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Yeah... my feelings exactly. I wouldn't even bother going after this chick anymore if I were you. Keep her as a friend if you like, but don't expect anything more. I recommend that you read the DJ bible.

lmao 10/10

I also disagree with it. Why be like all those other guys and wait the designated 3 days or 6 days or whatever it may be? If you weaved your magic well, why not be the exception and call on the next day? When you meet her you will be giving her the exact opposite impression. You'll be acting...

I could be wrong here, but i'm pretty sure all you guys have COMPLETELY missed what the OP was trying to say.:crackup: Here he adresses us. Here he imitates the things that he has read on these forums. Here he mocks us. Here's he labels us as a bunch of 5'3 worshippers. And here he...

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Say that you and a couple of mates are going to a bar/club/insert-idea-here this friday/saturday night and invite them to join you. Then you can get to know all 3 of them better and you can select your target.:up:

Great idea with the competition thing. Just a quick point of advice, you should probably try to engage in some more conversation with the girls you approach rather than just getting the digits. If you establish greater rapport with them you'll have a far greater chance of meeting up with them...

Don't do it. It's simply not worth the risk of copping a massive fine, losing your license or in the worst case injuring/killing yourself or other people. If you're going to drink and don't have a designated driver then catch public transport / a taxi. There's not really anything to discuss here...

Saying they hadn't done anything to "deserve a drink" or they hadn't "earned it" doesn't sound like the best choice of words to me... especially since you said it to the drunk guy to justify your argument. I mean, if you had have said it to the girls in a c&f way i think you would have gotten...

lol... seems to me like she was trying to get your attention / make you jealous. I would have just burst out laughing! :crackup: Not the sort of girl you'd want to go after imo.

I think you may have blown it man - you tried to call her til the cows came home. You should have texted or called her once and if she didn't reply you should have stopped communication with her until she did. Seems to me like she laid down a sh1t test and you failed with flying colours. :( For...

Haha yeah that's what tends to happen. The most important thing is that you LEARN from your mistake - next time you're in that sort of situation remember how badly you regretted not approaching on this occasion!

You say that "its pretty clear to her that [you're] interested in a less superficial relationship". Well maybe she's not interested in anything serious. Maybe she's seeing someone else too. She could be just waiting to see where you are willing to take the relationship. There could be many...

Saying "no thanks, i got things to do" may be the best option in other cases but in your situation i really don't think it would sound even remotely credible since you seem to keep calling her so often... She flaked on you and you called her TWICE that night?! This is not something you should be...

No. Having no insecurities is a prerequisite of confidence. However, you can ACT confident while being insecure, which is what a lot of guys do. With experience you will be able to turn the acting into reality and rid yourself of your insecurities if you are determined enough. :up:

My thoughts exactly.

This. If you have such little respect for yourself how can you expect others to respect you? :( Well done on the number close though! With every experience like this your confidence will grow. It's ultimately up to you whether or not you want to continue the relationship. Don't concern...

Day 1 has arrived! (Well, in my timezone anyway:p) Just thought i'd post the excerpt about myself from the signup thread so you guys know a bit about me. Well anyway i'm off to uni, good luck guys! I'll report back soon.

I'd also like to join. I was initially hesitant since my exam period is about to begin, but this is an opportunity I just can't pass up.;) I'm a 19 year old uni student. I used to be a fairly shy person in general and more of a listener than a talker, but I've definately opened up more over...