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    let's-just-be-friending women?

    Maybe best way to get a girlfriend is to just develop a deep connection with women, take it easy (not rush things) and wait for things to happen naturally at their own pace.... Girls will fall in love when they get to know the real you, at a deep level. Maybe they key is to just...
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    Sexual Repression

    I AM AFRAID of expressing my sexual desires and thoughts. I've been hiding my sexuality for 21 years. It's like wanting to pee but holding it in for 21 years.. I'm depressed and my love life is ****ed up. How can i fix this??????????
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    what do you do in this situation?

    Say a guy is like a feet taller than you, more muscular, a model, has money and chicks and he's arrogant, shallow and rude, and every time you see him, he tries to make you look bad in front of everybody else.... what do you do in such cases?????
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    Golden Rule of Kino Escalation

    What do you think is the Golden Rule for Kino Escalation? If you could follow one principle that summarizes the whole kino escalation thing, what would it be? Is it something like "Do what you feel" or "follow her signals"? What do you think?
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    Personal Development - A Counter Intuitive Approach

    My man, Please, I highly recommend that you go to www.attractioninstitute.org and read the book "Seduction Community Sucks" or just any of their articles. This site is totally different from all the things u' have probably seen before. Give it a chance
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    is it a good idea to fall in love?

    what do you think, you should FALL in love with the girl you like or falling in love is just disney/chick flick movie material?
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    Lil' problem

    When i'm at a club, and I'm about to dance, I feel very self-conscious, I feel that people WILL laugh at me, that I will look ridiculous, and I feel a lot of anxiety. I feel that my whole body will just look weird and ridiculous! What's the root/core of my problem? How can I solve it? thanks!
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    Flirting: a big problem for me

    I have problems with expressing my sexual desires with women. Flirting with women for me, it's something that makes me nervous and it's not enjoyable. It's something that takes a lot of effort and I dont know what to do about it! How can I make flirting a good experience for me? Flirting is so...
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    how to flirt effortlessly?

    For me flirting and expressing my desires takes a bit of guts. WHY!? How can I make it easy and effortless?
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    How do WE as men play "the game"?

    Women play "the game" by being hard to get, being unpredictable, etc. etc. and it works very good! most of the time.. but how do WE as men play the game too so that they become crazy about us too?
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    what if a girl painfully rejects you?

    What if she does??!! What if you try to do soemthing and she's mean to you? For example in one ocassion I was going to touch a girl's hand and comment on her ring, and she was like "don't touch me". What would you do in those kinds of situations!!!
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    THIS is how YOU stay out of the friendzone

    I agree to your thread 100% but let's try to summarize and simplify: so, would you say that being 100% honest is the way to avoid just friends zone?
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    The height issue / self limiting belief

    Also check this video, is a philosophy video about the hardships in life http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3pilLBcdSMI "The harder a man's situation, the greater he will be when he succeeds" -me (by the way, not only was napoleon short, he was also poor compared to his peers, immigrant...
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    The height issue / self limiting belief

    fvck that thing about height AND REMEMBER HISTORY. "IN OUR TIME, NO ONE HAS THE SLIGHTEST CONCEPTION OF WHAT IS GREAT, IT IS UP TO ME, TO GIVE THEM AN EXAMPLE" - NAPOLEON BONAPARTE. GHandhi was short too and he CHANGED the effing world. Alexander the GREAT the most brilliant military hero in the...
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    how to isolate without looking like a creeper?

    When I try to isolate, i feel it's obvious what my intentions are, and she knows too! And i just feel like a stalker or a creeper or something. It's just hard for mee. Isolation just doesn't feel good for me, unless i would really had to tell her something important. MAYBE, Isolation should...
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    today's approach... just let me know what u think!

    1. yeah but Hi do YOU isolate? cause, i dunno to me saying something like "hey, let's go over there and sit in the couch" or hey "lets go to my room" MY INTENTIONS SEEM OBVIOUS! and I fee like a creeper when i say thgs like that.!!! how would u isolate in that situaton? maybe like hey!, do u...
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    more emotional intimacy= easier kino? what do u think

    If u share ur feelings with a girl, if u open up ur heart and share ur dreams, insecurities, problems, values or whatever u want to share, do u think that she will be more open to kino, and that kino will be EASIER for u? do u think this will facilitate kino?
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    today's approach... just let me know what u think!

    So i was at the student union about an hour and a half ago, and there was a girl speaking spanish with an older woman... she was standing and the old woman was sitting on the chair (they were speaking at a table). my college is full of people from Peru, so i asked them, r u guys peruvian :) ...
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    How does a REAL MAN handle disrespect from women?

    I feel girls don't usually respect me as I deserve. They always treat me like, a second rate option. I think that's one of my problems, and that's why they always say they just want to be friends. When I tell them if they want to date me, they seem to be like umm yeah maybe someday. I feel im...
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    My experience yesterday: as vivid and precise as I can

    Do u mean that my kino is so subtle that im not communicating my intentions well, therefore they think im just touching them normally? that i shouldbe more direct and bold?
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