Search results

Joined this site called "Thought Catalog" a few months ago. It definitely skews female and from time to time I go on the comments and start trolling. Usually, though, there's no point. You can learn a lot from just reading some of the tripe posted on there and simply doing the opposite of what's...

Got this cutie's number last week at this concert/lounge thing. It was at the end of the night but we had a lot of common, both creatives. My buddy actually approached her (I was looking the other way at the time) but it was clear she was attracted to me. She was there with her friends (all...

Short field report. Thought maybe it was worth posting just because it shows just how everything is relative and that anyone can remake themselves. Headed to a lounge for my boy's birthday. It was a 2 weekend celebration and this was the final night. Get there dressed in my good luck zara...

"Cheryl Yeoh, a tech entrepreneur in San Francisco, said that she has been on many formal dates of late — plays, fancy restaurants. One suitor even presented her with red roses. For her, the old traditions are alive simply because she refuses to put up with anything less. She generally refuses...

Anyone try using this website: meetup.com Made it my New Years Resolution -- my only one really -- to join a couple of them. Doing dodgeball for fun and some singles adventures in my city group. I'd like to expand my social circle and any women I meet from it would just be an added bonus. Woke...

It's funny how when we're interested in a girl, we start to make excuses when she doesn't do something we expect her to do. For example, initiating texts. If a girl doesn't initiate at least some of the time, her interest isn't high. Sometimes we try to explain the situation away, "she's...

These days I've been seeing sh** tests in a new light. Rather than being annoyed or discouraged by them, I see them an IOI. I see a green light rather than a yellow or red one. It means your foot is in the door. Think about it, women only test those who they already have some level of...

There's a new statistic that says the average video game player isn't a 21 year old dude living in his parents basement, or even a fairly-well adjusted 18-35 year old male who plays video games a few hours a week... ... Nope, the average video game player is a mid-20s female! Of course...

Here's a tricky one I dealt with last night. So I'm hanging out at a house party with a bunch of dudes and girls I've known since college, some better than others. I'm a new man now, a better person all in all but sometimes I revert back to my old ways-- or better yet-- am afraid to express...

I've done everything to try to overcome social anxiety, from exposure therapy to even briefly SSRIs. Nothing has been more effective than cognitive behavioral therapy, basically the idea that thoughts influence behaviors and vice versa, and working on changing both. One technique I learned...

...that makes UGs-HB5's approach you from time to time. This coming year I'd like to up my interactions with quality women in my league. While I'm not offended/annoyed when a not so cute girl approaches me, I'd like to get to the point where they don't. I think it'd say a lot about my...

There are a lot of posts and information on this site. An overwhelming number of rules to becoming a successful DJ. I've always believed, though, that the distance between doing what you've been doing (failure) and making a change is very short (success). I went on a date a couple of weeks...

Last week me and my friend went a party. He started talking w/a girl who apparently he met a week earlier. I stayed on the sidelines but after a friend of mine came by and loudly shot the **** w/me, she started giving me IOIs. "I like your shirt" "You've seen you around...you're a rather...

Last semester I was going after this girl who overtly made it known that she found me attractive. She met my friend soon after and apparently had had a crush on him since freshman year. She didn't seem to be feeling me as much so I threw in the towel. I still went to her parties and one night I...

Met a girl on NYE. A friend of a girl my friend was after. We had each other's backs that night. On the ride over from the pre-party to the actual one, I started talking to her, my usual C&F about seeming to be from another school. At the party, I stayed in her vicinity, while talking to some...

Met this HB7.5 a few weeks ago. We've hung out a few times since. Invited me up for a get together to celebrate end of finals. It's the last time we'll hang out before winter break. We haven't kissed. Should that be my goal? I see this more as a long term thing instead of just a hook up.

Not an amazing weekend. Things were going well w/this girl. Definitely digging me. But then I started over thinking it. I went up to a get together at her friends and just froze up. Then I beat myself up over it. Then, instead of continuing to feel bad, I did something about it. Called her up...

Last semester (6-7 months ago) I found out through a friend that this girl dug me. We had a class together previously and had some brief exchanges that I thought were awkward so I was kinda surprised. Plus, usually I can just tell. She's about a 7, studious, pretty shy so I swooped on in and had...

I've been hooking up w/this girl for about 3 weeks, once or twice a week. I'm inexperienced and still a virgin...but I got a BJ and finger her...both firsts. Anyway, everything was going fine until Thurs. As usual we met up at a party, danced for a bit and went back to her place. However, she...

Quick background...I've always been shy around girls...shy period to some extent. At its worst I had no friends...in HS 4 years ago. No need to dwell on it though. I've come a long way and it hasn't been easy. Had a short-lived relationship a while ago. A 20 and counting yr old virgin. Always...