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    Girl who flaked on me was at a party I attended Saturday...handled it badly

    lol. so are you saying that instead of looking like a desperate sniveling beta, I looked like an angry 15 year old girl throwing a tantrum? I guess option B is better than A...barely. I'm so narcissistic, I think I felt entitled to give her a hard time. how does a recovering AFC get over...
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    Girl who flaked on me was at a party I attended Saturday...handled it badly

    we were going to an event together - got an unenthusiastic "yes" after eight hours, and I immediately smelled a rat. she texted me Friday asking what the timeline of the event was because she "might have something else that night", and she assured me she'd get back to me later that night. she...
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    got knocked on my ass by an AMOG. what should I learn from this?

    We're going to the final conference of the year next Friday/Saturday. Girl 1 (the pissed off jilted one) has gone out of her way to ask me if I'm going to join them. I did talk to her quite a bit on the car ride back, and she thinks I'm hilarious. to be perfectly frank - I'd buy that for a...
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    got knocked on my ass by an AMOG. what should I learn from this?

    thanks for the insight and moral support guys. when you're a recovering AFC like me, you try to stamp out any waify beta behavior and I'm making a valiant effort right now. me and Mr. AMOG actually have quite a bit in common, we're Facebook friends now, and chatted on there for about 45...
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    got knocked on my ass by an AMOG. what should I learn from this?

    my main virtue with dating is that I have a lot of gall and go after women that appear to be out of my league. chumps with no self-confidence look at me like I'm a ladies' man, but my kryptonite is being around actual alphas. I'm in a political org on campus - it almost goes without saying...
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    Is sour grapes a bad thing to do when a girl has rejected you?

    I think it's that I just find it so hard to believe. If I had as many girls chasing after him as he did, nobody and nothing would threaten me. or does your ego just get more fragile the better looking you get?
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    Is sour grapes a bad thing to do when a girl has rejected you?

    like I said - former fraternity brother that graduated a while back, and still occasionally visits us unannounced. I only barhop with him because he draws the girls in so well. (It's far better if we're in a large group.) but - is it even worth it if he's like this? Or are more girls...
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    Is sour grapes a bad thing to do when a girl has rejected you?

    Well, dude - I'm not inept with women, and I have my moments with them, but a solid HB7 rarely walks up to me and starts talking to me. With this friend of mine - it happens all the time. It was pretty obvious in retrospect that she walked up to the both of us to hit on him, and I was the...
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    Is sour grapes a bad thing to do when a girl has rejected you?

    not to be Mr. Negative, but - This male friend of mine is well-dressed, well-toned, and has women eyeing him up and down frequently...24/7. And he has social skills (and influence) that I'm still slowly developing. I'm a decent looking guy who is finding his footing physically and...
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    Is sour grapes a bad thing to do when a girl has rejected you?

    just wondering - what would he have been butthurt over? He had no interest in sleeping with her, and the attention she gave me was completely non-sexual (or so he told me anyway). are you telling me that she might have been into me, and he's trying to take me down a peg?
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    Is sour grapes a bad thing to do when a girl has rejected you?

    Last night, I was out with a don juan fraternity brother of mine...he's got a serious girlfriend now and women are just drawn to him, which makes him one of the best wingmen I know today. He's always been great advice, since he doesn't think about girls...he just goes out and does it. Last...
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    Good friend of mine was a very introverted Don Juan. is this rare?

    He was a Brazilian - we'll call him T. he didn't have the cliched bronzed physique and was a little doughy, but women absolutely LOVED him, and he was the kind of guy who you wanted around you, since he was extremely friendly. He was "friends" with half of the sexy girls over at my...
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    Alpha males - leadership or sexual prowess/popularity?

    Got into an interesting discussion with my friend last night (we're both active in the same fraternity). I was gauging alpha males in our circle by how much the girls liked them and how popular they were. He laughed and no - an alpha male is a feared leader first, and isn't necessarily seen as...
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    Feminazis and their lapdogs coined a new phrase - the "girlfriendzone". Thoughts?

    http://jezebel.com/dudes-stop-putting-women-in-the-girlfriendzone-1508177054?utm_campaign=socialflow_jezebel_facebook&utm_source=jezebel_facebook&utm_medium=socialflow No real comment. Speaks for itself.
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    Do attractive women fish for compliments ALL the time?

    I recently expanded my Facebook to include people who weren't family. (I normally wouldn't have even had a profile, but my extended family all lives on the other side of the country and I hardly ever see them.) Added quite a few attractive female friends. one that I work updates her status at...
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    "You're the Sherminator." How does one cultivate *actual* confidence?

    No, you're dead on bro. When I see a hot chick, I'm not thinking "come to papa baby, I'm gonna make you orgasm 8 times", I'm thinking "ooo, my social circle will see this and be impressed". I tend to see women as ways to "prove" myself.
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    "You're the Sherminator." How does one cultivate *actual* confidence?

    My roommate's not a Don Juan by any means, but he's a very socially adept member of my circle that I'm proud to have as a confidant. He told me very something very sobering the other day when I started *****ing about girls. “MascaraSnake, you're the real life version of The Sherminator from...
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