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    TRUE value/self whorth/confidence!!

    a couple of things that seem to be working for me lately. 1) Live a life consistent with your beliefs, morals, goals, whatever. When you imagine who you want to be, really be that person. Every decision you make goes into whether or not you are that person or not. Example: I'm a person that...
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    "Are You Into Asians?"

    "It's not that I'm into Asian girls as much as Asian girls are into me" srs, it's like I can be taking a **** and if an asian girl, particularly one raised in the states, is around, she will find me. I actually don't want to date another and there are a couple, unfortunately not hot, after me.
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    Best Cities

    Thanks for the words of wisdom guys. The salary I gave is actually a question of lifestyle. The jobs I like pay about that amount. I am not really interested in buying property or supporting a family at this point in time. I have a condo that I rent out already so I am building equity that way...
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    Best Cities

    That's what I want to hear. I thought that guy was just complaining about New York.
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    Best Cities

    I lived in DC for a couple of years and I agree, I had a great time. While I would love to go back, I sort of have this wanderlust to go somewhere new as well.
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    Best Cities

    Thanks. As far as the Forbes list goes I have seen it but I don't take too much stock in it. For one I have heard people say that even with the overload of gay men San Fran is still no good for straight guys. I have also heard that another of their favorite cities Denver is 2-1 men/women ratio...
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    Best Cities

    Ok players, I got my first couple of job offers in the pipe. I am looking to move. I am wondering what cities do you think are the best for the nightlife. My options are let's say Atlanta, Boston, Chicago, DC, LA, Houston, Miami, Montreal, New York, and Rome(pipe dream). Rank in order of...
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    bars and clubs, are you over it?

    I'm so into salsa now that it is a major factor in my decisions on where to move. The thing about salsa, if you are a good dancer is you quite simply have access to more women. The early stages, getting to know a chick, getting a number, getting early dates is almost forced upon you in...
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    Back to the game

    Honestly, until I see proof otherwise or she tells me I will believe that there is nobody else. But that really doesn't make a difference . . . still walking away. Making her jealous????? What's the point. I'm walking away now. If she comes back she comes back and I deal with it then. Until...
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    Back to the game

    walking away and not looking back my friends, walking away and not looking back. Thanks for the slap to the face. We all need it sometimes.
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    Back to the game

    Not another guy. Definitely not with her. She has a ridiculous amount of integrity. Basically we are in a really long distance relationship and the situation was just getting stressful for both of us. She went overseas for a year. We had been fighting a bit over the last few months. She had...
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    Back to the game

    Well, the "quality woman" I was dating for 2 years is flaking out. Its all good, she is still a quality woman, just under alot of stress and needs time to figure stuff out. I Tried to make it work, oh well. Time to walk away and not look back . . . . . .
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    Why do you do what you do?

    I am going to answer your original question because I am not a motivational speaker. Recipe for me to question my life purpose: Take one highly motivated, high achieving person. Pre-prepare in college and graduate school for 4-10 years. Take said person and place in mundane white...
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    How often do you meet a woman you are REALLY attracted to? Just met the latest.....

    That doesn't sound like the type of attraction I thought you were talking about. There are many girls/women whom I would love to just have sex with. But what I thought you were talking about was the type of attraction that could lead to one-itis if you weren't careful.
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    How often do you meet a woman you are REALLY attracted to? Just met the latest.....

    Do you still feel a strong attraction to her after what she shared with you? To be honest that would kill any sense of attraction I had for her. Argue that it's not her fault all you like, I even agree but I wouldn't want to deal with that baggage.
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    Asking if a girl is a virgin.

    itishe, I have dated virgins before.(Well past the age when they should have been) . . don't worry about it. Keep escalating, don't ask her. She will tell you eventually(most often in a conversation where she explains to you that she moves slower than other girls). At this point she...
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    No more head when in a "relationship."

    There are two major factors to get Head in a relationship at least if the girl is at all decent, and it has nothing to do with being alpha to death with her. 1) make her cvm, eat her out. I even go down on her first 2) Don't be afraid to ask. If you do those 2 things and she still does...
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    Please check your victim hat at the SoSuave door.

    BRAVO!!!!!!!!! I get so sick of people saying aah my life sucks . . . DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, TAKE CONTROL.
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    You know what the hardest thing about chasing women when you get older?

    If you really feel that all the women your age are taken then here is an idea . . . you ready . . . it's pretty radical . . . DATE YOUNGER WOMEN. The prime age for the women I start to date is mid 20's 23-26. It will stay that way everytime I find myself single again.
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    Marriage

    By the nature of "God" it can not be proved. I am also agnostic but with a stronger slant. Not just that God hasn't been proved but actually that God is an unprovable concept. Any "concrete" proof for the existence of God will eventually be explained away in the halls of science. The...
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