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For those of you I know, it's good to see you again. For those of you I haven't met, it's good to meet you. I've been away (relocated from SanFrancisco to Paris) for a bit, but I'm back now and I'll be weighing in from time to time. Here's hello... How not to play the game, in 6 easy steps...

The first thing to consider is her age...if she's 21 and doing this, she might be a player or, simply, REALLY bold. If she's 33 and doing this, that's another story. Is she an American? Is she gorgeous? Did you get overtly sexual innuendo or body language from her? Obviously something in her...

Poet I think both NSS and Peak have good advice here. Now that you've laid your cards on the table, walk away. Get on with life. She needs to solve her own problems, then return to you. That's the healthy way, I think. Get back to your harley...go for a weekend ride somewhere...get your mind...

Poet... Hrm...wow. That's quite a letter. I don't mind that you used my words. I hope they help. As for my thoughts, I'm ambivalent. On the one hand, you're reaching out to her. If you believe in love and you understand that love is about sharing, then this is a great thing...especially if you...

Poet I understand your dilemma...I've dealt with a couple women like this. So, some thoughts... First of all, you seem to have strong feelings for this girl...but now is the time to really evaluate these more deeply. This whole thing is a test and you should be true to your feelings above all...

good post.

I was at a club with a friend saturday, sitting outside for a break, enjoying the cool air and a brief rest from dancing. A talkative gay man approaches and begins talking to my (female) friend and I. It was a long conversation and this guy was a character and a half, well worth a novel unto...

Thanks. Sometimes you need this exact thing to get you back on track.

ChrisFL, that response has me actually thinking about joining a gym. that's a compliment, so smile.

This is natural. I get this a lot in clubs. After watching a girl dance for ten minutes, good eye contact, all the right body language...she leaves. bad?...no, VERY GOOD. Usually she leaves the dancefloor and stands alone, against the wall, behind me. It's very odd how often it works exactly...

okay, this is tough... one way to avoid this is to leave your number the second time you call...maybe cop an attitude and tell her that you only call twice without an answer before you move on...if she wants to talk, she should call you. you give her a little control, but really, it's...

perfume isn't necessary. it's all about quick-thinking, guys...if you ask and she's not wearing perfume, it's time for some bullsh*t...tell her, "well, I don't know what it is, but your scent intoxicates me." Then it's not about the perfume, it's about her, personally... The one thing I've...

I've noticed that this works in pick-up environments, too...girls that are attracted to you in clubs or bars (or in other places where they can easily walk by, slowly, closely) WILL DO SO...I always try to smell each of these girls as they walk past... first of all, it gives you more...