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I haven't posted on this thread in a few months, but i'm feeling a bit weak recently. -Haven't spoken to her in over a year. -Haven't seen her in person in months. -Haven't looked at her facebook since the start of the year (which was a real problem before). It's all helping a lot and...

GFTOW! Go Fvck Ten Other Women! Whatever happened to that? Are guys even aware of that term anymore? Or has it just become a relic of the past? This is one of the first sites I came across when I first found the community, months before I found this place...

This is something I've been thinking about ever since I figured all this stuff out back in 08. But how many guys know about game? I remember when I started girls would respond quickly to me and seemed surprised. Some said they'd never met a guy who was so confident and forward, so I...

I feel ya pain man. I remember a couple years ago I got dumped and then had to listen to my housemate fvcking his girlfriend in the room above me every night. It made me feel even worse. I'm in a similar situation right now - when I'm at bars/clubs I know what to do, what to say, etc. but I...

Walk away. I know you won't, but seriously man just forget her. Nothing good ever comes from these situations. She ain't interested anymore. Anything she does now will be to mess with your head and keep you hooked. Don't play her games. Accept it's over right now. Rip the band aid off fast...

This is a great post by Pook. Gaining muscle is something that should be done at the same time as developing your personality. The two work together and you will become more confident. I started working out at the same time I discovered all the pick-up stuff. I’ve made progress but still have...

Thanks man. Good advice. Yeah you're right the new year is a good time to have a fresh start. Hopefully I can stick with it this time. I just remember the optimism and hope I had when I first discovered pick-up in 2008. It was like a new start to my life and I still believe it was one of the...

On the whole, 2010 was not a good year for me when it came to girls. It started off well when a oneitis came back. But she broke my heart and I'm still not really totally over it, even though it was months ago. I also didn't have much luck with other girls. To be honest I didn't make that...

^^Right on. How many times does it have to be said: The main reason for going No Contact is NOT TO GET HER BACK, but to allow YOU TO GET OVER HER. Even if she does come back you should turn her away, because it's only a matter of time before she leaves again. She has lost interest. She...

aaaaannnd after saying all that earlier i just totally caved and looked at her FB, ending my run on day 35. To make matters worse, i went all out and also looked at the profiles of 3 other girls which i have avoided doing for over 4 months. Not too bad because i don't like any of them, but...

Well, on day 35 of not seeing or communicating with her at all. Been strong up until now - but now I have the temptation to have a quick look at her facebook and see what's she's been up to. Gotta resist this because no good can come from it. That's why i'm posting here right now. The...

Spot on. I know this may hurt some guys' egos, but it's the truth. None of us are real alphas here. Maybe some here are more alpha than others and might even be quite successful with women. I expect we all have alpha moments. I even believe some of us will become REAL alphas one day and...

Well I made it to the end of October. Very pleased with that. She's still been on my mind this month but it's probably been the easiest month since it ended. I'm slowly getting it under control, but I still know I'm far from being totally over her. TOTAL NC certainly seems to help though. But...

Yep. It all starts with a bad mindset, which leads to not getting girls, which leads to an even worse mindset. And the cycle continues. You're right. My problems run much deeper than not getting girls. I don't really want to burden this place with all that though. I am certainly not at peace...

Until the end of October AT LEAST I am going NC. In my case it is not looking at her FB, etc. I already know I can go forever without contacting her. But I need to stop seeing photos of her out slvtting it up. It has gone on far too long and it only hurts me. It stops right now. First...

I have the opportunity to move on from my oneitis and I really have to take it now. The closure I need is there and I really need to finally walk away from this forever. It will be tough but my mindset has been very unhealthy recently. I have no excuses this time, nothing more to hold onto...

This is something I realized a year or so ago but I thought I would mention it on here because I’ve been thinking about it recently. Basically, despite all the people that say the media is totally pushing the nice guy myth, I’ve noticed that actually there’s a lot of truth in the media...

Thanks for the replies guys. So I guess the best thing to do is stay busy. And of course time heals all wounds. I have been total NC with her. She's on the edge of my social circle so it's difficult to avoid her completely but I try my best. I should never have got oneitis for this girl in...

I haven’t been on here for a couple of months and I have to say the break has felt very good. I think everyone needs to get away from this place every now and then. It’s healthy and it helps you gain perspective on the importance of women and where they fit into your life. I honestly wish I...

Count yourself lucky. I'm also about to graduate. However, I spent my first 2 years at college partying and doing no work, and I've truly and utterly fvcked up my degree. I regret it and wish I'd studied harder. Yeah, I have some good memories but what the fvck does that really matter now? I...