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Some people don't like to kiss in public. She also may be embarrassed to be with you or feel weird if people she know watches or have some fear that if others she know see it will spread and people she doesn't want to know find out about it (parents, ex, etc) one of other many different things...

The first couple dates for me generally aren't dining dates unless it's a quick smoothie/coffee/happy-hour date, which gives me an easy out if my date turns out to be insane or some-such. Otherwise I like to do things: hiking, ice skating, local tourist attraction sort of thing. That way I am...

I would send her a message or contact on Tuesday. I wouldn't bring up or mention the message she sent at all. If she brings it up, shrug it off like it's no big deal, tell her you hope she feels better and move the subject elsewhere. I would second the recommendation for the Book of Pook...

Go for it. and After sex, don't talk to the girl about it just after having done it and you're still lying there. Don't ask how it was or how you were or apologize. Just keep your trap shut and assume you were the man. If you bring something up right away it will show lack of confidence and her...

How old are you/is she? I don't see it a reason to run. She isn't trying to settle down with you or anything like that. She's just really into you because you're awesome.

yeah, I'd agree that you don't need to text her how you feel. If you want to be just friends, then simply act that way. Nothing else to it. There's no need to come out and say it unless she does something to specifically provoke it like heavily coming on to you or asking you about it.

One more thing. When you think of something in your head, just say it (unless it's perverted/psychopathic/similar). Don't over-think because the more you think about something and hesitate the less likely you are to DO. Just say it. Sure, you'll say some dumb things, but that really doesn't...

You are definitely in fantasyland about the whole Long Term Relationship idea. My advice would be to not even think of the two of you in terms of any sort of relationship or potential relationship. Don't bring it up in conversation. Don't mention it to her or anyone else. Scour that concept from...

She's clearly into you. Just take it at whatever pace you want. Don't worry about it so much. You don't have to let her decide how fast to do certain things or to put labels places. When you tell her, whatever you tell her, be confident in telling her, don't sound wishy-washy about it.

The "Real You" is a bunch of crap, for a bunch of reasons. The real you is whatever you are at any given time. The real you is an ever changing idea. For instance, you are looking to improve your social skills. With that other things will inevitably change. But that aside, some practical...

It doesn't matter what you tell her, she will probably think you are mad at her for talking with her ex no matter what. You can always say that you were mad at first (even though you might not have been) but after you thought about it you realized it wasn't anything to get worked up over...

Just keep doing what you've been doing. Change due to reaction is bad and an indicator that you aren't as much of your confident self as she thought you were. If you didn't tell her you loved her when she told you, then that is why she is acting funny. She'll sense if you say it and don't mean...

Ignore it and shrug it off. He's probably jealous.

Yes, you are being paranoid and insecure. When you get this feeling, just let it go. It is not a big deal at all. Be glad she doesn't hate your friends, because then you'd have to get rid of her.

Don't go out of your way to hide it from them. But don't offer that information up freely either. If she asks you about, you don't have to lie about it, tell her how it is. Just don't bring that up without an inquiry from her as then you'll just seem like a d*ck.

I don't think you read my post or the articles I referenced very clearly. You aren't helping them get over the ex... you don't want anything to do with her talking and emotionalizing about her ex. She just needs help getting into anyone new at that point. Yeah it might be a little more...

I think girls in the stage of getting over a recent relationship should be treated more along the lines of what outined in the articles on the site regarding "confident persistence" because you can't move in right away, you have to wait a little and help them past that ex while not...

Time is not slipping away. She won't meet anyone back home. Don't drive out just to see her. Don't ask her to be your girlfriend. Or you her boyfriend or any of that nonsense. Winter break isn't forever, you'll both be back at school before long. Just be patient and don't...

Didn't find a recent thread about this in searching and wasn't looking to bump an older one. Anyway... feel free to share your stories of how you came to sosuave, be it a google search, tip from a friend or some other reason, what was the underlying reason for finding this site? And also why...

LOL KS!!! I was going to post a link to that site. That place is hopeless.