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    How do you improve your close rate in daygame?

    I'm not going to answer your question directly. Day approaching is a numbers game, you need to go on runs where you are doing 5+ approaches a day to be successful. You said you have done 35 approaches over the span of 5 years, which is clearly not enough volume. If you want to have more success...
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    What are the biggest red flags for you?

    Over 30 and either never been married or never had a child
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    Being busy, pursuing passions and scarcity drives up your value bigtime

    Mountain biking, rock climbing, weight training consistently for 10+ years, trading, winning poker player and travel to play tournaments
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    Being busy, pursuing passions and scarcity drives up your value bigtime

    Appreciate the reply. I already can work remotely at a job that pays a lot, my problem has always been my communication skills... I have struggled with stuttering and "the way I say things" my entire life. Need learn to get better at communicating that when in person talking to women. There are...
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    Being busy, pursuing passions and scarcity drives up your value bigtime

    i'm just starting to date again after divorce then finding a fwb during covid. just had a date where the woman rejected me afterwards because i did not communicate well. after reading the post in this thread i think the main mistake was not communicating in a passionate way what my interest are...
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    Physical appealing of height, face, muscular.

    A friend of mine never goes to the gym, beer belly, 6'0", a bit of a *******, and has a face on par with say Gio Urshela from the Yankees. He has pulled some very hot women who like him only because of his face and he's a *******.
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    Windy City Chronicles 4 - Approach Journal

    Hey macallik, we hung out a few times years ago when I lived in Chicago. Nice to see you're keeping at it. I'm going through a divorce and live in Michigan now. Trying to get my feet underneath me again as far as dating.
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    The One Question You SHOULD Be Asking

    Yes I like using that as well. Any suggestions for a scenario that is currently playing out for me. Messaged a cute chick last week on okc, by thursday she gives me her number and tells me to hit her up without me asking for her number but after I suggested we grab drinks. I text her friday...
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    Stood me up with the Address

    I love this.
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    Back After Five Years for Advice...

    don't do it. i'm speaking from experience, not worth it once her bf finds out and trust me he will.
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    she canceled date by text I sent back 'ok' then she called me sulky

    This post has nothing to do with this situation just how my weekend went. I banged a hot little 22 yo over the weekend I met from online, the type who's getting 25+ messages a day. One of the things she says to me "why don't you text me?... I have other guys who text me and I feel like I have...
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    Worst date I've ever been on

    Don't ask her what her name is right after meeting her, comes off as rude.Try telling stories that are interesting. Your questions weren't interesting and seems like you didn't know where to go with them. Learn how to lead a conversation. I'm not trying to fight with you on a message board...
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    Worst date I've ever been on

    OP you really should work on your conversation skills, your **** was cringeworthy
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    What is sex like with a woman who is in her fifties and sixties?

    Whatever guys, just had a 52 yo cougar on match message me who live 4 hours away and visits my city once a month. I bang women in their 20-30's but no why I'm going to pass up the opportunity to get some action from this one. Also she's a doctor, stays in ridiculously good shape(body looks like...
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    Worst date I've ever been on

    This. and lol@ not paying for her $5 coffee. I mean its $5, more of a nice gesture than anything. I could see if this was like a $50 bar tab or something, but its five dollars and its a model chick you invited out over facebook. Seems like you were trying to make up for your poor conversational...
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    Messed setting up date

    How much had things escalated with her the past two weeks? did you fuk her yet? makeout? the whole part about I'll pay for you're movie ticket was so unnecessary, and asking if it would be easier to meet at movies or your house? c'mon man be a man, you tell her where to meet you girls hate a...
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    Liquid Viagra

    Malice did you order it off their website? I'm always worried my credit card info will be compromised if I order things like this off the internet from sites that aren't well known.
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    Double the age and may possibly have both major strains of herpes.

    OP you've got some major issues with your self if you are even considering anything aside from friendship with this woman, for serious.
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    found out chick I have 2nd date with in 2 days is on match.com

    Logistics of first date and me being tired didn't make it an option for sex, in other words I didn't feel like having sex with anyone that night. Also when I'm getting sex from other women and I met a new one having sex on the first night isn't that much of a goal for me, the second date is when...
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