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Change course, man. The stuff that does not work, drop it or lighten up- tell her what YOU did that was FUN. Don't take her shortcomings personally, it has nothing to do with you. If she's playing with her toys go play with yours, or , better yet, go out and do something fun that both of...

Wow you guys love to spar. Good. It is useful to look at the world in terms of statistical patterns, then to apply and filter and combine those observations to our own perspective and more importantly, our wants, needs, and goals. I do this. But what I have learned is to not be...

I would love to hear more from you married and LTR guys on this, not so much about the porn or technical T levels, but about keeping the magic in a relationship.

Wow. Good discussion. I am leaving the country to be with a woman who is shaping into a LTR with me. But meanwhile: the last few weeks I have been hanging with a 30 year old- smart, beautiful, and HOT. More than anything else she is FUN. She knows where I'm going and the the only things...

There are people who can have their cake and eat it too. I'm not one of them. I'm not young but this dilemma is a guy thing. I'm on the verge of an LTR with an extraordinary woman. She's out of the country now and I've got a model type half my age throwing herself at me. Am I tempted...

I like the way mine has been talking to me lately: -Her: You were rude to me. -Me: Why? -Her: When I cam in you didn't ask me to sit. -Me: Huh? -Her: You didn't ask me to sit on your c0ck. The other thing she's been asking me to do, when I'm fukking her, is to talk to her...

I decided to give it a try and have done so now, a couple of times. Last time was a couple of weeks ago when I had a date and I timed it for early evening. My timing was off as circumstances for sex aligned around 2am. Thank God it had worn off by then. I don't drink coffee but it felt...

My current gf is half my age. I'm a teacher. No trust fund or inherited wealth. Is she attractive? Ask her modeling agency, rhymes with "TOWARD"? Is she into me? Tonight she begged me again to marry her. Is the sex good? The smile on my face is not from the ice cream. Am I...

Yes. But. I don't get a boner, usually, JUST by seeing a girl in a revealing outfit. BUT, I will get a boner if that girl is sitting with me, flirting, and I'm thinking I'm three steps away from getting her into bed. That, my friend, is a wiley boner, rather than a willey-nilley...

Same interest in sex as ever, more discriminating about women. Twenty years ago I made a commitment to staying healthy, being in shape, and I believe that has made a difference. My new 31 y.o. actress/dancer gf can't get enough of me and I attribute it to the above, combined with the...

I my situation, she had a bf who was my buddy, that's how I met her. He left her and left town. Oddly she and I fought, pretty intensely from the moment we met, disagreed about everything. So when we were finally alone, we found that the conflict was intense but not hostile and we actually...

Even though I had been in a LTR with a much younger woman before coming here, it did take coming here to help me bridge the gap after the separation. Despite the young ex, I had internalized the negative stuff and it took some back and forth to get over the hangups, fears, shame, etc. I'm...

I got lucky with a really good FB, lasted for years with some breaks interspersed. Had awesome sex while overlapping with a new gf. The only downside was that she was always a social friend as well and there were some catty jealousy incidents and vibes while I was in a LTR or showed mucho...

Sociopaths can come in the form a woman, sometimes in a nice body. It is unbelievable, especially in situations even more egregious because there's been intimacy and trust. Sounds like we're all sober about this dynamic and we the guys get to be the adults while these women (girls)...

Ok, so I'm not that despondent. Chiquita takes my mind off depression and a lot of other things...

Fair enough. There are two others, telling me they're wanting me back in town, both American born and raised. One is 30 the other is 23. My ex is from Texas, 37, got with her in her 20s. I keep trying to get with older women but nearly despondent at my miserable rate of success. Truth...

Dude, see the post I just made here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158884&page=2 Some of the ideas circulating out there are hilarious. My 31 y.o. has a crush on me. I do nothing special except take care of my body, mind, and spirit.

very interesting comments, biases, experiences. My new gf is a South American actress, beautiful, smart, unbelievably sexy, 31 years old. I am handsome but not a movie star or celebrity, not rich, in good shape. I met her at a music event where I went to hear music, introduced myself, went...

My new gf and I have had to take breaks during sex, after she comes, because she laughs so hard. I do take it as a good sign, sets us up for the next round. This is new and I've been navigating my way into the relationship (I should do a FR, some really funny ASD, LMR), so I've been very...

um, are they not doing you a favor, by showing you who they really are "unplugged", early on? Or do you wish if it's gonna happen, that it happened even sooner?