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One mechanism or tool the PD uses to rope a person in is sex. Studies are showing that BPDs do not have the same responses to the "bonding" chemical, oxytocin, that is released during sex. You get lured in early in the relationship with porn star sex....and lots of it. Your body is flooded...

Its funny. We need a label to call this thing whatever it is. It does not matter....be cognizant of the behaviors. The behaviors matter more than the label. Crazy is as Crazy does. So, if you need to call it...do so. She's histrionic, she's borderline, she's anti-social. Fine....but...

Here's the thing.... You don't need to stay attached to a disordered woman. You don't need to "game" them for the sex. You don't owe them anything. PDs are adults and are responsible for themselves. They'll continue on they way they are and burn through all the relationships in their...

and this is a very good article. http://sharischreiber.com/anycost.html

Simply put....you need direction in your life. What is your mission on this earth? What are you going to do with this life? People can give you their answers - God, goals, whatever. But this is a vital question for you to answer. Sure, God and religion work for some people....but...

yeah....the usual suspects ticked off the same DSM IV criteria I did, too. Too bad. They are great actors.

You can't be serious. Two weeks in and she's asking for thousands of dollars. For rent. Are you saying that guys should get taken for thousands of dollars to be educated and develop a "sense of being used"? How about learning not to get into situations to be used in the first place...

And this isnt a big huge red flag...why? After two weeks? Tell ya what...send me the money and I'll be your best friend for life...I promise. friggin bolt, dude.

I respectfully disagree. The important thing about sites like this....is to make a person realize he is a man, not necessarily how to deal with women, nor how to act when he gets a woman. The important thing this site brought to me....was not in acting like a man...it was being a man. No...

We're talking about two different things. Yellow teeth...women probably imagine kissing you with your yellow teeth...probably not a turn on. Yeah, they want perfection, and white teeth are probably easier than....say, summer teeth. (some are here, some are there). Stop smoking. Stop...

Im currently seeing an above average tall, very gorgeous blond woman. Im trying to make sense of how I bagged her....but really enjoying the fact that I have. Many thanks to the knowledge and information posted here. The woman Im dating probably prefers a much taller man. Im at the...

Really depends on the situation....but 2 months....there seems to be a bit of investment. So, seems like a bit of disrespect on your part. I wonder what contrition without supplication looks like....

So....you are at that point where you've figured out that all that panty wetting you've done in the past didnt work for you and was a waste of time. The sad thing is....you're thinking that offing yourself is actually an option. You didnt get any direction from anyone while you were...

Well....Im pretty much a veteran when it comes to the dentist chair. Braces....three times. The last time was at age 40....that was a setup for LaForte I procedure - cut the upper jaw and move whole carriage forward. Yum...that was fun. Jaw wired shut for 6 weeks (and dropped 30 lbs)...

Gentlemen.... I do not post here much...quite honestly, I don't have the experience...just your average RAFC.... What strikes me funny....Kontroller invited me to join this forum. In his invite, even he said...take the advice with a grain of salt. There are some you pay attention to...and...

yo! 42, bald (and what I have is gray), cleft palate. Dropped 30 lbs 4 months ago and another 10 along the way. I look better now than when I left college. I shave the gray off. Im carrying way more muscle than I ever have. I look good. Was at the beach a week ago. I caught many 20...

If she branch swings to you....what makes you different from the previous branches? Remember, actions speak louder than words. Is this more effort required for something that is little more than a potential fling? If you are looking for a long term exclusive thing....you may want to...

Maybe she knew it was a setup and was being a challenge. Her expecting drinks from you at the bar was a "tell". Perhaps getting her alone at the BBQ and talking to her would have provided more info on interest. Perhaps her cold shoulder routine let your emotions get the better of you. If...

I just had to start tracking all the ones in my pipeline. IF Im not careful, every night of the week will be filled. No time for me alone...and I know that isnt healthy. So...now, Im scheduling dates in my calendar on outlook. Im also penciling in nites for "me" time. I havent found a...

I think this is a good indicator as to why techniques and game playing falls short compared to just having a good inner game and being yourself. If your funny little text came from just being you, you wouldn't need to figure out what the next line will be for "the secret". Still, you're...