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Just to preface this... this is not a tale about three women that I am actively dating or have ever dated. These are three women that for one reason or another are actively in my life. It's interesting to me to post some observations about the three of them, because it's finally happening in...

Well, I committed the cardinal sin. The one rule at work that I thought I'd never break. Before I go any further, trust me, I ALREADY KNOW. But this is what happens when you go to company happy hours and after 3 hours of drinking and shots, two very young and sexy women from work approach you...

I really go on an angry rant, but after having come back from the gym, I need to. You see, less than 2 months ago, I was hired to a new company to turn around half of their Accounting Department. Apparently the turnover was ridiculous, the hiring process is horrid, and the work is...

Now before I get "U MAD BRO" responses, let me preface by saying this... I embrace technology. I love it when it can make our lives simpler but not to the point where we have to avoid basic human interaction by simply sticking our noses into our phones. Years ago, I thought the evolution of...

Interesting situation. The more I read about the "Friendzone" in the last year, the more I begin to believe it's nothing more than a state of mind. Here's my issue with it... #1: I'm in a frame of mind where I don't want to be in an LTR. I constantly want to spin plates and just have fun...

Over the past few months, I've found myself having the same problem with different women. I seem to know WHY I am having this problem and I did find a few solutions to it, but I'm morbidly curious as to what others here have done to solve this "issue". You see, a few months ago I started...

So last night, I was out with a friend of mine. I really don't drink anymore, but the guy just came back from South Korea and well, we had to go celebrate his prompt return. We went to a local bar where I used to be a regular and there's this guy that I've usually seen there in the past...

Has anyone ever given a long-term plate the keys to their apartment? I was talking to a buddy of mine who said he was considering doing it. Now, I've never done it myself, and I have no idea why... but I found the thought of it to be very weird. I've only ever moved in once with an ex-LTR...

That's right, you read the thread title 100% correct. I've read the Don Juan Discussion forum for months and after seeing a few solid, golden threads from some of the senior members, it's finally dawned on me what the #1 mistake a lot of guys in here make: - They don't want to make...

I have a unique situation for myself coming up in a week and a half. Because of my location, I see my sister about once a year. That's coming up soon and I'm going to be having lunch with her and her boyfriend. I've never gone with just them and there's an interesting situation that I might...

Last Sunday, I went to a friend's house to enjoy some football and good conversation. This time, some of the wifey's decided to come with since the weather was nice enough for grilling and salads. Well, I had no clue the firestorm I was meant to endure on that fateful Sunday afternoon...

I have a question here for all of the men who have been married and have had children... I know it's a specific niche here in SoSuave, but I've been interested in something that came up through a conversation over the weekend. Basically, the conversation boiled down to the differences of why...

So as of this Saturday, I will finally hit the big 3-0. I've seen past posts about being close to thirty or dating in your 30's, and well, I've had certain revelations over the past year. I've officially been registered with this forum since January and the things I've learned and have...

Needed to ask for some suggestions on red wine (I'm fully aware that I am posting in the Mature Man forum first, but I was hoping for solid suggestions from some of our older and more experienced). I'm going to a local Wine Bar on Saturday. It's a pretty classy joint. Problem is, I don't really...

So, I hate to post this here, and I tried finding a topic SIMILAR to this, but unfortunately my case seems a bit... weird, even for me. Over the past weekend, I noticed I have a decreased libido. Ever since I started losing weight again in the past months, it actually seemed to increase. I...

I can remember the "dating scene" from about 10 - 12 years ago. Granted, I'm not even 30, I remember a time when the internet wasn't so heavily involved, when the cell-phones were almost as big as our heads and people believed that online dating is a stigma. Nowadays, texting is the norm...

I want some opinions about the point to a Master's Degree and its relation to today's economy. I've been giving some serious thought about going back to finish off my Master's. When I started it, I was in another country in a college that was credited. But, here, things are a lot different...

I've always moved from apartment to apartment, not by choice, but because of certain situations. Now, this is finally the year that I actually want to stay where I live. It's a beautiful place and the rent/utilities is REALLY low for the area. I love my landlords and the people in the other...

As Mature Men, I'm sure we've most likely heard this at least ONCE in our lifetime. I heard it recently when detailing a certain activity I was partaking in over the weekend. "Don't you think it's time for you to 'grow up'?" I'm intrigued by this, particularly for one specific reason: I...

So, I had an odd situation happen this weekend. I went out with a bunch of friends and in this group of friends, was this couple. Now, I knew the girl, but had only heard stories about her boyfriend. From what I heard, the guy is pretty much one of the biggest AFC's ever. What's sad about this...