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About me: - Late bloomer, had one LTR from ages 22 to 25, dated a few other girls but nothing serious. - The girl I'm referring to in this message is my 2nd girlfriend. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I told her I love her. We've been in a...

Had a great first date with a girl on Thursday, although logistics did not afford the right opportunity for a kiss. Her interest signals seemed very solid though. She will be away for a week starting next Tuesday. Should I use momentum to my advantage and set up a 2nd date with her for...

I added an HB7, friend of a female friend of mine, on facebook. I sent her a very casual and short message and she never replied, although she did update her facebook status (meaning she received it). Needless to say, I erased her after a few days. After subtly mentioning this to my female...

- I'm a decent looking guy although very thin (5'8 - 112 lbs). I'm working on trying to gain at least 20 lbs of muscle and fat. I've always had body image issues and used to get teased a lot about my weight when I was young. This, combined with my AFC personality resulted in low self-esteem and...

This girl and I are both connected through facebook and have known each other for a few months. She has always shown strong signs of interest in me, but I never made a move because I had a girlfriend. I'm now single and she knows this. A couple of weeks ago, we both agreed we should meet for...

I know to wait at least 4 or 5 days before calling a girl. I got a girl's phone number about 10 days ago and intend on calling her today. I've known her for a bit and she has shown interest in me. Is there a point at which her interest level starts to go down if you wait too long to call her?

I set up a first date with a cool, sophisticated and intelligent girl who's a friend of a friend. We agreed to meet at 8:30 p.m. at a local coffee shop. I have her phone number but she doesn't have mine. At 8:40 p.m. there's no sign of her so I call and she's apologizing profusely about being...

Why is it a red flag if a girl wants to be your girlfriend after 3 or 4 dates, and you've had sex with her?

This is an extension of a thread I started and I thought I would make the title clearer to make it easy for people to find advice on what to do in this type of situation. Assume you've asked a girl out to a specific date (not necessarily on the phone) and she says, enthusiastically, "give me...

A few days ago, I ended a 3 year relationship. She was my first. I've been having a hard time sleeping, have been feeling uneasy, very tired (emotionally and physically) and anxious/nervous. I asked a female acquaintance of mine out for coffee next Monday through facebook. I know...I should...

It's been often said on this site that men who are inexperienced shouldn't get into long term relationships or marriage. However, what if you're a man who qualifies as a Don Juan, meaning you're successful, happy and confident with your life without the need for women, and happen to meet a girl...

How would you rate her on a scale from 1 to 10? with make up: http://i660.photobucket.com/albums/uu322/decentguy_2009/girl2.jpg no make up: http://i660.photobucket.com/albums/uu322/decentguy_2009/girl.jpg p.s.: this is a simple exercise in satisfying my curiosity about something in...

I’m 25 and have been in a LRT for the past 3 years. She’s my first girlfriend and is 23. Although I’ve been on a few dates with other girls before her, I was basically a virgin (as was she) who had never kissed a girl. I’m educated, decent looking, well spoken, socially comfortable and well...