I'm not the biggest fan of doctors or drugs, but if you feel like you can't handle it, it's too much, it's too hard to cope, then seek professional help.
Rise above the games.
And while you're figuring out how to manage your brother, realize you'll have to manage your parents too.
For the record, arm wrestling is all about technique. Learn to accept your losses in life with humility. It's the mark of a mature man.
Also worth mentioning is...
Has nothing to do with you, stop hanging on every electronic tag she puts out to the world.
she flaked, don't really care why. Your response is good. Treat it like any other flake. Don't get all up in her business, why should you even care?
She's asking you if it's okay for another dude to have sexual relations with her.
Any other details are superfluous.
When talking about this, just ask her if she thinks it's a good idea to do open the relationship back up to see other people. If she seems horrified at that idea and starts...
Don't look for the negatives right away. Listen to her advice, think about it and make your own choice.
Simple.
If she pushes it after you've made a choice, lay the smack down.
Don't let someone else's programming control your life. That includes the idea of being a creep.
Just stay within the bounds of the law, for your own sake. Or don't, I don't care but know the risk. It's a big one.
Textbook sexual harassment. complain about it to managers above her. That puts you in a protected spot.
All the diaries and proof of harassment doesn't mean disk if you didn't make a complaint.
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