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Good point, Wyldfire. In this case, as you mentioned, she has already given plenty of other signals [to the AFC you were chatting with], so this could be one of her last attempts before moving on. Encourage that guy to ask for her number and ask her out. Because he is interested, he should...

For what it's worth, most middle class Americans love to fantasize and romanticize about the 'simple life' of the working class. They are oddities we like to look at and marvel at from time to time, but we don't actually want to be like them or actually live with them. How many of those...

What do you mean by that? I didn't really understand your last post at all. ---- I think I had two breaking points. The first was around age 20, my third year of university. I finally asked out this girl in my class who I had been drooling over all semester long. I really thought she liked...

How often do girls you know (or want to know) get asked out? I asked one girl this once (who I knew, and who I knew has a long term b/f) and she said "hardly ever". When I pressed her, she admitted that a guy or two had asked her to coffee or something like that in that past year. This girl...

I observe situations like that all the time now. It's like the whole world is one big episode of Blind Date.

I think Doc Love had a good article related to this topic: The Power of Feminine Grace http://www.sosuave.com/doclove/doc85.htm The idea is that men don't want women who are playing men's power games. Guys need to play these games to keep in control and keep the woman interested. Women have...

hmm, are you sleeping with these girls? That is the main reason I don't like female friends. You spend time (waste time?) with them, but never even get to first base with them. If you already have a girlfriend I guess that's ok.

A lot of young women are doing exactly that - aiming high. They are looking for older guys (late 20s, early 30s) who look good, dress well, have big degrees (MBA, law) from big schools. I know several girls with backgrounds as humble as mine. They like me as a friend because we have similar...

"As you think, you shall become." "Fake it until you make it" You have to start somewhere. Having the right mindset is important. I read this link each night, especially before going out.

Good point. Girls can test guys' interest levels all the time, and doing so helps build their confidence. Girls (sub-conscious?) minds: If I approach him and talk to him, can I get him to ask for my number? If I smile at him, can I get him to talk to me, and maybe get him to ask me out? (in...

Beautiful people have other beautiful people to compete with for the same job. If you watch Friends, remember the episode where Rachel hires the cute but unqualified assistant guy over the well qualified but not cute secretary lady. You better believe that stuff happens. Looks may not be...

Ah, well, it could just be because she's a girl, I guess there are always lots of variables. Ok, yeah, I got spanked too, I figure that is ok. I know some friends though that got belts and so on.

I think the most damaging lie I ever believed was "Looks don't matter." I was told that sometime in elementary school and I believed it for many years. Good looks are extremely important. Beautiful people as a whole have better lives: better jobs, better relationships, better outcomes in...

As part of your 'total improvement package' (improving your looks, career, etc. to ultimately become more desireable) it is important to remember the value of close male friendships. You guys are great virtual friends, just make sure that you have real male friends too to go running with or...

I recommend taking a gymnastics class. I did this in college and felt it was very helpful. To start, there will probably be plenty of girls in the class. Many girls did gymnastics when they were young and a few want to try it again in college. Most guys have never done gymnastics so you...

There is an audio version. I don't have it but I have heard someone else mention it. I'm on my forth reading of it in several years. Start with whatever looks interesting. I'd recommend chapter 1 and 2 (thoughts are things, and desire), chapter 11 (mystery of sex transmutation) and chapter...

I'm suspicious, Ms Thang. It is the same thing with kids who were abused, they likely turn into abusers themselves unless they work at it really hard - like every day. Maybe you are different, and can really change. Personally, I wouldn't go for marriage with a girl like that. On a realated...

"as you think, so shall you become" I've seen Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill mentioned in passing on this site before. I think this book is probably the inspiration for that quote. This is an old book that I think everyone should read. it won't directly help you get laid, but I think...

I used to get hung up on the age thing too. I'm 22 now, and the idea of dating an 18 or even 19 year old is still weird to me, in part because I know I was so much different back then. My parents are 6 years apart, 28 and 22 when they met (yikes). One friend 24, dated a 20 year old for a...