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So I've been seeing this girl for about 9 months now. Your welcome to look up my post history on how this relationship got started. Not the most romantic, but hey, I think things are as good as they can get now . Basically I've got a girl that will do anything for me. Is submissive inside and...

op, I haven't posted in months but everyone here is missing a crucial point. Your girl is doing you a favor with her actions here. So is your friend. Of course you'll have to let it play out. But I don't see this going any other way other than you needing to cut both of these people out of your...

So that makes it ok? I don't understand people whose morals change with the wind. Maybe morals is the wrong word, but don't people have any kind of conscious that prevents them from doing something that's been done to them? Maybe "morals" is a sliding scale. Kerpal (or anyone else that agrees...

Yes i agree. I think some guys need a reality check Anyone ever watch Criminal Minds? The way Morgan and Garcia get along is how I picture it. He is obviously out of her league, but is not too cool for her. Its never going to happen, so they just joke about it. You don't think more attractive...

Does it ever end? I realize that a woman's commitment to a man is mostly based on interest level. In that regard, so is a man's commitment to a woman. But sometimes I just want to tell my gf "yes I fckin like you!" Admittedly I tend to drift in and out of conversations with people, but...

That's not how it works. You're above them in value. Way above actually. Women don't go chasing every guy that walks by. My suggestion is to strategically make friends with a few of these girls that might be able to introduce you to their hot friends. Remember, a woman's value is inflated, so...

Take it from someone that was married (albeit very shortly) and has been in LTRs. Your job status does change the dynamic especially if you have crazy hours. Either you suffer (from lack of sleep) or she suffers (by not seeing you as much). In the end, you have to figure out something that works...

In short term, yes. Women accept the deal, but it is very rare (but possible) to string a girl longer than several months. I agree with the OP that it is hard to string a girl along. Maybe it makes me less of a man or whatever, but I don't have the heart to reject girls without feeling a...

I don't know how old you are, but you seem to be taking this a little too serious. Even if others are taking it seriously, you should still be cool about it. Even more so if you're dominating. This took me time to learn. I've played a ton of ball and now i coach. I definitely know what I'm doing...

good topic. People come to this site for different reasons and take away different messages. Your questions do bring up a solid point - why do guys need all this intel just to pick up girls? Just on a biological level, it should be pretty simple right? We all now its more complicated though. Why...

The problem for guys that are not above average in looks is this... Even if they do pull attractive women, its still not a genuine win for them. Why? Because these women didn't love him for just being himself. He had to change, adapt, re-mold his image to fit the likens of his target audience...

Ditto to that. Hate to say it, but in situations like these... fake it til you make it. Unless you have issues jacking off on your own, then you're probably just nervous with your girl. I don't like that she is blaming you for this issue (albeit indirectly). Possible red flag for not so...

cool, thanks guys. Good to know that is a common thing

so its been nearly 2 and a half years since i left my crazy ex-wife. She had many symptoms of the textbook bpd. Its been a long hard recovery from that relationship. I have a good grip on the why and how I let it happen, but its impossible to look at women the same way. Anyway, my ex-wife...

I realized something after leaving my wife: It was the tougher decision to leave her than to stay. She didn't cheat (i'll probably never know for sure though) but she had some dealbreaker issues. When I left, I was worried I did it pre-maturely and sometimes I wondered if I just wasn't strong...

Good advice. The girl that texted me today - turns out she has a bf and they're buying a house together! If I'm in a situation like that, last thing I'm thinking about is some chick from college. What could her MO possibly be? I will say, I still find it encouraging when people from my...

Yeah see that's I was thinking. i don't really have any family that I call on the phone besides immediate family. But I can't remember the last time I contacted an old friend unless it was for work or something.

How many of you get tracked down by girls years later? I would think if its some girl that you saw only a month ago, then maybe they just went thru the phone lineup and are back to the top of the list. But a girl that's kept your number for years? I do have to say that most of these girls...

Being honest with yourself is a good start! Any control you have over her is only the controls she gives you. Your best weapon is the power to walk away. Everything else is just talk.

I hope I'm not the only one that just ignores those kinds of texts. If anything I respond to those texts as a reward for her telling me how she feels. her: "i miss you" Me: "Hey keep your saturday open." I know when my girlfriend misses me because she amps up the texts. From "i miss you"...