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"I like you" just sounds cheesy in general, I never say that, even in my most AFC of moments. Drop it from your vocabulary, and start saying things like "I dig hanging out with you" or "We have a good time together" Let her guess as to what you really mean when by saying something that could be...

I'm typically of the mindset of Latino man, that there are way too many girls over there to step on the toes, of friends. But having been in your exact situation quite a few times, I also agree with #41 that it depends on the context situation. Does he like the girl? Would he be upset if you...

And don't ever break up with someone or anything remotely close to that via text message-it's cowardly and tactless. Man up and tell her face to face, or at the very least, over the phone itself.

That's cool, I was more just stating that I really agreed with what SinJester wrote, and wanted to comment on it for 2 reasons. The obvious reason being that I experience it first had. The second reason is because it's one of the commonly misunderstood concepts, that a lot of the new DJs...

bah, one of my 10 posts per day was wasted on a double post! I want a credit!

Life is too short to spend it trying to fix someone with a bunch of baggage. I've also noticed that sometimes trying to "help" just makes it obvious to this person that this is a good way to get attention or bring much needed drama to their live (and unfortunately, to yours too). Some things...

It's not new, but it's new to you-so it's not ignorance, it's just you're learning it for the first time. ;) It's long been said that men marry their mothers. It was really more of a proverb than anything else, but like most proverbs, it probably has some truth to it. I'd never really heard...

I strongly agree with both of these statements based on my own personal experience. What you're doing initially, by not acting AFC or going right for her, is fine-for a bit. It's kind of like the Mystery Method of originally ignoring the target because she is an HB9 and used to attention... so...

I believe you're over thinking it a bit. I've been on about 40 first dates in the last year, so I will share my experiences. You can kind of do all of those things simultaneously, so don't take the phase thing too literally, where when one starts, you don't immediately end the other. For...

I will readily admit that I am not the master of the cold approach-I rarely do it. My initial thoughts are- Asking too quickly, you may run into some token resistance since the girl will think you are just doing this to everyone. This is one of their silly ways of qualifying a guy-like it's...

Eye contact is fine and is a good subtle form of communication. The areas where guys typically screw up, IMO.... In most cases, the woman will always break first if you hold eye contact too long. 1) If she returns the eye contact, and it last for more than a full second or two, don't break...

Girls are selfish creatures when it comes to protecting and cultivating their own emotions- that said, I do not think she would meet you out of sympathy if she didn't want to spend time with you-but whether it's the kind of attention YOU want from her, is the debatable aspect. Having said that...

dude, I have done this 1000 times to chicks. Whether I was drunk or tired, it happens. And I am pretty sure it's happened to me once or twice too. Don't read anything into it, she probably just tired.

Other women are the quickest way to get over situations like this. They are coming in and out my life so fast, oneitis is almost an impossibility. Your g/f calling you boring is a broad stroke, don't go by one persons opinion. Have other people called you boring?

If she's not a teller, I am doubting this information would be easy for her to access unless she had a reason to... ..but you're getting WAY ahead of yourself... If it bothers you that much, make casual mention that you do your main banking elsewhere. It's not that uncommon for people to have...

I get this all the time, actually, to the point where I just keep my mouth shut and don't try to help. The tough part for me is that some of this stuff has been become so ingrained, it's just how I think now-and when I offer my opinion, it just comes out. It seems as though when I actually have...

Sounds like she is an AW and is playing you, instead of the other way around, When I get to the point where I am frustrated or annoyed with a girls behavior (which is not good for a DJ), I take control of the frame. I think you need to do this through punishment/reward or push/pull in this...

looking down, breaking eye contact are not typically alpha behaviors. sounds like a shy person.

Regret is the worst part of being AFC.

I always say that upholding ones standards is directly proportional to how long they're willing to be alone. Obviously, you need some standards, but you should be realistic IMO. And you can ask for-but do not expect to get- more than you bring to the table yourself. I am regularly amazed at...