Female reporting in here, I have posted a few times on here and wanted to chime in on this topic.
I am one of the rare ones who comes from a past of severe abuse and torture when i was a young lady. wont go into details but it was bad.
20 yrs later at the age of 39 i still have an issues...
Part of the reason with him is because hes almost a mirror image of my ex who beat me not just his looks but how he dresses and treats me.. Why in the **** would i be attracted to such a man . Maybe i have the stockholm syndrome lol....
Hi " Guys" its me again.
I told my story already but i was thinking to get a good discussion going on oneitis , why some people are prone to it and some are not. What causes it and how to get over it.
I know this topic can be found in many search results but i wanted to put a females...
I agree attraction is not a choice.. I always thought with this man the sexual chemistry was a once in a lifetime thing....
Its hard to find.. Sure i see atractive men... But when there is that chemistry you cant explain why.. :)
The kind of chemistry that makes your thighs quiver lol...
hahah@ wolf.... You guys are helping me so much... You see though i have been played lied to manipulated for so long by him.. Im guessing i learned alot and wouldnt fall for it anymore..
Yeh i know he jerked off to them i am not stupid.. Now the first time he told me this i cried i will...
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I guess 26 months is a long time to give this man lol... I had a background of terrible abuse so i asked myself if i craved abuse..... Maybe to a point but this has surpassed it all.... Not to sound arrogant but i am a very good looking woman who has no problem with men hitting on me...
Ok love the message board guys.. :)
I have come here out of absolute desperation for help ;)
Let me summarize my situation...
I Met a guy 2 years ago... we are both involved with others...
I was very naive to so many things living a sheltered life raising kids being the good...
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