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    Confidence buider for the super shy guy

    Iknow what you are saying. I think i am beyond super shy though as i have trouble even making eye contact. i have been working on this for the last few weeks and am making progress. Something additional count every contact as a victory. Small victories will lead to bigger ones...
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    You can dump on AD all you want....

    youv'e got me to. ------------------ (24) Fear is seductive. Don`t let it be the love of your life
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    You can dump on AD all you want....

    I am picking the middle road the niceness with the confidence and abiltiy to walk away from anyone anytime anywhere. The middle road is the best one. AD most of my defense systems were what you described bassically a repulsion field that is selctive. This is useful but counter intuitive as it...
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    You can dump on AD all you want....

    Having benn a "nice guy" and following ADs approach in different time i would say that niether is effective in getting women. I would say that you would need a balance of AD's and Devlars advice. If you keep emotionally diconnected you will be seen as nit boyfriend material but this also...
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    When she asks you to go through your past relationships

    AD i am thinker Always thinking of new things to do and palces to go. You also have to be a doer to or you will be BORING. Better of leaving the past in the past unless you want the friend ship zone. But you need to give her something or it will not work. You need to find a balance or you will...
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    Treat All Women The Same (during the first two months)

    You only put general in formation with asprinkling of minor personal information. You don't say what you do alot in your spare time. but you have to show that you have some intelligence and aren't one sided. If you are one sided it will come off as lacking substance. I happen to love a good...
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    Treat All Women The Same (during the first two months)

    AD yep you are right about treating all women the same. but what if she is diclosing information about herself and you are stone faced. If there is no two way communication there will be no chemistry, NO CHEMISTRY =>NO INTEREST. You wait a few days but the number should be up to you. You need...
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    Heartbreak Survivor, Episode I, Part 1: The Return of the User

    An alternative could be NO i am busy on that day. You are going in the right direction
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    Keeping intrest level up

    For a start grow some balls and strike out for your own destiny. don't follow someones rules just becuase they are rules(this includes your own rules. Be able to think on your feet. Be adventerous/spontaneous no girl like being bored. Have a little jealousy too much is bad and so is none. A bit...
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    Fear of Rejection?

    That is waht my siganture is saying. Men love their fears and will cling to them like a lover. If you love your fears you will nourish them and it will restrict your life. I already know this and it is what i am trying to change about myself. The anxiety that i feel when someone is interested...
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    The Don Juan Pledge of Honor

    I mean that you should call in 2 or 3 days to arange a date 1-2 weeks in advance. Reason you are busy you have you own life to run. Get your own style for everything don't be a sheep blindly following the herd. Poinless rules are meant to be broken. I think having a short conversation about...
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    The Don Juan Pledge of Honor

    Vassago made a very good point if you have balls it does not matter when you ask . just the fact that you are not desperate. I would also add the subtext that i picked you to have a date with over everyone else that i know. HINT Pick date in the relatively distant future (2 weeks from the day...
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