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    Wife material

    Originally posted by RT and summed up by Squirrels All the warning signs (red flags) were there - the disfunctional alcoholic family, the aldultorous sister, etc. I chose not to see the real person behind that beautiful mask until it was too late and she showed her true colours. Well...
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    Wife material

    All the above could apply, as it did in my case. But, with the divorce rate running at > 50%, it's like spinning a coin. Heads you win! Who can tell if she is really a keeper? Well, got my kids - so it wasn't a total waste. But again? NO! there is no reason at all.
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    Not sure what to do here?

    First date being a dinner date has never worked for me. First couple of dates should be action dates - bowling, music concerts, etc. I only take them out for dinner after I have had s*x with them - when they have earned it!
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    Divorce...now what?

    There are quite a few divorced guys on this forum - I am one of them. It takes time to get yourself back to speed give yourself at least one year, minimum, to stay single. ONS are fine, but forget about looking for a relationship during this period. Your self esteem has taken a knock...
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    Single mothers

    As I said before - which I did not explain properly I am in my 50's, have experienced a failed marriage and am now in a relationship. Prior to that I experienced the single scene for a couple of years. Met quite a few women in the process and I only know one woman who hadn't have any...
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    Single mothers

    Avoid single mom's? Unfortunately, at my age if a woman hasn't had children by her 40's or so, then there is most probably something wrong with her. To me a major red flag is if she never has been married and de facto they are a bunch of little basterds from multiple fathers. For me to pull...
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    Do you have any friends who keep the frame and command respect from their gf?

    Originally posted by Samspade Well said. I have come to that conclusion as well. In my current LTR, I have realised that you have to game ALL the time to keep them interested. It also helps to live appart. It is hard not to slip up but when you do you can feel the interest slipping away...
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    How Can I Save My Marriage

    how can I save my marriage? You can't This is exactly how my marriage also ended. I turned into a supplicating p*ssy as well. Take sodbuster's advice and accept next time she asks for one. It's over - accept it and start a new life.
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    Being setup for failure by society

    Been through this one and see my fellow engineers getting sucked in this lifestyle. Lost most of it though when she decided to cash in. But I am now debt free and living a good life. Banks want to get you back in debt - you should see all the offers of personal loans I get. But I am too wary...
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    Dealing with tough, independent women

    Got this from my GF thats apt from some feminest rant B = Beautiful I = Individual T = That C = Can H = Handle 'anything' My reply to that was: Typical feministic attitude to prettify a male derogatory word for a woman that is: B Bloody I Irritating T Tiring C Cow H...
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    Ex wife vs Ex GF same rules apply?

    Part of embracing the DJ's phylosophy is improving yourself (as you have done as so many on this forum) is the satisfaction of seeing ex wifes and other women who dissed you in the past, now wanting you back in their lives. They did not want you then - so why go back? There are lot of women...
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    Matrix at play?

    Yeah got egg on her face though when they found that his wife was her (now ex) best friend and that she had s8x with 7 (so far) of his team mates. Must be Chelsea's biggest fan!
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    The Divorced Man

    Let me add my experiences to this thread 1) How long were you married before you got divorced? 22 years - knew her for 4 years before we got married 2) How many times have you been divorced? Once. 3) Will you ever marry again? Why? No never. The whole frame changes - since she...
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    14 Year marriage/22 year relationship over

    Originally posted by Jophil28 Very true words from one who knows their dark side. I think all us divorced guys have been guilty of this one.....and is the reason why a second marriage is totally out of the equation. I feel compassion for the OP. There will be hard times ahead especially...
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    Four BIG (besides a better body) Reasons to join a gym today!

    I agree 100%. Let me add some more advantages from a more senior's members experiences: You stand out above the herd Lot's of young guys are well built. But someone in their 50's - a very rare animal. 99% of guys my age have gone to seed. Big beer poeps and moobs are common. The chicks...
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    30 Years Old and Not Clear on The Right Path in Life - Need Feedback

    Some where in this forum is a thread about a women demanding marriage is the ultimate sh*t test of all. These modern women's cheek never cease to amaze me. It's a man's preogrative to request his GF to marry him not the other way round. I had that niggly feeling in my gut when I married my ex...
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    If your wife threatens a divorce, how do you handle?

    I agree with the above advice. Threatening to divorce you is their final trump card - it's like a man giving you a sucker punch. You can either fold and become her b*tch or you can fight back by accepting. You owe her nothing now and need to contact your lawer to protect your interests. Its...
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    Work on your physique!

    I agree with this 100%. I am 5' 8" tall and have a surfer build - broad shoulders, strong arms and legs. Not all due to surfing now because of work commitments and when I'm free the sea is like a washing machine most the time - but I hit the gym instead. There are very few guys my age that...
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    Modern Marriage, Think about it.

    That rang like a bell!! I remember when I was in my twenties women were like that. It was normal to get married, have kids etc. Unmarried mothers were slvts who were ostracised from the community. It was a sin to get divorced - just read the bible - Jesus forbidded divorce. (Tell a woman that...
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    Beta Game

    Originally posted by RT Thanks that is what I often get when other guys GFs look at me. Must be well up the DJ path to get that reaction :)
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