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    Inner game - controlling negative thoughts

    Advertising and the rest of media. That's the overwhelming primary source of negativity about yourself and what you have. The #1 aim of advertising is to make you feel dissatisfied. They do it quite well and it's been pounded into your head that you're lacking things all of your life. They...
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    Awkward Relationship Position

    All of this is GOLD. Take it very seriously Sofomore That's self-doubt and second guessing things. It's a bullshait thought. It's insecurity rearing it's head and latching onto negative ways to look at it. See those thoughts for what they are and ignore them. Your mind will stop doing it...
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    Inner game - controlling negative thoughts

    I don't often think negatively for more than a second or two and it's so rare it's rediculous. In fact, I can predict I'm going to soon feel the effects of a cold or flu because I'll suddenly get some negative feelings in a row. Then, I realize "oh, i'm just not feeling well" and it goes away...
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    Test? or what is this?

    It's a trap that's easy to fall into and girls don't do it on purpose, they just love to jabber and it sabotages guy-girl relationships if the guy doesn't realize he shouldn't do that. That's why most guys get LJBFed over and over while a small percentage of men are getting all the girls...
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    Why women can't be "Studs"

    You do realize that you are exactly like what you are complaining about. It's called projection. You're doing it right now and the volume knob is set to 11.
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    Test? or what is this?

    Don't push anything and stop talking so damned much about feelings and what you want. Women really really really really really hate when a guy starts acting like a girl, especially during or after sex. It turns them off and eventually the thought of having sex with you will creep them out and...
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    First "okay" solo-sarge, but she mentioned a boyfriend...

    It was just probably a probe/defense. You were hitting it off really well and if you were put off by the "i have a bf" it would have shut her down a bit because she'd think she was being hustled. Girls often do that when things are going a bit too well when meeting a guy. If you didn't...
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    Ditching a girl because she meets up with too many male 'friends'?

    That and most of the rest you wrote is so completely obvious that I didn't bother writing it. I guess I was wrong about that :rolleyes: That too is very obvious and my post was already pretty damned long. I can't agree because I'm not into open relationships like that. It's fine that you...
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    What's the "Alpha Male" way to respond to disrespect?

    Exactly! It's being non-reactive. The world doesn't effect you. You should never allow second class treatment and the best option is usually to ignore the person and be casual about it. They suddenly don't exist. Always direct your attention to the people who are treating you the best...
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    Some girls don't think ahead

    It makes complete sense. This isn't vague at all. "we owe you" is a stroke to your ego. You're friggin heros. It's like patting a dog on the head and saying "good boy" when he fetches the paper. If you fall for it you'll end up biatches doing all sorts of crap for her and her roomate...
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    Ditching a girl because she meets up with too many male 'friends'?

    It's fine to disagree, but I don't have this problem at all. It's not because I'm super-awesome-cool. It's because I've spent a lot of time learning about how women work on a deep level instead of just "x usually causes y but who knows how it actually does this". Fear of disapproval is not...
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    Ditching a girl because she meets up with too many male 'friends'?

    That is all guys. Only men who are insecure and lacking any significant value have anything to fear about other men. That is why they will try to isolate the girl and put her in a cage that she will always end up trying to break out of. Then they'll piss and moan about how they were dumped...
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    I ****ed up hard, is there any hope?

    You're really irresponsible. Why in the heck would she want a lunatic that does drugs and drives around town causing chaos? I mean really. You scared the **** out of her because you're weak and irresponsible and dangerous not only to her, but all of us. Don't blame the drugs, you already...
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    Lie Detection 101

    Let me get this straight. You're going to purposely lie to your girlfriend to see if she's possibly lying and you don't see where the problem really (cough) lies? Projection at it's finest.
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    Dump or Be Dumped

    Whoah whoah whoah dude...I'm cutting off the rest because in much of it you're pointing the finger at her when you were warned what would happen if you didn't straighten up. I told you what was going to happen in the other thread if you didn't immediately change what you were doing and I didn't...
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    Need a little help please!

    Don't even bother. You went 100% needy on her and it's obvious she's too much in your head and emotions for you to get anywhere that will end well. You told her what you were thinking. You told her how you were feeling. You told her that she's been on your mind so much that you're come up with...
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    Got a call from a restricted number today

    It's not what's wrong, it's about a huge girl trap she's working on. I guess I wasn't clear. She did this purposely and got the result she wanted. Confirmation that she can communicate what she wants to you. Even just this blatantly says it: That and the rest was purposely spoonfed to your...
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    The advice on this forum may damage you..

    Stop lying to people. The forums are right here. http://www.rsdnation.com/forum/1 Anyone who clicks and looks at what most RSD people are talking about and looking for will see that you're talking out of your ass and making shait up. Good stuff. I recommend it quite often here and in Real...
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    The advice on this forum may damage you..

    Yep. I don't DHV, I am HV. I'm C+F because I'm confident and relaxed and fun, not because I really think about it. IOIs don't matter. I am the prize. She'll blatantly chase if she's halfway perceptive. IOIs don't mean anything. Either they're there or not and it doesn't matter, I've "got...
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    The advice on this forum may damage you..

    It doesn't damage, look at what it did for you. You internalized what you were learning and don't need all of that stuff anymore. Congratulations, you ditched your training wheels and are just BEING instead DOING. You're more confident know so you can feel situations better and use your own...
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