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    Anyone have success with telling a girl how you feel?

    Has anyone had any success with telling a girl how you feel? My feelings for this chick are eating me up inside and I'd like to just cut thru all the bs and just let her know how I feel. Most of the advice on this site would tell you not to tell a girl how you feel, but is this always the...
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    Tricky-Tricky-Tricky! When would you make a move?

    I'm thinking I'll keep things casual for now and spin other plates. When in Sweden I will make a move.
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    Tricky-Tricky-Tricky! When would you make a move?

    Yeah, I know exactly what you're alluding to. I have two other plates spinning.:up: I've been in the game for a few years and at this point I know exactly what I want, hence why I'm hung up on this chick even though there have been many girls in the picture this whole time that I've known...
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    Tricky-Tricky-Tricky! When would you make a move?

    I just started implementing Mr. Fingers' "Escaping the Friend Zone" techniques on a friend of mine. Check out his classic post here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=43174&highlight=turning+friend The problems w/my situation: 1) I've been her friend for about a year now 2)...
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    The Facebook Pimping Thread

    It sounds like you haven't had much success on Facebook (FB). I had a former classmate randomly find me on FB. We messaged back and forth and I eventually convinced her to come over to my band's practice and ended up f%&king her that night. No date--> just straight to the point. Due to my...
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    The Facebook Pimping Thread

    The one photo album I have is only of me doing adventurous activities (surfing, sailing, riding a camel, etc.). My intention is to get girls to associate me with adventure and physical activity. Hopefully it get's their blood pumping too. The photos I'm tagged in include a bunch where I'm...
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    Asked her out to beach... says " I'll think about it" what you think?

    If you told her that you would talk to her tomorrow, then call her. You have to be aware that when you ask a girl to the beach that this may put some of her insecurities front and center. Insecurities like unwanted body hair, love handles, scars, etc. She may also suspect that you're a perv...
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    Me and my teacher

    A little background is necessary here. I'm a GTA (graduate teaching instructor), which I'm guessing is your instructors position. She seems a bit young to be a professor, so she is likely a graduate student still, like myself. We are not allowed to see (f*ck or date) current students, but we...
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    What's your take on this IM Convo

    She passively told you she would call you. If she doesn't, then you know she is not interested. Wait...patiently.:cool:
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    What you would have done differently in college

    If you dig around online you'll eventually stumble upon statistical evidence that those who have college degrees on average make more than those who don't. I'm a sociologist and I've read many of these papers. So it does make dollars and sense for most. Of course you have statistical outliers...
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    Dont know what to do need help

    Assualt is a crime. Call the cops.
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    I am so fycking unbelievably pissed off right now...

    No worries. It sounds to me like this dude should be completely cut from your life. No friend behaves in that manner. As for the girl, that is the tricky part. Tell her the truth, that it was only a silly bet and that you didn't expect that clown that was your friend to tell her.
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    I am so fycking unbelievably pissed off right now...

    Hey moderator, could you move this to the high school forum. Thanks.
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    To date a younger girl or not to?

    Most of the girls I date are younger than me. Not sure why, but it could be that I look younger than I actually am. I'm 26 and currently dating a 21 year old. The best relationship I have ever been in started when I was a senior in college with a freshman at the same university. Turned into...
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    Met a girl at small get together...

    I would wait 3 to 4 days to contact her. 1 to 2 is too predictable, and this way she will be thinking about why you haven't contacted her yet. Next, I would set up a meeting at a cafe because it's much less formal than lunch. Cafes are pretty relaxed settings and if she really isn't as...
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    Advice on how to treat this new girl

    Keep her around. It shouldn't matter if your friends think she's gf material, what matters is if you think she's gf material. Has she brought up the "relationship" convo? If not, make sure she's the one that does not you. It also sounds like you need to get your house in order. Your...
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    "She said what?!"

    Go with option B. She made this really easy for you by communicating to you that she's not interested by ignoring your texts and then straight telling you that you're not her type. Continuing the pursuit is only going to freak her out.
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    Is this a good thing to say?

    The playfulness is good, but I think it's way too aggressive and places you in the palm of her hand. Flip it around by convincing her that she's hitting on you. She should see you as the ultimate prize that all girls should want to be with. Good luck!:rockon:
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    Taller girl.

    Don't remind her of the fact that you are shorter than her. You're one joke about the height issue should be it. Height may be a preference for many girls, like big t*ts and a round a** is for us dudes. But God knows that we hook up with flat chested chicks and girls with gumby bottoms all...
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    About Being "Persistent"

    Are we supposed to be doing the chasing? Or are we considered the prize?
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