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    She lied to me about who she's f*cked...how concerned should I be?

    Been in a relationship with this girl for about 6 months now. I made it clear when we started the relationship that socializing or talking with exes or people you've f*cked is not ok. You can do it, but if you do you're not gonna be with me. As far as I can tell she's cut them out of her lives...
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    Girlfriend's first birthday since we've been together...what to get her?

    We've been in an LTR for about 5 months. Things are going great, she's a fun chick with potential. Her birthday is coming up soon and I'm trying to figure out what to get, how much to spend, what to do on the day of (aside from ball the hell out of her), etc. Birthdays are a fine line to...
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    Girlfriend goes to a party, gets 2 dudes numbers, how do I handle this?

    K so I'll lay it out, we've been for several months now now, and after she had asked me multiple times, I agreed to be exclusive with her about two months ago. She lives a little over an hour away. I don't look at it as an LDR because we see each other so frequently and an hour isn't a huge...
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    Help me f*ck this chick!!

    And I'm not talking about the act of, I mean help get me to that place :trouble: Here's the long and short of it: Cold approached this chick at a store a couple of years ago. Come to find out she was 19. I was 24 at the time. The only, literally only, reason I approached her in the first...
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    What is them giving you ASD a sign of?

    Started seeing this new girl a little while ago and I just got my first ASD from her last night. I'm kind of surprised it took this long. It got me thinking though, what exactly is ASD a sign of? Them qualifying themselves? High interest? Obviously they care about what you think or they...
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    At what point do you start giving them compliments?

    First Date? Second Date? Third date? 6 months? After they've already paid you many? Too many or too soon and it will blow up in your face. But if you never build her up, you miss major opportunities to up your value in her eyes. So what do YOU think is the point to start complimenting them?
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    How often should you pay?

    How often should you pay for dates, ice cream, coffee, and other random sh*t? I usually play it to where I'm not too anxious to pay, but always willing. If she offers or really wants to for whatever reason, that's cool by me. But what do you do if you have a good time with a chick and...
  8. J

    How do you respond to "Oh baby you're so huge"

    How do you respond to a chick who tells you "you're so huge" the first time she feels your hog? Yeah yeah seems pretty simple at first. There's a million responses that would work: "Mmm, yup." "Thanks" "I'm told it feels even bigger once it's inside" The comment or the response isn't...
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    This 30 second video on YouTube sums up everything a DJ is

    Except for maybe the hair: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwWfU18boOI
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    Ex wants to f*ck, but has been with at least 2 dudes since me

    Just talked to an ex I haven't communicated with in about 9 months. She wants to hook up for a few sessions, and I'm down. My only concern is that i know she's been with at least 2 dudes since me, maybe more. I've always been paranoid about STDs and she couldn't be anymore opposite. I'm...
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    So f*cking pissed right now. Need some encouragement or...something

    Ok first off I'm hammerd. Second off, just came from a wedding which was fun as hell. Had some great ales on tap, and everyone was having a good time. I was working it on the dance floor, and I literally had 5 different hotties grinding on me as every other dude there was too p*ssy to step out...
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    Dating your ex's sister: Is it ever a good idea?

    I'm debating asking out the younger sister of my ex, I'm just trying to figure out how much of a sh*tstorm it's gonna cause (if any) and whether or not it's worth the trouble. This ex is probably the most serious girlfriend I've ever had, we were on and off for about 3 years but broke up like...
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    How would you have handled this sh*t test/cold shoulder?

    Here's the rundown of my buddy trying to hook me up with an HB7-8. I thought it'd be shooting fish in a barrel, but instead it ended up going no where fast. I'm trying to figure out what, if anything, I did wrong, or if there was a better way to handle this (non)situation. So I show up at my...
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    The latest must watch DJ movie: Wanted

    Despite the cheesy looking commercials and trailers I went and saw Wanted tonight. I've gotta say this is the best movie of the summer so far, and not only that but AFCs and DJs both gain from it, as it serves to reinforce the basic DJ mantra. There is slick unrealistic hollywood action that's...
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    Do you like chicks with tats?

    How do you feel about chicks with tats? Does it turn you on/off? Neither? Does it make you think she's independent with some personality, or maybe just a skanky unoriginal ho? Personally I can't stand tats on girls. If I'm with a hot chick I'd rather be looking at their skin rather than some...
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    Can you honestly say you wouldn't go back to your ex?

    It's the number 1 rule of DJism: NEVER go back to your ex! "Move along dude", "forget about her man" are common words of advice on this forum. Most of us have said them, but how many of us actually follow them? I'm not talking about some skank that you went out with for a couple months only...
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    Just want to get into this chick's pants, best way to do it?

    Here's the deal, I'm 25, she's 19. She's ok overall, I'd say a 6. She has a pretty cute face and an ok body. But here's the good part (if you're a tits man): she has HUGE boobies, I mean like EE or even bigger. I just want to get the chance to motorboat these babies and have 'em flop around...
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    Freaking Batman is AFC? You gotta be kidding me...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8PPh-C9pRU&eurl=http://men.style.com/details/blogs/thegadabout/2008/05/christian-bale.html The afcness starts at 0:51. How is it possible that the God*mn Batman, The Dark Knight, pimp of pimps, is afc? It's disgusting how much Hollywood and the media...
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    Need some tips for my blind date in 3 hours

    This is actually going to be a double blind date, but the blind part only applies to me and my date. My buddy's hooking me up with his step-sister who I've never met but have seen pictures of and she is smoking hot. (At least an 8.5 by anyone with even the strictest of standards). He offered...
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    Are blind dates AFC?

    I've got a friend that I work with that wants to hook me up with his step-sister on a blind date. I've never met or even seen her but I know people who have and they say she's pretty hot, at least worth a look on my end. I'm wondering if I'm starting out at a disadvantage by going about it this...
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