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I think it's silly to discount looks entirely but a lot of scientific research has PROVED women don't value looks as much as men. Some books you might want to read: The Red Queen The Evolution Of Desire Mating Intelligence The Female Brain

I haven't read the thread but... I think ladder theory is bull. Consider this. The remember the girl I am currently dating telling me a year ago "I would kiss you but I'm not attracted to you". Now we're going out. I haven't changed physically at all. I weigh practically the same and even...

I think a lot of this gets caught up in semantics. It's about being confident in yourself as a person. It's not about being delusional about your abilities. I think I said the only way to be confident at something is to have success at that particular thing. However just because you aren't...

Would Beyonce really go for a guy because of his money? I assumed she had more than enough.

Not only are they ugly but it shows they don't look after or respect themselves.

On Rejection When you have self-esteem you can go after a goal but you know whether or not you get it doesn’t really matter, you are still happy with yourself as a person. Failure may hurt a bit, and success will still feel good, you just aren’t completely attached with the outcome. When you...

Self-esteem Self-esteem is where you accept yourself, love yourself, and live in a way the expresses this and proves that you feel you are worth it. You achieve things because you feel you deserve them. Yet you are not dependant on any outcome. You don’t see anything as a mistake, it is just...

Self Respect This one is a little more tricky. It is important for lasting self esteem as well as actually working to achieve something. I’m sure you have heard ‘respect yourself first or no one will respect you’ or something similar. What is self respect? Self respect is living up to your...

Self-love I think that self-love is our natural state. Somewhere we really do love ourselves, it’s just all our bull**** insecurities get in the way. You really do like yourself. Even when you are in a bad mood, or someone says something nasty, it’s there hidden away. In fact we don’t seek...

Self-Acceptance First here is an exercise to help form self acceptance. Get a pen and paper or open a fresh word document. No seriously, don’t just read this, do it or it will be completely worthless and a waste of your time. Done? Good. Now I want you to write down everything you don’t like...

Self-Esteem And The Myth Of Confidence Personally I think this is one of the best things I have ever wrote. When I wrote this I felt like I finally had a good understanding of confidence. I went through a LOT of stuff to come up with this, so don’t be surprised if you see something you have...

+1 Although it applies to anything.

Just start doing things your are uncomfortable with. You need to get outside of your comfort zone, that's where growth is. Start small at first. Say hi to people and smile. Then have little conversations. Work from there. It can be done. I used to be way to scared to even think about rocking...

I realize all this 'DJ advice' about not texting and you guys have a point. However in the real world most guys I know texted their girl a lot before they got together. If texting is 'insecure and beta' then why is it getting all my mates and myself girls? The problem is if you don't esculate...

Gosh calm guys he's just offering a small piece of advice that is actually decent. Most girls I know love nintendo. You would be surprised how many hot and popular girls love the SNES.

Prove this chair does not exist.

It's up to the guy to initiate everything ;)

Get the **** out of there.

What is it actually about before I invest my time listening to Tyler's old stuff :)

Chicks can learn and give advice too. The thing is they have trouble putting it into words. They don't understand how they work any better than they do. Unless a girl has actually been educated properly with this stuff (the girls at The Authentic Man program for example) they really only...