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    She lied to me about who she's f*cked...how concerned should I be?

    Been in a relationship with this girl for about 6 months now. I made it clear when we started the relationship that socializing or talking with exes or people you've f*cked is not ok. You can do it, but if you do you're not gonna be with me. As far as I can tell she's cut them out of her lives...
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    Girlfriend's first birthday since we've been together...what to get her?

    Yeah the card is the other thing I'm wondering about. Is it really necessary? If so what do you write? I'm not dropping the L-bomb, I'm not getting anything that's all that sentimental, so....comedy?
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    Girlfriend's first birthday since we've been together...what to get her?

    We've been in an LTR for about 5 months. Things are going great, she's a fun chick with potential. Her birthday is coming up soon and I'm trying to figure out what to get, how much to spend, what to do on the day of (aside from ball the hell out of her), etc. Birthdays are a fine line to...
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    Girlfriend goes to a party, gets 2 dudes numbers, how do I handle this?

    Update: Spoke with her last night about my feelings on the issue. I'll try to paraphrase how it went down: Me: I've been doing some thinking. Her: Uh oh... Me: I've had time to mull what happened at that party and I have some concerns. Her: Are you mad about those guys putting their numbers...
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    Girlfriend goes to a party, gets 2 dudes numbers, how do I handle this?

    I hear you, and like I've been saying nothing about women surprises me, so I'm very open to the idea that she cheated on me. But, but, when we got together, I had to work hard, and I mean hard to stick it. Not only that but she wasn't on bc until we got together, she's only been on it two months...
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    Girlfriend goes to a party, gets 2 dudes numbers, how do I handle this?

    Oh and one other thing to add, she changed her main facebook picture to one of us kissing. Not sure if this means she's feeling guilty about something or really trying to show me how much she "cares"...
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    Girlfriend goes to a party, gets 2 dudes numbers, how do I handle this?

    I hear you but at the same time I get pretty f*cking chatty and horny when I'm drunk. It wouldn't shock me if she had done something else, but at the same time I know how I get when I'm under the influence.
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    Girlfriend goes to a party, gets 2 dudes numbers, how do I handle this?

    So what do you think is the best course of action at this point? Go back over what we discussed, throw in what I think, the gist of which is that her behavior was unacceptable and if she does it again we're through? Of course if I do this how much honesty have I inspired? Not much probably...
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    Girlfriend goes to a party, gets 2 dudes numbers, how do I handle this?

    It's times like these I'm thankful for this forum, and I didn't think the feedback would be so one-sided. Sucks man! Nothing surprises me though. If she had f*cked a dude at that party I wouldn't be shocked. Not because I think she's a cheating wh*re per se, but I don't put anything past a...
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    Girlfriend goes to a party, gets 2 dudes numbers, how do I handle this?

    K so I'll lay it out, we've been for several months now now, and after she had asked me multiple times, I agreed to be exclusive with her about two months ago. She lives a little over an hour away. I don't look at it as an LDR because we see each other so frequently and an hour isn't a huge...
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    Got angry at a girl for flaking

    Never ever lose your cool in situations like this. Ever. It shows desperation, lack of control, and screams out "BOY" to her. Even if you feel like pulling your hair out and ripping your shirt off, don't ever let them know. Next time, after you get the "I'm hanging with a buddy on Friday"...
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    Should I tell her

    Dude are you for real? You're going to actually try and claim that you're not being AFC and rip on Warrior's advice, which was right on? Your head is in the clouds man, and I'm still trying to clean off the AFC you upchucked all over me with your first post. "Sex complicates things?" Who told...
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    Girlfriend teaching in China in the fall...breakup?

    Stick a fork in it man. First of all, the fact that she's telling you the relationship is "pointless" is a tell tale sign that it's over. O-V-E-R. This is where you walk away. If you don't you'll only make things worse for yourself. On top of that, she's moving to the other side of the...
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    Help me f*ck this chick!!

    Thanks for your input so far guys. Still taking thoughts...
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    Help me f*ck this chick!!

    And I'm not talking about the act of, I mean help get me to that place :trouble: Here's the long and short of it: Cold approached this chick at a store a couple of years ago. Come to find out she was 19. I was 24 at the time. The only, literally only, reason I approached her in the first...
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    What is them giving you ASD a sign of?

    It was a totally random ASD in the middle of a phone conversation. This is a chick that I've been seeing for the last few months. She gives me IOIs and compliments on an almost daily basis but we're not in a relationship and I haven't brought it up. She was telling me something about a guy...
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    What is them giving you ASD a sign of?

    Started seeing this new girl a little while ago and I just got my first ASD from her last night. I'm kind of surprised it took this long. It got me thinking though, what exactly is ASD a sign of? Them qualifying themselves? High interest? Obviously they care about what you think or they...
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    Girl gave me number, then turned into a b!tch. How could I have done this differently

    You way overdid it man. Too much game, you were trying way too hard. I agree with Kingy's thoughts for the most part.
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