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Well, I switched schools a bunch as a child and I think that's what made me shy. I constantly had to face a new group of strangers.

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I've tried several ways to become outgoing when I'm sober but I just can't do it. I don't want to have to drink all the time to talk to a girl. Any advice?

coffeebazooka, so if she walks away at some point I should follow her? I agree that you should stay with her and have a convo but I don't want to cling to her.

She doesn't know I'm going to be there, so should I send her a text before the party saying see you at the party or should I just show up unexpectedly (the latter seems kind of creepy to me). How much time should I talk to her vs talking to other people? A friend who is really good with women...

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I always see guys being really persistent with girls then ending up with them. How do they manage to be so persistent without coming off as a really needy guy?

I know there's no exact number, but I'm just curious as to how much is too much and how little is too little.

So there are coaches for anti-awkwardness? Where can I find one of these coaches? What should I search for? Are they cheap?

Are these two together the worst a guy can be?

alcohol isn't a confidence juice for me, it just makes a really awkward extrovert

It seems like they're both bad for you but I can't tell which is worse. Alcohol often diminishes my game and makes me a fool of myself while porn is often a way to release frustrating when I can't get laid instead of going out and trying harder to get laid. So which do you guys think is worse...

So I always make some excuse not to approach a girl, rather than fear of rejection it's more of like I already know the reason for rejection, here are some of the excuses I make.... 1. She already has a boyfriend. 2. It's too late to approach her. I've seen her multiple times before. I won't...

Well, I forgot to mention that my second job on the weekends is from 8pm-4am. I work 7 days a week, so if I'm off and tired I'm usually going to get caught up on sleep.

hahahaha, well my day job is so boring that I'm usually dead tired by the time I get off and I can't bare to stay up any longer.

I wake up at midnight, go to work from 7am-4pm and go to sleep right when I get off, so how can I meet girls from midnight-7am, lol

I know it seems like another excuse, but it's hard to meet girls when you sleep really weird hours. I wake up at midnight usually (and yes, I have a job, two jobs actually). I'm not going to go to the bar right as I get up with only an hour left until they close. And I can't imagine gaming a...

I drink soymilk because regular milk gives me an upset stomach, but I can do most other dairy and don't eat or drink soy outside of that. I don't eat nearly enough pasta. So maybe I'll try that out.

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So I'm tall and skinny and I want to lose my stick-like frame. Everyone tells me to eat as much as I can, but is there anything one should avoid eating when bulking up?