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    Stage Fright

    Alright I'm hitting my stride right now with my ability to meet girls and attract them. It's something that is actually a lot easier than I ever thought it would be once it clicked. I'm not playing the numbers game or running lines etc... I just go out and have fun (with or without meeting...
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    late 20s, feeling weird talking to 18-24 or so

    Isn't this all about not worrying about what they think anyways? Just be cool man and don't think about the age difference. Since I broke up with my GF I'm shooting for the younger ones because they aren't wanting to rush into anything as often (they do tend to be flakier though). I'm 29 and...
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    1/1/12 Failed miserably on first day of year.. Need Advice from Grown Ass Men

    I wanted to give an update about this. I broke up with my girlfriend last Wednesday, I have not spoken to her since Sunday. Thank you for the advice. She just contacted me and wants to hang out as friends for a while. I may give this a shot, although it is unlikely I will get back together...
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    1/1/12 Failed miserably on first day of year.. Need Advice from Grown Ass Men

    I need mature advice from some grown men who have some experience. I am 29 years old turning 30 this year. Raised in an ultra conservative family, hence I had limited experience with women early on. Didn't lose my virginity till I was 20 then after I broke up with my GF I went on a heinous dry...
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    My goddamn penis refuses to "listen"!!! **** THIS!

    I too once had this problem. My doctor prescribed me cialis to help me out "psychologically." I got with a chick and lost it after a minute, because I was still ****ed up mentally. Fortunately, I started dating a really cool girl who helped me get over it and now I don't have any problems...
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    Ex Girlfriend wants to talk

    I've been through almost the same thing. Got the girl back, for another month...then she did the same **** over. I would maybe give her another chance but make her work for it. Don't call her, make her call you and pursue you. If you arrange to meet up just focus on having a good time with...
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    Fair Skin and What to do about it???

    From one ginger to another...just learn to accept yourself the way you are. I used to use my gingerness as a mental crutch, to try to explain why I didn't really do that well with women. After years of maturing I have grown to realize that it doesn't matter and I am still attractive to women...
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    How many friends you have on facebook

    Any person getting on this site to say that people who use facebook to much or to little have no social life is fvckin retarded. Who the hell cares? Each person just needs to do their own thing. End of discussion.
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    How many friends you have on facebook

    I agree that this is an idiotic post. But I disagree about the 100 friends thing, I have close to 400 friends and know each and every one on my list. At minimum have hung out with each friend at least one time (of course this is over a period of 28 years). I don't add or accept friend...
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    Going Bald?

    Just get used to it if it is happening, let it go naturally. Cut it short. I started losing my hair at about 21. Now I kind of like the way my receding hairline looks, oddly enough. I will be totally bald probably in about 6 years, I am 28 now. Will probably start shaving it all the way...
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    Seeing Multiple Girls

    Haha no tip...sorry. Accidentally posted in wrong category.
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    Seeing Multiple Girls

    I understand now why it is important to always have more than one girl your working on. Right now I have about 3...and that is all I can handle. After this point it gets to hard for scheduling purposes. Thoughts? I think that it's kind of important to see a girl your working on about once a...
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    let's-just-be-friending women?

    HELL NO! Doesn't work. You will end up being their gay best friend. I have learned from experience. Since I went to grad school I have about 2 dozen new women friends who in NO way see me as a love interest. They all love me and want to talk to me about the men in their life and get romance...
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    Rich girl, not so rich guy

    Don't let it bother you. If they can't handle the difference then they are no good anyways. I have a theory about this. As long as you are somewhat classy, you can be appealing to them because of your socioeconomic status. You can offer them a perspective on life that they may have never...
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    NYC - Desert or Paradise?

    There are so many beautiful women in New York City, its ridiculous. Don't have to worry about having a lot of money as long as you can afford to live here and have a little fun. A young dude like you should be able to go out in the West Village around NYU and pick up great girls non-stop...
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    What do you say after nexting a chick?

    Man it up and be honest with her. We hate it when chicks do that sh** to us. Why do it to them? Be noble and be a man for gods sake.
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    26, lonely, confused

    Yea, I'm curious what city you are in? I am in NYC having moved hear 2 years ago. Cities are fascinating because although you can be surrounded by thousands or millions of people they can still be very lonely. In my opinion it's easier to have close friendships in the suburbs and small...
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    Girl gives me email instead of number, Wtf?!

    I check my email on my phone anytime anywhere when I get an email. Phone vibrates and I check it. At the same time I almost never answer the phone when people call between the hours of 8am and 7pm, because I'm working and can't talk on the phone around clients at work. Just saying it's not...
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    Are these signs she want to end our relationship

    Yea..this sucks. I'm in a similar situation with a girl I was with for about 4 months. Pretty upset about it this morning, but I was thinking and remembered how much I don't give a **** about the other girls I was crazy about in the past. In fact I'm glad I'm not with most of those *****es...
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    Why does she randomly txt what are you doing?

    Yea...so Im pretty sure she thinks she can have me anytime she wants. So I'm thinking about not contacting, and taking all her **** she left at my house and putting it in a box and dropping it off with her doorman. Would this seem to bitter? I do want her back, but I'm not gonna put up with...
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