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    A Friends Inconvienent Truth

    Tell your friend that he should start going out on his own, no gf. To help him detach a little bit from her. If she is disrespecting him, he simply should stop placing his attention on her. Hopefully, she will notice this change in attitude, and will stop behaving like this, for fear of...
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    To buy or not to buy lingerie

    Though you guys might want to hear an update I end up doing a mix of all three suggestions, I did gave her the stuff she asked, and when she asked me about the lingerie that I supposedly was going to buy (i knew was being sh!t tested), i told her "there were two models i liked, but i'm still...
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    To buy or not to buy lingerie

    @ sodbuster: Eventhough I haven't had her, I know her size, a couple of days later I was teasing her, and took a wild guess at her size, and nailed it square!! she was like "how the duck did you know??", I just told her it was a connoseurs thing
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    To buy or not to buy lingerie

    amoka and Scaramouche, reflect perfectly my two views of the situation, on one side I think like amoka, into not letting myself show too much eagerness and play the pr!ck who didn't care about what she wanted, and bought her whatever he liked. And the other thinks like Scaramouche and just...
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    To buy or not to buy lingerie

    So, I'm going to participate in a gift exchange, and the person I have to give the gift is a girl, who is into me. Now when we were asked what we would like to receive in this exchange, she asked from something of Victoria's Secret, to which I replied "ok, so what colors you like on...
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    What is it about control?

    I hear you man, I've had the exact same problems as you. First, my friends who I tried to help to unplug from the matrix, turned on me once they got girlfriends, and now they replugged themselves, I hate to say it, but they are AFC beyond repair, So, what did I do? Let them be, I will...
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    Ask a girl!

    Look by alphaness we don't mean the macho stereotype you're talking about, this website, promotes self improvement in order to become high value men, good leaders, and such, hence the alpha. You as a woman can't deny this, I mean, I don't think you'd be attracted to a guy that only lives to...
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    Want to contact a girl from my past. Good or bad idea

    I don't see the point of doing it, I mean, if she were so important for you in the first place, you would have done these inmediately. Getting back in touch with people you've lost contact in a long time, ends up being dull most of the time, and follow up from the initial contact is...
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    Getting back a girl when she thinks you're a jerk/a**hole??

    Dude, just ask her out and quit being a jerk around her. Most guys around here confuse being alpha with treating the girl bad. Being alpha is more about being cool, taking iniciative, and being impervious to sh!t. HOWEVER, if someone doesn't act according to your standards, or messes with...
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    How do I convince GF to give me a lapdance?

    I have asked this to my 2 exes, and they both did, you just have to ask them. Just tell her the next time you hace sex "y'know what? I'd really love it if you could do me a lapdance" I would go on the costumes, just yet, try to keep casual, as if the thought just crossed you mind. If she...
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    Back in the field [FR]

    Being this the first time I went out to sarge since my breakup (3 months ago), I decided to write a field report about it, so here it goes. Me and a friend of mine used to sarge in a Salsa Club that’s near my place about a year ago, long story short, I got a girlfriend and stopped sarging (I...
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    I'm new and confused (and my introduction)

    Hey man, welcome to the forum, LJBF stands for "Let's Just be Friends" and, AFC for "Average Frustrated Chump" Cheers
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    Recovering from negs

    Chill man, just treat this girl like nothing happened, say hello, do small talk (2-4 mins), and bounce off, don't let it show that it phases you cuz you'll be validating her feelings. If you do this, she may start to think that she overreacted. Be the mature one. Meanwhile, do what daygameguy...
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    Everything You Read Here About Bipolar Girls Is True...Take The Advice

    What up man?, I think you already know the answer for yourself. Most likely she'll try to contact you, to talk about sh!t, you know the drill. Just don't answer, then you'll see her pass through anger, sadness, acceptance, anger again. Eventually she'll leave you alone, just stay strong...
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    was a PUA in training, got engeged and we broke up

    Ok, let's say she's just confused. If she contacts you, and you take her back, what guarantee do you have that this won't happen again after married? Plus, now that she knows that she can get away with it, the probability of her doing it again increases 10x Consider yourself lucky that you're...
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    tell my gf I'm depressed?

    I wouldn't let her know exactly that i'm depressed. If she asks me what's going on, I would just tell her that things at work have been a little tough, but nothing to worry about, don't say anything else (that will keep her interest level, and she'll maybe try to comfort you). Just don't tell...
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    gf on vacation and hasn't called

    Don't text her, nor call her, and when she comes back don't rush back to see her. You're a man, and you won't be wasting your time and attention on some girl who doesn't treat you respectfully. When she comes back, if she doesn't bring this up, neither will you (if you do, that will give her...
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    how to get her back and some queries

    Dude, you may not like this advice, but you've got to let her go. A month ago I wouldn't want to listen, but it's true. Common advice out there will be to go ganji on her, go no contact, and after a month or so, once you both calmed down, contact her in a nonchalant way to a risk free get...
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    What to do when i see a hot girl on the street?

    You could also try to print a sheet of paper with the photo of a puppy, and say that you're helping a friend to find a place for the little fella. You can start the convo by telling the girl "you seem like a nice person" and start talking about the puppy, and you can pick her numbers if she's...
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    external confidence vs internal confidence

    Keep improving your social skills. Also try to practice some sport, or going to the gym, hang out with friends, do some new stuff. The thing is, to enrich you life with experiences.
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