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Something lighthearted and funny. Last year I was the Swedish Chef (Muppets character) and I was approached by several women telling me they loved the costume.

Great post... One thing I've found is that they respond very well to smiling. Most of the men in there are stone faced, so not taking yourself too seriously separates you from the pack.

You're simplifying concepts when convenient and over-complicating them other times to prove a point. Your 2nd paragraph is asinine. Of course staring blankly at a girl or completely ignoring them won't do much to help one's chances. Nobody was advocating that. Making them feel "desired"...

EvilAgenda, first of all - thanks for the feedback. I would like to discuss at least one aspect of it with you though. I've been on this forum long enough to know the crux of most advice is entirely different from your above statement. 99 times out of 100 the instruction here seem to be; keep...

I'd say that is 90% accurate or better. ^ That said, if they view us as cannon fodder for flirting, what's the problem with using them for the same intention? Unless there's any kind of unwarranted obsessing or feelings of attachment (which would be AFC behavior to begin with) - I really...

You do realize, I'm okay with that though. Granted, it would be better if things played out differently. Still, the emphasis for me is constant self improvement - and I'm probably better off having done what I did than not doing what I did. My focus is not on the actual girl. I'll probably be...

Iceberg, EvilAgenda (and anybody else).. can you weigh in on my post above? ^ Just looking for feedback, good or bad.

I was in a similar situation to OP. Very cute girl working behind the desk who I talked to briefly every time I went. Lots of smiling and eye contact, strong body language too. Not sure if it was IOIs or just her doing her job, my guess is probably a mix of both. Also, my gym was more "mature"...

Thanks man, I appreciate it. Repped. That said, I've spent way too much time on what should just be considered a standard date. Right now my only goal is to spin plates (whether it's her or someone else) and to have fun. I really can't argue with anyone who says I'm over-thinking it, so...

Damn dude, fair point. Interesting stuff. Repped.

Do you not read? The naysayers said there was no chance she'd show up, let alone be interested or that I could close. They were wrong on all fronts.

I don't like what I'm hearing. Sorry but that's the truth. Your best bet is probably dumping her, this time for good. It's a headache now or a bigger headache later. Your call.

Nothing but bullies and negativity on here, I swear. Weren't you the same person swearing up and down I wouldn't kiss close? Can I ask why you feel the need to make such comments? May I ask what you're try to accomplish? Is it because you're 54 and bitter? I feel bad that you feel the need...

$0 Bought dinner using a gift car I got for Christmas (specific to the restaurant, not a cash gift card) and our theater does Free Ticket Tuesday if you subscribe to a certain cable company (hence setting the date up for Tuesday). Being that the movie was in 3D we had to pay $3.50 extra for...

Haha, funny how the naysayers dissapear pretty quickly. I'm just gonna take this one from here. But thanks everybody for the feedback (good or bad)

Date went quite well. Dinner was very engaging. We always have plenty to talk about. My C+F has gotten really good (without seeming like I'm trying too hard). I also made sure to kino her a bit. The movie was even better. Shrek 4 is a great date movie BTW. Fun and light-hearted and the...

We've done the whole coffee thing before. I'm trying to move past that. IMO that's far more platonic. She actually paid last time we went out for dinner. SS told me it was yet another green light. By the way, our plans are still on for tonight. So, I'm going to go get ready and try to...

I don't think I did "our history" justice. We've always kinda had things for each other on and off. At one point, about 5 years ago, she was mine for the taking, but I was in a serious LTR with another girl (who turned out to be a huge headache, but that's for another discussion). We aren't...

Sorry, man. I got kinda heated before for no reason. I apologize. Thanks for your input. I am going to rep you, terran2k and cordoncordon. I didn't react that nicely when she canceled, I told her it was "weak". And of course she sent multiple texts apologizing and saying we'd be getting...

Thanks for your input. Repped. Sorry I kinda flew off the handle before.