step mother tried to commit suicide. So my family went...
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    I could really use some advice on life, and getting off rock bottom..

    I know my life isnt too bad, but definitely **** compared to how it was before. My biggest problem is that ive made so many wrong decisions over the past year and a half that i dont think i can make any good ones, or that things will work out for me. Im honestly terrified of the next thing i do...
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