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    do not lose focus, do not be discourage.

    You have probably read this at some point in your life, or at some point in this forum. I am not going to give you a mind opening, all revealing post that will make you get it. However sometimes we need to remind ourself of a little something from time to time. The best way not to get...
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    Sosuave Is NOT the problem

    Sosuave.com is not the problem, it is not the solution, girls are not the problem and they are not the solution. The problem is not the website, the problem is not women, the problem is not your work, the problem is not your family, the problem are not your friends. If the problem is not your...
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    The Seduction Game Explained

    many DJ's have different tactics. some use SS, some NLP, some use the MISTERY METHOD, now i hear of SEXUAL STATE. the school of thought, i came from back when i joined this forum was the overall, and gradual self improvement. here i will try to explain all the theories and why they work. In...
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    older girls 25 and 29 i need a second opinion on this

    i will give you a backround on both of them but first i must tell you that i am more interested in the 25 year old im 19 years old, where i go to school i met this pretty girl, she is interesting, fun, there is always something to talk about with her and i already asked her out on a date...
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    i turned 19 yesterday!!!!!!! i feel different

    hey DJs i turned 19 yesterday!!!!! had lots of fun spent it with my bros and parents. so im really exited about being 19!!!!!!! i feel different about the dj board. i feel like im not getting anything out of it anymore, i feel like i know the theory but im still way inexperienced (a got a...
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    wow, i got played big time (outdjed),i feel like an AFC

    hey DJ's Im in the stage where certain DJ traits come naturally, C+F, neg hits, i know when i make a mistake, i can read body language, i can read IL, I got the balls to aproach, but there are somethings that i need to learn/incorporate into my personality. anyway my dj traits come naturaly...
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    if you dont want to torture yourself follow my advice

    If you dont want to torture yourself the first thing you need to do is have a goal. Like in everything you need to plan what outcome you want, you cant just go for it and see what happens because you'll get caught up in the moment (you know what you want deep down inside you or else you would...
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    my first date with an older chick

    I will give as much detail as I can. I asked this chick who's 21 and we had already flirted so much and she had given me all the green lights. being my first date with a girl in a long time i made some mistakes but i just have to learn from them. first mistake i envited her out but i wasnt...
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    need a little advice on where to go

    I have been a member for a while but i use to read all the advice and the DJB so i started to slowly make myself more confident and transform into the dj i always wanted to be. i turned from the "she is too good for me" to the "she aint good enough to deserve my time" :) (yeah the arrogance...
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    What do you guys think about this situation?

    there is a 21 year old girl where i work and i have always negged her and teased her and made fun of her and all that stuff, she would always neg me back, teased me and we had a fun time "arguing" with each other all the time. ( and yes i know, i seem to have a thing about females at my work...
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    a challenge, finaly something to get me off my ass

    hi djs, I'm a lazy guy, im ****y im arrogant, funny, smart and on and on and on. But like all of you I'm not so skillful at dealing with women (im 18 so i still got plenty of time) Anyway i have been around on and off for 3 years taking it slow and getting numbers but being to lazy to follow...
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    an obvious tip, yet.......often we mess up

    One of the things that I've notice that happers my DJing is my lack of patience (or however you spell that darn word) it sounds so common sence yet we mess up on this little word so much. You got the attitude, you got the number and you say to yourself I'll call her in 5 days (4,3...
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    a little story about a girl at my work

    Hi fellow dj's new and old, it's been a while since i don't read the forums or all the stuff so if you dont know me it's cause you are new ,cause it's impossible to forget me.:) a couple days ago a girl like about 2 yrs older than me, she is 20 got hired. she also went to the same school as i...
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    a weird succes story

    hey my fellow djs i havent visited the site for a while but i want to tell you my success story. im a 16 year old junior good looking (or so my mom says ) 5'3. so basicly last year i began to be a dj i started trying all this stuff talk to girls and all. this year though my drive, my passion...
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    whats failure for you...............MUST READ!!!!!!!!!!

    what do you consider failure? what do you consider succes? is failure to you getting rejected, not getting the numbers, getting a cold and *****y responce? is failure not getting any puzzy? is it aproaching a girl and getting so nervous you do something stupid? is faliure going for the kiss and...
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    its all in your minds

    i have realized something today. everything is in your mind,so try looking at things positively. i have read many guys in this site saying "i suck", "how can i do this", "i have no balls", "i will never be good with girls" " i cant aproach im a puzzy" nononononon fellow djs thats not the...
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    a little secret on aproaching girls

    fear of aproaching a girl is one of the worst and pointless fears a guy can ever have. me as a guy i still feel kinda nervous when i think about aproaching someone, but let me tell you something my friends girls are social creatures and they are emotional and caring by nature. here are two...
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    THE ATTITUDE TO HAVE TOWARDS WOMAN

    MY ATTITUDE I WILL HAVE TOWARDS WOMAN hey after being in this site for months. i have developed the ideal attitude (at least to me) and i thought i would share it with all of you who are willing try this stuff, or all of you who are recovering nice guys,and all the newbies out there. also if you...
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    do yourself a favor and READ this!!!!!!!!!!!

    Whats up with you guys? if you really want to be a true don juan you seriously need to change your way of thinking and your definition of succes with women. So this is something you need to keep in consideration. Actually there are two things you should consider and those are SUCCES IS NOT ONLY...
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